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Abdul Basit Qamar

Psychologist | HR Consultant | Author
Founder - The Growing You | The Fifth Work
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I’m Abdul Basit Qamar, a Strategic HR Generalist and HRCI-certified professional with 3+ years of experience driving talent acquisition, DEI strategies, and organizational development for startups and SMEs. My expertise spans designing scalable HR systems, optimizing employee engagement, and ensuring compliance through HR policy development. I integrate modern HR frameworks and AI-driven solutions

, such as predictive analytics, to future-proof workplaces. As the Founder of The Fifth Work, I partner with startups and midsize companies as their outsourced HR arm—building strong HR foundations, designing people-first strategies, and aligning HR with business growth. We specialize in HR policy, performance systems, talent strategy, and emotional intelligence at work—bridging psychology with scalable human resource practices. Beyond HR, I am a Certified Counselor, offering guidance in career transitions, mental health, and personal growth. As the Founder of The Growing You, I’ve empowered 300+ individuals through life coaching and emotional wellness programs, fostering self-discovery and resilience. My passion for holistic development extends to authorship—I’ve written multiple books on psychological insight, and self-development, blending research with actionable strategies. My mission is simple: to bridge HR excellence with human-centric practices, creating environments where businesses thrive and individuals flourish. Let’s connect to explore collaborations in HR innovation, leadership development, or holistic well-being initiatives.

30/07/2025

Empower Your Child’s Journey with Family Support
Behind every student’s stress is often a silent cry for support. Academic pressure, self-doubt, and uncertainty about the future can take a toll—but when family and professional counselling come together, real transformation begins.
🏠 Why Family Support Matters
✅ Shapes emotional resilience and confidence
✅ Influences academic motivation and focus
✅ Strengthens decision-making and coping skills
✅ Builds trust, empathy, and emotional stability
🧠 What Family-Integrated Counselling Offers
✅ Reinforcement of positive strategies at home
✅ Improved parent-student understanding
✅ A safe space for honest conversations
✅ Sustainable emotional growth
💡 A Reminder
Support isn’t about solving everything—it’s about showing up, listening deeply, and walking the path with your child.
💬 Worried about your child’s stress or confusion?
Book a student counselling session today—and discover how your presence can be their greatest strength.

Academic pressure, peer comparisons, and life decisions can easily overwhelm students. While professional counselling offers structure and guidance,

29/07/2025

Workplace Stress Isn’t “Just Part of the Job”
That drained, heavy feeling after work? It’s more than just being busy—it’s emotional exhaustion. Therapy can help you regain control, set boundaries, and thrive in your career without sacrificing your well-being.
⚠️ What’s Fueling Your Stress?
✅ Tight deadlines and constant pressure
✅ Conflict with coworkers or leadership
✅ Unclear roles and unrealistic expectations
✅ Toxic culture or lack of support
💬 How Therapy Helps
✅ Regulate anxiety, irritability, and overwhelm
✅ Shift negative thought patterns
✅ Set healthy boundaries without guilt
✅ Create a routine that supports well-being
💡 Remember
Therapy isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s a smart investment in your clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.
💬 Feeling overwhelmed at work?
Book a stress management therapy session and take your first step toward emotional balance.

Stress at work isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes it’s the quiet pressure of deadlines, unspoken expectations, and constant mental load that

28/07/2025

Why HR Counselling Is Essential for Workplace Wellness

Stressed teams don’t thrive—they survive. HR counselling helps employees feel supported, not squeezed. It's more than a benefit—it's a business need.

⚠️ The Hidden Cost of Stress
✅ Burnout from long hours and blurred boundaries
✅ Absenteeism and high employee turnover
✅ Low morale, poor focus, and disengagement
✅ Personal responsibilities clashing with work demands

🧠 What HR Counselling Offers
✅ Safe space for emotional expression
✅ Practical stress-management strategies
✅ Clearer boundaries and role clarity
✅ Access to mental health referrals when needed

🤝 Why It Matters
Healthy employees are productive employees. Supporting mental well-being boosts loyalty, improves communication, and builds a positive workplace culture.

💬 Ready to support your team the right way?
Book an HR counselling consultation today—and take the first step toward a balanced, thriving workforce.

When the pressure piles up and balance slips away, even the most talented teams can begin to struggle. That’s why HR counselling is no longer just a

27/07/2025

How to Find the Right Marriage Counsellor

Struggling in your marriage? Finding a counsellor shouldn’t add to the stress. The right professional won’t just mediate—they’ll help you rebuild trust, connection, and understanding.

🔍 What Makes a Good Marriage Counsellor?
✅ Non-judgmental and emotionally safe
✅ Skilled in couple communication
✅ Experienced in marital dynamics
✅ Empathetic, neutral, and balanced
✅ Encourages growth and accountability

🛋️ What to Expect in a Session
✅ Open space to express feelings
✅ Insightful questions and guidance
✅ Conflict resolution strategies
✅ Tools to improve communication
✅ Focus on healing, not blaming

💡 Remember
Not all counsellors are the same. Choose someone who sees both of you, supports both of you, and empowers your journey as a couple.

💬 Need help choosing the right one?
Book a marriage counselling session with our trusted experts—because healing starts with understanding.

When your relationship is going through a difficult phase, the last thing you need is more confusion. A good marriage counsellor doesn’t just listen

26/07/2025

Coaching vs Counselling: What Do You Need Right Now?
Feeling stuck but unsure where to turn? You’re not alone. Life coaching and counselling both support growth, but in different ways. Choosing the right one depends on your emotional state and goals.
🧠 When to Choose Counselling
✅ You’re dealing with anxiety, grief, or depression
✅ Emotional pain is affecting daily life
✅ You need space to heal and process trauma
🚀 When to Choose Life Coaching
✅ You feel okay but lack direction or purpose
✅ You’re ready to set and achieve goals
✅ You want motivation, structure, and accountability
💡 The Core Difference
🔹 Counselling: Past-focused & healing-based
🔹 Coaching: Future-focused & action-oriented
🔹 Counselling: Requires clinical training
🔹 Coaching: Flexible structure and forward planning
🎯 Can You Choose Both?
Yes! Many people benefit from both—healing the past and building the future.
💬 Unsure which one fits your needs?
Book a free discovery call today and find out what’s right for you.

You’re not alone. Many people know they need support—but aren’t sure which kind is right for their situation. While life coaching and counselling both

25/07/2025

Is Your Teen Struggling Emotionally? You're Not Alone.
Teens today face enormous pressure—academics, social media, peer influence, and identity issues. If your teen seems distant or anxious, it’s not “just a phase.” Counselling can help them open up, cope, and thrive.
🚩 Warning Signs to Watch For
✅ Constant sadness or irritability
✅ Withdrawing from friends or activities
✅ Sleep or appetite changes
✅ Poor school performance
✅ Expressing hopelessness or overwhelm
💡 How Counselling Helps
✅ Creates a safe, non-judgmental space to talk
✅ Teaches emotional awareness and coping tools
✅ Builds confidence and communication skills
✅ Supports during life transitions or crises
🤝 What Parents Should Know
✅ You don’t have to fix it all—being supportive is enough
✅ Counselling is not a last resort, it’s a powerful early step
✅ Teens benefit from guidance beyond home and school
💬 Worried about your teen?
Support their mental wellness early. Book a session with a teen mental health counsellor today.

You’re not alone. Many parents notice subtle shifts in their teenager’s behavior but feel unsure how to help. Mental health counselling can offer the

24/07/2025

When Anxiety Feels Like Too Much—You're Not Alone

Anxiety and panic attacks can hit suddenly, making you feel trapped and terrified. But with the right help, you can learn to calm your mind and regain control. Therapy offers proven tools to navigate and reduce anxiety step by step.

🧠 Understanding Anxiety & Panic
✅ Anxiety is a natural stress response—but chronic anxiety disrupts life.
✅ Panic attacks involve intense fear with symptoms like chest tightness, dizziness, and shortness of breath.
✅ Avoidance, racing thoughts, and constant fear are key signs.

💡 How Therapy Helps
✅ Identify and manage anxiety triggers
✅ Replace irrational thoughts with grounded thinking
✅ Practice real-life tools like breathing and grounding
✅ Build confidence through coping strategies

🛠️ Popular Therapeutic Approaches
✅ CBT: Change thought and behavior patterns
✅ Mindfulness Therapy: Stay present, reduce overthinking
✅ Exposure Therapy: Safely face fears and reduce avoidance

⏳ Why Early Help Matters
Ignoring anxiety doesn’t make it disappear—it makes it grow. Therapy empowers you to break the cycle before it gets stronger.

💬 You are not your anxiety.
Take the first step—book a therapy session today and rediscover your calm.
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Anxiety and panic attacks can feel overwhelming, frightening, and deeply isolating. One moment, everything seems fine; the next, your body feels like

23/07/2025

Before You Say “I Do” – Ask the Right Questions
Marriage is more than love—it's shared values, honest communication, and aligned goals. Premarital counseling helps couples uncover what truly matters before making lifelong promises.
🧠 Why These Questions Matter
✅ Clarifies expectations and roles
✅ Strengthens emotional trust
✅ Reduces chances of future conflicts
✅ Builds a realistic and united vision
❓ Essential Questions to Explore
✅ What are your life goals—career, children, lifestyle?
✅ How do you manage finances and savings?
✅ What role does religion/spirituality play for you?
✅ How do we resolve conflicts or disagreements?
✅ What are your boundaries and personal space needs?
✅ What does intimacy mean to each of us?
✅ How do you see our roles evolving over time?
💡 Tips for Couples
✅ Stay open and curious
✅ Be honest—even if it’s hard
✅ Listen to understand, not defend
✅ Reflect on each session together
💬 A strong marriage starts with the right questions.
Book your premarital counseling session today and lay the foundation for a meaningful and lasting partnership!

Marriage is more than a romantic commitment—it's a partnership built on communication, values, and shared vision. Premarital counseling helps couples

22/07/2025

Growth Is the New Retention Strategy

In today’s workplace, employees aren’t just chasing higher salaries—they’re seeking purpose, progress, and personal development. A growth-driven employee experience is no longer optional; it’s essential for retention and performance.

🌱 What Growth-Oriented Employees Want
✅ Career advancement opportunities
✅ Ongoing upskilling and learning
✅ Meaningful, regular feedback
✅ Freedom to share ideas and lead initiatives

🏗️ How to Build It
✅ Personalized development plans that align goals
✅ A learning culture driven by mentorship and curiosity
✅ Celebrate progress—not just end results
✅ Honest, coaching-style feedback

🤝 Why It Matters
When growth is embedded in the workplace culture, employees stay longer, contribute more, and create a cycle of innovation and trust.

💬 Let’s build a workplace where people grow—together.

Book an HR consulting session to design growth-centered policies and employee development programs!

It’s not just about paychecks or perks anymore. Today’s employees seek meaning, mentorship, and movement. A growth-oriented employee experience is

21/07/2025

When Relationship Red Flags Become Too Loud to Ignore

Every couple faces stress, disagreements, and change. But when certain negative patterns repeat and leave emotional wounds, they’re not just “phases”—they’re red flags. Early marriage counselling can help prevent regret, resentment, and emotional disconnect.

🚩 What Is a Red Flag?
A red flag isn’t just an argument—it’s a repeated behavior that causes lasting emotional pain, fear, or distance. Recognizing these signs early can save the relationship.

⚠️ Red Flags to Watch For
❌ Constant criticism or blame
❌ Emotional disconnection—living like strangers
❌ Recurring arguments with no resolution
❌ Trust issues—secrecy, betrayal, or doubt
❌ Fear of expressing thoughts or emotions

💬 “Red flags don’t mean the end. They mean it’s time to pause, reflect, and seek help.”

🛠️ How Marriage Counselling Helps
✅ Rebuild emotional connection and intimacy
✅ Create a safe space for open communication
✅ Address underlying issues without blame
✅ Learn practical tools for trust and conflict resolution

💡 You Don’t Have to Be in Crisis to Seek Help
Strong couples ask for help before things fall apart. Seeking support is a sign of commitment—not failure.

💬 Book a marriage counselling session today and take the first step toward healing and reconnecting!

Marriages go through ups and downs. But when certain patterns become frequent, painful, or emotionally draining, it might be time to seek help. Early

20/07/2025

“I Study, But I Still Don’t Get It” — Why Learning Gaps Matter

Many students work hard but still fall behind—not because they’re lazy, but because they’re stuck with unseen learning gaps. These gaps silently grow over time and make current studies feel confusing or frustrating. Educational counselling can turn this struggle into strength.

🧩 What Are Learning Gaps?
Learning gaps are the missing links between past learning and current lessons. When students miss foundational concepts, everything built on top feels shaky.

❗ Common Causes
❌ Missed key concepts
❌ Memorizing without understanding
❌ One-size-fits-all teaching methods
❌ Low confidence or past academic failures

🛠️ How Educational Counselling Helps
✅ Academic assessments to find weak spots
✅ Study strategies tailored to learning style
✅ Custom study plans based on goals
✅ Confidence-boosting techniques

💬 “It’s not about studying harder—it’s about studying smarter and feeling supported.”

🧠 Support Beyond the Books
📌 Handles anxiety, fear of failure, and perfectionism
📌 Helps balance school with life stress
📌 Builds motivation and emotional resilience

🌱 It’s Never Too Late to Catch Up
Every student deserves the tools and support to succeed—at their own pace and in their own way.

💬 Book an educational counselling session today to close the gap and build lasting confidence!

Falling behind in school doesn’t always mean a lack of effort. Often, it’s a sign of learning gaps—missing foundational concepts, poor study technique

19/07/2025

From Surviving to Thriving: Let Students Grow, Not Just Grind

Many students are stuck in survival mode—barely coping with stress, deadlines, and academic pressure. But true education is about more than just grades—it’s about personal growth, self-awareness, and mental wellness. That’s where educational counselling steps in.

💡 Why Thriving Matters
Surviving = fear, burnout, confusion.
Thriving = clarity, confidence, and direction.

🎯 Warning Signs of Survival Mode
❌ Constant anxiety
❌ Lack of motivation
❌ No clear purpose
❌ Fear of failure and comparison

🌱 How Educational Counselling Helps
✅ Clarifies academic/career direction
✅ Builds emotional resilience
✅ Improves focus and motivation
✅ Boosts self-confidence and mental strength

📈 What Students Gain
🔹 Clear goals and personalized study plans
🔹 Better time and stress management
🔹 Positive mindset and self-awareness
🔹 Tools to handle academic pressure

🚨 Don’t Let Education Become a Burden
With the right guidance, students don’t just pass—they evolve. Let’s shift the focus from just surviving to truly thriving.

💬 Want to help a student thrive—not just survive?

Book an educational counselling session and give them the confidence to grow!

Late nights, constant stress, and the pressure to perform have become a norm. But education was never meant to be just survival—it’s meant to help

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