22/06/2021
We often hear about, "dying with dignity," but isn't it more important to live with dignity? To live our lives with not only the respect from others, but first and foremost, respect for ourselves? When one lives with an affliction that results in so many physical challenges, understandably respect for oneself may be compromised. The inability to walk properly (or at all), impediments to speech, the tendency to fall, or drop things from unsure hands can cause embarrassment at the least, and commonly, disgust and heartache.
But should these physical abnormalities impact the dignity we see in ourselves? Or should we look much deeper, beyond those mere physical traits to find the dignity with which we desire to live? Without question, how we conduct our lives surpasses any physical characteristic in measuring respect and dignity. We are called to this life to assist, help, comfort, love - actions that come from the mind, heart and soul. If we partake in these, regardless of our physical abilities, we can be assured of dignity and self respect in our being. More than that, others will see us in that same light - a dignified example to be emulated, one that inspires others to achieve similar results.
Yes, dying with dignity, when the time comes, would be nice, though it's often beyond our control. What we can control, though, is the dignity with which we live our lives. May we all realize that as we seek peace and purpose in our being.