28/11/2025
Hi, I’m Rex.
I got sober before I even knew I was neurodivergent.
Back then I thought I had a willpower problem.
I thought I was weak, broken, or someone who could not get his life together.
But the truth was simpler.
My brain was overwhelmed.
My emotions had nowhere to go.
And I was trying to regulate a nervous system that had never felt safe.
So like a lot of ND adults, I used substances to cope.
To quiet the noise.
To find relief.
To feel something and to feel less.
For years I kept going back, even when I did not want to.
Even when it scared me.
Even when I swore it would be the last time.
No one explained why.
I did not know I was ADHD and autistic.
I did not know that ND people experience addiction differently.
I did not know that my patterns made perfect sense.
When I got sober and finally learned how my brain actually works, everything changed.
Now I help neurodivergent adults who are stuck in that same loop.
People who want to stop but cannot understand why they keep going back.
People who are tired of shame, fear and the pressure to fix themselves.
My mission is simple.
To help ND adults find freedom in a way that finally fits their brain.
No judgement.
No pressure.
No pretending you are broken.
Just truth, understanding and support that meets you where you are.
If you are neurodivergent and struggling with substances and this hit something inside you, send me a message.
You do not have to do this alone.
