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9 years away from where I was born, and the conversation between ‘Home’ and ‘Away’ never really ends. It just gets a lit...
08/04/2026

9 years away from where I was born,
and the conversation between ‘Home’ and ‘Away’
never really ends.
It just gets a little more gentle.

What’s your reshaping after moving away from your home?

03/04/2026

Distance isn’t just measured in miles, it’s measured in the moments we aren’t there for.

It’s the weddings you miss where you no longer recognize the inside jokes.

It’s the funerals you attend through a screen,
grieving in a living room that feels too far away.

When we live far from home, our nervous systems often stay on high alert.

We are the sole keepers of our culture, our safety, and our children’s support. Without a village, “coping” becomes a full-time job.

Our nervous systems are wired for connection.

When we move, we lose the “soft places to land” like a mother’s kitchen or a lifelong friend’s couch.

If you feel an unexplained exhaustion today,
it might just be the energy it takes to “translate” a world that doesn’t yet feel like yours.

You can be grateful for your new life and deeply,
profoundly sad about the distance at the same time. Both things are true.

If you’re feeling the distance today,
try to be a gentle companion to yourself.
You aren’t “failing” at your move;
you’re just human.

Happy Easter friends 🌿

living aboard • mothering • foreign mum • nervous system regulation • inner healing • oversea life

The words we use to describe our struggles often carry so much shame. But when we look through the lens of the nervous s...
02/04/2026

The words we use to describe our struggles often carry so much shame.

But when we look through the lens of the nervous system, we see that our “flaws” are often just protective responses.

If you’re feeling heavy today, stop the negotiation.

Let yourself be an “egg.”
Let yourself be “C-minus.”
You are safe to move slowly. 🤍

31/03/2026

As a parent without family, friends around, this is the reality we dealing with.

Because if we don’t do it,
the meals,
the laundry,
the emotional holding, the invisible planning,
the work, the trying to stay well, healthy …

then who will?

There is no one waiting in the wings.
No soft place to hand things over to.

So you keep going.
You become the village.
Even on the days your body wants to slow down
and your mind flies with unfinished lists.

But maybe the answer isn’t
to do less
or to do more.

Maybe it’s to loosen the grip on
how it all gets done.

A simpler meal.
A slower morning.
A walk instead of a workout.
A mess that stays a little longer.

Not everything needs to be carried perfectly to still be carried with love.

You are not failing because it feels heavy.
It is heavy.

And still,
you are showing up,
you are holding life together
in your own quiet way,
you are building something steady,
even without a village.

And that counts.
More than you think.

❤️

I used to hear people say, “the hardest part of parenting is meeting your child where they are.”And I didn’t really unde...
30/03/2026

I used to hear people say, “the hardest part of parenting is meeting your child where they are.”

And I didn’t really understand it.

But now, being in it… I’m starting to see it differently.

It’s not about who they were yesterday.
It’s not about who they might become.

It’s about right here.
This moment.
Who they are today.

And sometimes… that’s the hardest place to stay.

What’s the hardest lesson you learnt as a parent?

Some words in my diary this week and I want to share with you if you’re feeling that “debt”, the pressure to be selfless...
29/03/2026

Some words in my diary this week and I want to share with you if you’re feeling that “debt”, the pressure to be selfless until you disappear.

Take a moment to notice it.

Your children are watching you become whole.

And there is no greater gift
than the sight of a person who is truly,
deeply alive.

❤️

25/02/2026

Because growth isn’t always becoming someone new.�Sometimes it’s simply letting go of words that were never meant to define you.
And when those voices inside you being soften, life doesn’t suddenly become easy,�but it finally starts to feel like yours.

Share it with your self doubt friends 💌

Here’s the truth you might not want to hear.Those limits you have heard and grown up with, They affect on how visible yo...
24/02/2026

Here’s the truth you might not want to hear.

Those limits you have heard and grown up with,
They affect on how visible you can be.

How much you’re allowed to want.
How freely you can feel, dream, and imagine.

And those limits don’t disappear on their own.
They need to be gently unlearned.

What you heard growing up may explain your hesitation, but they definitely don’t define your future. The moment you notice those old voices, they begin to lose their power.

You’re not blocked by laziness.

You’re often navigating emotional rules that once kept you safe:
don’t stand out
don’t disappoint
don’t risk rejection
don’t dream too far

Yet safety and aliveness are not the same.

And breaking these beliefs rarely looks dramatic. It begins with your permission, to want more, to try before feeling ready, to be imperfect and fully yourself.

The life you want isn’t built through force.
It’s built through reclamation.

Reclaiming your voice.
Your curiosity.
Your desires.
Your space.

May we all chase our dreams freely. 💌

Because what feels like being stuck is often a doorway where growth has no applause, no milestones, and no checklist, on...
19/02/2026

Because what feels like being stuck is often a doorway where growth has no applause, no milestones, and no checklist, only inside you.

And letting go of the achiever belief does not make you less ambitious. It makes your ambition more humane.

It shifts you from:
achievement → alignment
performance → authenticity
productivity → meaning
control → connection

You are not behind.
You are unlearning a survival identity that motherhood made impossible to sustain.

And that is not regression.
That is evolution.

Share with other overachievers who need to hear it 💌

And now, I call a country I once couldn’t name home.I stay. I build. I mother.My body is softer, stronger, listened to.I...
12/01/2026

And now,
I call a country I once couldn’t name home.
I stay. I build. I mother.
My body is softer, stronger, listened to.
I travel differently,
I listen to myself inward, slower, with intention.

So much changed.
Not because I planned it.
But because I lived.

I didn’t know yet that living could be brave.
That choosing one place, one body, one season
could be its own kind of freedom.

This isn’t a glow-up.
It’s a grow-deep.

If you’re watching this and thinking
“I could never imagine my life like this”

good.
That means you’re still becoming.

#20162026

Maybe this post is more just for me. Maybe the new year vision comes a bit later than 01.01.But that doesn’t kill the ex...
06/01/2026

Maybe this post is more just for me.
Maybe the new year vision comes a bit later than 01.01.
But that doesn’t kill the excitement of stepping into it.

How about you? What’s something you decide to let go and become this year?

I look forward to actually connect and social with you ❤️🫶🏻

#2026

If this resonates with you, you’re not alone. There’s a community of moms just like you, healing from guilt, sharing the...
19/11/2024

If this resonates with you, you’re not alone. There’s a community of moms just like you, healing from guilt, sharing their struggles, and supporting one another.

Want to join? Comment “Village,” and I’ll send you the link.

Let’s take this journey together because you deserve it.❤️

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