Dr. Anosh Fiaz

24/07/2025

12/06/2025

Pratik Joshi had been living in London for the past six years. A software professional, he had long dreamed of building a better future abroad for his wife and their three young children, who were staying back in India.

After years of planning, paperwork, and patience, that dream was finally coming true. Just two days ago, his wife, Dr. Komi Vyas, a medical professional, resigned from her job in India. The bags were packed, the goodbyes said, the future waiting.

This morning, all five of them, filled with hope, excitement, and plans, boarded Air India flight 171 to London. Clicked this selfie, sent it to relatives. A one-way journey to begin a new life.

But they never made it. The plane crashed. None of them survived.

In a matter of moments, a lifetime of dreams turned to ash. A brutal reminder, life is terrifyingly fragile. Everything you build, everything you hope for, everything you love, it all hangs by a thread. So while you can, live, love, and don’t wait for happiness to start tomorrow.

03/01/2022

THE DARK SIDE OF BEING A DOCTOR

"Loneliness"

Profound loneliness. You can be surrounded by friends, family and colleagues, but in reality, you are quite alone. If your family does not consist of doctors, they hardly understand the difficulties that you go through. They sympathize with you, yet are unable to grasp the reality of your training and career. Why you must spend days and weeks and even years apart from them. Why a lot of their calls are unanswered by you, while you are busy during rounds or managing patients. Why you are not at home at the festival evenings.

Your old school friends do not really understand how hard the years have been. Why you couldn't attend all the weddings you were called to. Some just attribute it to arrogance. Some understand. Only a few are driven enough to maintain a relationship where you hardly meet, talk or hang out. Nobody realizes that you hardly have time for yourself, leave alone the closest of friends. When you do meet your old buddies, from various different fields, you can feel a fence that has formed around you. You smile and nod your head. Yet, you are some distance away. The conversations seem a bit trivial compared to what goes on every day in your other life. Your college friends don't stay with you for too long. Forever branching and specializing fields of medicine mean everyone either ends up in a different college, City or country eventually. You do drop each other a message once in a while, especially if you can remember who it is that you are missing. Conversations do not progress beyond a few words, as both of you are busy beyond compare. Time and distances lighten the strongest of bonds. Your partner/spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend understands your trials and tribulations with difficulty. A similar profession leads to conflict, ego struggles and comparisons. A different profession causes irritation and indignation at your personal priorities. Your patients may love you for your clinical acumen but neither do you form friendships nor expect any support in times of trouble. You keep a distance. Always. Proximity causes lack of objectivity. And patients rarely come out in open support of their physician.

Your colleagues in the same branch view you as COMPETITION. So much so that they would be secretly relieved to see you fail. You colleagues in other branches form cordial, friendly relations. You meet once a year for joint conferences and sometimes discuss patients which have been referred. You can expect a bit of professional support but nothing emotional or personal. The hospital you work in couldn't care less about you. You are indispensable to them until you are replaced. Not all this is true for everyone in all scenarios, but, yes, you learn to live with this reality. Add to this the constant fear of litigation, violence and disciplinary action. It can get very lonely at the top for doctors sometimes. And the higher you go, the further away you are from everyone.

Written by Dr Venkatesh Kharalkar.

07/11/2021

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