The Art of Sacred Relating

17/04/2025

How alcohol and other mind-altering substances can impact your health, wealth and spiritual journey. 💔🌧🤣

Ola divine one 🌺

I know first hand about the damaging effects of frequent alcohol use and abuse. In short I'm a projector in human design, designed to work 5-6 hours a day max, but I grew up working in New York City and began working 10 and 12 hour days as an entrepreneur. I was a part of the rat race and the goal is to win, so you need to do what you have to do to win, which is often not healthy for self, other or earth. I was living against nature and my own nature, which is the same vibration as the natural world.

Over the years my alcohol usage varied and for a number of years I was completely abstinent from drinking, which I mostly am today. The way that I used alcohol and the way that I hear clients, loved ones and people that I meet describe there relationship with alcohol is that it is a reward. The problem with this way of thinking is it's usually based on a work hard play hard or an i do this beacuse i Have To sort of attitude. When we go about life in this way we are in a contracted state because we are forcing ourselves and fueling ourselves for it. Think about it, you don't see any other creature on the planet behaving the way humans do.

Now that I've spent the last 6 years living in nature and allowed myself over time to Do, when it feels like the right moment to Do. What has been cultivated is a particular state of Being, in harmony with my inner world and much more in harmony with the natural world that surrounds me.

The work I do is helping people with relationships and the first relationship that needs to be healed is the one with yourself. It requires fully loving yourself and giving yourself permission for your unique mission on this planet. It's a process of rebirth and with any rebirth the first needs to be a death. Otherwise you go into a state of contraction attempt to numb yourself or blame others for your circumstances. This is the state of the victim and the journey that I take people on in my mentorship program is moving from a victim to a creator and eventually merging with the divine. This may sound a bit woo woo, but the Divine is a tree, is a bird, is anything and everything in the natural world, unfortunately humans have become lost from their nature and so we suffer as a result.

If you want to change the trajectory of your life it will require the death of the ego, the false self. You may need to change everything in your life, especially the way that you think speak and act. Have one more space for a free Discovery call or relationship rewire call. Send me a PM or check out the website at orgasmicliving.org.

Blessings
Christo
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17/02/2025

EMPATHY BEGINS WITH...

Ola beloveds 🌕 sharing a bit on the topic of empathy in this beautiful moment of awareness around my journey with empathy.

Empathy begins with steps like practicing the art of active listening, embodiment of the 4 agreements and learning to communicate in a "non-violent" way.

Beyond that I believe that empathy is most easily accessed by those who feel more or have developed their abilities to be present and compassionate.

When we employ these skills and/or strategies in a skillful way conversation truly becomes an art form. This art form is one that I am very passionate about because I feel it is the Cornerstone in building loving and trusting relationships. This goes for any and all relationships including business, social and/or romantic relationships. Finally when these skills are mastered we develop healthy whole families that are able to show up for each other no matter the circumstance in a stable, loving and clear way. And make no mistake when I say loving it means loving yourself first! It is only from this place of truly loving yourself that you can ever possibly truely see, hear or have empathy for another.

Check out the following video if you want to learn more about empathy and the many benefits of doing so.

Blessings
Christo
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11/02/2025

Ola beautiful beings 🌈

Sharing a little bit about feminine leadership and weaving feminine style practices into our relationships. And when I say relationships I mean any and all relationships including business, romantic, family relationships etc.

Feminine Leadership is a leadership style associated with traditionally feminine traits and values such as empathy, collaboration, communication, and emotional intelligence. It emphasizes relationship building, inclusiveness, a focus on personal growth and well-being, and a more holistic approach to decision-making.

When we start to weave this way of being into all of the various aspects of life then what we're talking about is a completely new paradigm!

This is what keeps me going everyday and keeps me excited knowing that we're moving in this direction and being that change.

If you're someone who deeply desires to create a truly impactful and meaningful life for themselves no matter what age you are it's never too early or too late because your soul is Ageless, it is the same soul that you had when you were born and is the same soul that you will have when you die. Age is just a number and if you Believe that you can Have a profound impact on the world, which we all have the Capacity to do. Then I encourage you to Reach out And connect with me to See how we might work together in 2025, the time is now!

Blessings and Hugs
Christo
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28/01/2025

Don't be fooled You are a part of a much larger organism.. so when you refer to yourself it's actually better to say We. 💕

As soon as We come to fully realize this it will be equivalent to Jim Carrey realizing he was part of a TV show in the movie The Truman Show. 🌈

You can literally stop what you're doing put your briefcase down take off that costume that you wear to "work" everyday and realize that you are much like a cell in the body of a larger creature. In essence you do not need to figure anything out you just do what you do and Trust that others will do what they do and in the end we have a whole. The problem is we are conditioned to thinking we need to be the whole organism and not just a cell or organ that does its job and trusts that the other pieces of the puzzle will naturally come together, one way or another, they always do.. always!🌙

23/10/2024

When we HEAL OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH OUR PARENTS/CAREGIVERS then we heal all of our relationships, staring with the relationship to Self.

If you're experiencing challenges in your romantic relationships this video is for you because here I talk about one of the common obstacles that couples face which is reenacting the relationship they have with the parental figures in their life.

It isn't until we are able to truly see all the patterns and ways of being that we have developed in our childhood, first and foremost, that we can then change those patterns and beliefs to ones that truly resonate with the core of Who We Are. And who are we, we are love!

This is one of the ways that i help coaching clients in the areas of Intimacy, Relationships & Sexuality in my new signature course 'The Art of Sacred Relating'

Reach out to setup a clarity call or go to https://www.orgasmicliving.org/coaching and fill out the online application. If you want to make some radical changes in your life and step in to the human being that you were put on this Earth to be then let's talk! If this is an offer that truly speaks to you take action now as I only have a couples spaces available in my calender for a long-term commited clients. This is a one year long program and it is not for the faint of heart a
Because it will bring about core level shifts in all areas of your life 🌺

Blessings
Christo
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26/09/2024

One of the most profound shifts i have experienced in living in community and experiencing directly in loving relationships is learning the art of Non-Violent Communication, the embodiment of the Four Agreements and various tools for Conflict Resolution.

As human beings we've been programmed to fear and withdraw from conflict of any kind anything that feels uncomfortable we want to withdraw and move away from however there's power to be found in staying. When we stay and breathe and feel into we're able to heal ourself and come into a form of authentic communication with our loved one which builds a stronger Bond through the building of Trust.

These are some of the tools that I draw from when working with coaching clients in the areas of Intimacy, Relationships & Sexualitu in my new signature course 'The Art of Sacred Relating'

Reach out to setup a clarity call or go to https://www.orgasmicliving.org and fill out the online application. If you want to make some radical changes in your life and step in to the human being that you were put on this Earth to be then let's talk! is an offer that truly speaks to you take action now as I only have two or three more spaces available in my calender for a long-term commited clients. This is a one year long program and it is not for the faint of heart and brings about core level shifts in all areas of life 🌺

Blessings
Christo 💚

03/09/2024

S*X IS DEAD

How does that statement land for you?

In the following video I'll share with you my take on the evolution of s*x in relationship, which has become a primary focus of my work.

If you want to learn more about it you can go to my website at www.orgasmicliving.org

Blessings for a Wonder-filled Now Beloveds

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08/08/2024

Happy 888 Lionsgate Portal Divine Ones 🦁

Sharing a bit about how to capitalize on the energy that is available in the field on this auspicious day.💫

Today is a day when there's more magic in the air than usual because the energetic and spiritual Realms are more permeable and so it's a perfect day to go Inward and be with any disharmony that might be there and or cultivate more life force energy through embodiment and connective meditations.☀️

Blessings 💋

29/07/2024