27/08/2021
Anxiety always starts with a thought...
I think the most important thing to take from this diagram is to focus on the perceived threat. The perceived being the key word!
Most anxiety is due to a feared outcome, such as: I am not good enough, they won't like me, I will be embarrassed, etc. However, most of the time we worry about things that haven't happened yet. Or, we may overestimate how negatively it will impact us and underestimate our ability to cope.
Would it be that bad if you were embarrassed? How would you cope?
One tip for situations where you tend to worry:
- what advice would you give to a friend?