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04/10/2025

80% OF DIVORCES ARE FILED BY WOMEN—AND MEN STILL GET BLAMED AS THE QUITTERS

Here’s the brutal truth: four out of five divorces aren’t filed by men. They’re filed by women. Yet when the dust settles, when the papers are signed, and when the kids start carrying backpacks between two houses, the finger still points at the man. Society still says: “He quit.” But the facts tell a story most refuse to face.

1. Men don’t leave—they endure. A man will stay in a dead marriage long after the intimacy, respect, and warmth have vanished. He’ll sleep in silence, eat disrespect, and swallow rejection because he knows what’s at stake—family, legacy, stability. That isn’t quitting. That’s sacrifice.

2. Women walk away—and call it “growth.” The modern script rewards abandonment. She doesn’t call it quitting, she calls it “I’m unhappy,” “I’ve outgrown him,” or “I deserve better.” But vows said “for better or worse.” Boredom was never grounds for betrayal. “Finding yourself” shouldn’t mean destroying your family.

3. The courts reward the leaver. There’s a reason women file first. Custody leans their way. Child support flows their way. Assets split in their favor. Divorce isn’t just about broken hearts—it’s about incentives. And the system pays her to leave.

4. Men get branded as failures. Even when he didn’t file, even when he fought until his soul bled, society still brands him the quitter. “Why couldn’t he hold it together?” “Why didn’t he fight harder?” Nobody ever asks, “Who walked into the lawyer’s office first?”

5. Children carry the real scars. Adults argue about who quit. Kids don’t. They just learn to live between two homes. Two holidays. Two broken lives. They lose the safety of one roof and one family—all for her pursuit of “happiness.”

6. The lie of quitting. Men don’t quit marriage. They quit being disrespected. They quit being treated like wallets. They quit begging for love from someone who already left emotionally. And most of the time—they didn’t quit at all. They got left.

7. The brutal truth. If 80% of divorces are filed by women, then 80% of the time—it wasn’t the man who quit. It was her. And yet—he’s the one who walks around carrying the scarlet letter of failure.

FINAL WARNING: Don’t let culture rewrite the script. Don’t let them brand you the quitter for surviving the war she declared. She filed. She left. She quit. And the children—the very ones you both swore to protect—are the ones left bleeding in silence.

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01/10/2025

15 SIGNS YOU’RE A WEAK MAN

(And Why Life Keeps Beating You)

- Masculinity Thread - 🧵

1. A WEAK MAN IS A SLAVE TO HIS D!CK.

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27/09/2025

10 REASONS YOU WILL NEVER BE RICH

Men, listen carefully.

If you’re still broke in today’s world, it’s not the system, it’s not your family, it’s not fate — it’s YOU.
Your habits are soft. Your mindset is weak. Your priorities are twisted. You bow to pleasure instead of power. You waste time on lust instead of legacy. And deep down, you know it.

If you don’t fix these brutal truths, poverty will chain you for life. And no woman, no government, no god of mercy will free you.

A dangerous thread for men who want reality, not comfort:

📌 1. YOU LOVE P***Y MORE THAN PROGRESS
You chase women, not purpose. You drain your energy on s*x, not strategy. That’s why they keep using you — and your bank account keeps crying.

📌 2. YOU PREFER FUN OVER GROWTH
You’d rather binge Netflix than build skill. Rather party than plan. That’s why your life looks fun on weekends — but empty every Monday.

📌 3. PLEASURE IS YOUR GOD
You want quick dopamine, not delayed reward. You run from discomfort. But real wealth only comes to those who bleed for it first.

📌 4. YOU SPEND MORE ON WOMEN THAN WISDOM
You’ll pay for hair, food, and phones — but complain when a book costs $10. You’re feeding lust, not your mind.

📌 5. YOU ENJOY TODAY AT THE COST OF YOUR FUTURE
No investments. No savings. Just vibes. You’re spending like life is a party — but retirement will feel like a nightmare.

📌 6. YOU AVOID RESPONSIBILITY
You think being a man is about looks and women. It’s not. It’s about protecting, providing, and producing — with or without applause.

📌 7. YOU FEAR FAILURE MORE THAN MEDIOCRITY
You’d rather stay safe than risk something great. So you scroll, watch others win, and shrink in silence.

📌 8. YOU HAVE NO FINANCIAL EDUCATION
You know gossip, games, and girls — but nothing about assets, taxes, or cash flow. You’ve made ignorance your identity.

📌 9. YOU HANG WITH BROKE-MINDED FRIENDS
If your circle doesn’t talk about money, mastery, and mission — you’re in a poverty cult pretending to be “chill.”

📌 10. YOU’RE LAZY
You want soft life with no struggle. Wealth without work. Success without sacrifice. Keep dreaming.

FINAL WARNING:
Nobody is coming to save you.
If you don’t shift your habits and war against weakness — you’ll be another man who lived poor and died forgotten.
Make money your servant, not your god.
Earn with purpose. Build with discipline. Leave a legacy, not excuses.