Counseling & Coaching Perspective

Counseling & Coaching Perspective We offer an integrated approach to therapy using techniques and tools tailored to our clients' issues We work with both individuals and with couples.

Counseling Perspective in Singapore offers an integrated approach to therapy using techniques and tools tailored specifically to our clients and the issues they face. We help clients so that they can feel empowered to make healthy decisions themselves. GLENN GRAVES HAS BEEN COUNSELLING EXPATRIATE FAMILIES IN SOUTHEAST ASIA SINCE 2004. Glenn has a Ph.D. in Psychology with a specialization in Creati

vity and Existential Psychotherapy. He also has a certificate in Intermediate Training in Ericksonian Psychotherapy and Hypnosis from the Milton H. Erickson Foundation, and a certificate in Eye-Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR) from the EMDR Institute, Inc. He is an accredited facilitator for the FOCCUS marriage preparation and enrichment programme, Certified with NOVA, National Organization for Victim Assistance and is a member of the Singapore Psychological Society. He is American and has lived in Asia for the past 20 years. For the past 15 years, he has counselled Singaporean and Expatriate individuals and families on a variety of issues, including post traumatic stress disorder, anger management, anxiety, stress, alcohol abuse, marital conflicts, cross cultural marital conflicts, divorce, s*x addiction, adolescents and their family, s*xual abuse, ageing, body image, self esteem, and grief.

๐Ÿ’œ BTSโ€™ Suga Says: โ€œ๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ข๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—ข๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜†โ€K-pop idols like Suga (BTS) and Jeongyeon (TWICE) openly discuss anxiety and...
24/08/2025

๐Ÿ’œ BTSโ€™ Suga Says: โ€œ๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ข๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—ข๐—ธ๐—ฎ๐˜†โ€

K-pop idols like Suga (BTS) and Jeongyeon (TWICE) openly discuss anxiety and depressionโ€”reminding us that mental health struggles donโ€™t discriminate.

Youโ€™re not โ€œweakโ€ for needing help. No scary "therapy" label. Just vent to someone who won't tell your parents.
WhatsApp us at +65 9853-7253 or book a session: www.counselingperspective.com

๐ŸŽต Tag a K-pop fan who needs this!

๐Ÿ“ธ credit: BT, Big Hit Entertainment

22/08/2025

๐Ÿก "Why is nothing I do ever enough?"

If youโ€™re sighing at this, ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ. Letโ€™s unpack it:

๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚
โœ”๏ธ "My parentsโ€™ dreams = my report card" (Medicine or failure?)
โœ”๏ธ Guilt trips ("After all we sacrificedโ€ฆ")
โœ”๏ธ Walking on eggshells (One B+ = silent treatment)
โœ”๏ธ Living their regrets ("I never got toโ€ฆ so YOU must")
โœ”๏ธ Love feels conditional ("Only proud when I win")

๐Ÿ’ก ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ:
1 in 2 SG youth feel family expectations are their #1 stressor (NUS Study, 2023).

๐Ÿš€ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—”๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐˜€
1.โ  โ Name what you feel.
When you name it, you tame it. Journaling or speaking to a safe person helps regulate overwhelming emotions

2.โ  โ Separate expectations from identity
Take a few deep breaths. Reconnecting with your own truth is the first step to building authentic confidence

3.โ  โ Create boundaries with compassion
You are allowed to say no or not now. Setting gentle limits doesnโ€™t mean rejecting your parents. It means respecting your own limits too.

4.โ  โ Come back to the body
Through breathwork, movement and stillness, we support the nervous system.

5.โ  โ Reach out before you burn out
Struggling in silence is too heavy. Talk to someone. A friend, theraoist or a coach. Vulnerability isnโ€™t weakness. Itโ€™s your greatest strength

๐Ÿ“ฒ Need backup? Call us at +65 9853-7253 or learn more about family counseling - www.counselingperspective.com/services/family-counseling

๐Ÿ‘‰ Save this for the next guilt trip. You deserve to breathe. ๐Ÿ’จ

๐Ÿšจ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—”๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด: ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ'๐˜€ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒWould you know what to do if your child, student, or friend was...
20/08/2025

๐Ÿšจ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—”๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด: ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ'๐˜€ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ

Would you know what to do if your child, student, or friend was in a mental health crisis? ๐Ÿ’ก Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) certification gives you the skills to save a life โ€“ just like physical first aid.

๐Ÿ’ก Ideal for:
โ€ข Parents of teens
โ€ข Educators
โ€ข HR managers
โ€ข Healthcare workers
โ€ข Concerned friends / families

๐Ÿ” Why Parents & Professionals Need This:
โœ… Spot warning signs before crisis hits (anxiety, depression, self-harm)
โœ… Respond effectively with the right words (and avoid harmful mistakes)
โœ… Bridge the gap between struggling and professional help
โœ… Break the silence in our "tough it out" culture

๐Ÿ“… 2-Day Intensive Certification:
๐Ÿ—“ 25-26 Sept 2025
โฐ Day 1: 8:30AMโ€“5:30PM | Day 2: 8:30AMโ€“1PM
๐Ÿ“ Central Singapore (Wheelchair-accessible venue)

๐Ÿ’ธ Investment: S$350 (ex. GST) โ€“ Includes workbook & certification
๐Ÿ”— Secure your spot: www.counselingperspective.com/events

17/08/2025

Seeing your child struggle with mental health can feel overwhelming. Here's what every parent should know:

๐Ÿ“Š The Reality:
โ€ข 1 in 3 students faces mental health challenges (IMH, 2023)
โ€ข 70% experience crushing exam stress (MOE, 2023)
โ€ข But 80% suffer silently due to shame

๐Ÿ’ก How You Can Make a Difference:
1๏ธโƒฃ Normalize the Conversation
โ†’ Try: "I've noticed you seem stressed - want to talk?" instead of "What's wrong?"

2๏ธโƒฃ Look Beyond Grades
โ†’ Their emotional health matters more than any test score

3๏ธโƒฃ Break the Stigma Early
โ†’ Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness

We're Here to Help:
๐Ÿ“ฒ Call/WhatsApp us on +65 9853-7253
๐ŸŒ Book a Family Session: counselingperspective.com



๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต๐Ÿšจ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—”๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด Top 3 Youth Mental Health Struggles in SG (And How Y...
13/08/2025

๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ด๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ต๐Ÿšจ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—”๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด

Top 3 Youth Mental Health Struggles in SG (And How YOU Can Help):
1๏ธโƒฃ Academic Burnout
"Why am I never good enough?"
๐Ÿ“Œ 70% of SG students face extreme exam stress (MOE, 2023)
2๏ธโƒฃ Social Media Anxiety
Scrolling โ†’ Comparing โ†’ Self-Doubt
๐Ÿ“Œ 1 in 2 teens feels "left out" online (IMH, 2023)
3๏ธโƒฃ Family Pressure
"My parents don't understand me."
๐Ÿ“Œ Cultural expectations often deepen isolation

๐Ÿ’ก Be the Difference:
Most youth suffer silently. As a parent, teacher, or mentor, Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) training teaches you to:
โœ… Spot warning signs early
โœ… Respond with confidence (not fear)
โœ… Connect them to professional help

๐Ÿ“… 2-Day Certification Course:
๐Ÿ—“ (Day 1) Thursday 25/09/2025 โฐ 8:30AMโ€“5:30PM & (Day 2) Friday 26/09/2025 โฐ 8:30AMโ€“5:30PM

๐Ÿ”— Learn More: www.counselingperspective.com/events/mental-health-first-aid-training
๐Ÿ“ฉ Questions? firstaid@stjohn.org.sg

11/08/2025

๐Ÿš‘ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜ ๐—”๐—ถ๐—ฑ ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด - ๐—•๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐——๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€
Equip yourself to support those in crisis โ€“ at work, in schools, and in our community.

Would you know how to respond if:
โ€ข An employee shows signs of burnout?
โ€ข A student experiences a panic attack?
โ€ข A client reveals suicidal thoughts?

MHFA Certification gives you the skills to:
๐Ÿ”น Identify early warning signs of mental health crises
๐Ÿ”น Intervene confidently using evidence-based techniques
๐Ÿ”น Connect individuals to appropriate professional help
๐Ÿ”น Reduce stigma in your organization or community

๐Ÿ’ก Ideal For:
โ€ข Parents worried about their childโ€™s emotional well-being
โ€ข Teachers, coaches, and youth leaders
โ€ข Managers supporting team mental health
โ€ข Anyone who wants to lead with compassion

๐Ÿ“… 2-Day Certification Course:
๐Ÿ—“ (Day 1) Thursday 25/09/2025 โฐ 8:30AMโ€“5:30PM | (Day 2) Friday 26/09/2025 8:30AMโ€“1PM

๐ŸŽซ Fee: S$350 (ex. GST)
๐Ÿ“ฒ Learn more - www.counselingperspective.com/events/mental-health-first-aid-training
๐Ÿ“ง Questions? firstaid@stjohn.org.sg

๐ŸŒŸ Be the light someone needs

๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Family meals: more than just food on the table.When we come together to eat, we create space for connection, conversa...
08/08/2025

๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Family meals: more than just food on the table.
When we come together to eat, we create space for connection, conversation, and care. ๐Ÿซถ
Regular family mealtimes can boost mental health by fostering a sense of belonging, reducing stress, and opening up opportunities to check in with one anotherโ€”especially for children and teens.

Itโ€™s not about perfection or fancy dishes. Itโ€™s about presence.โœจ

How often do you share meals with your loved ones? Let us know in the comments. ๐Ÿ‘‡

๐ŸŒฟ Mental Health First Aid Training โ€“ 25 & 26 September๐ŸŒฟWould you know what to do if someone around you was experiencing ...
04/08/2025

๐ŸŒฟ Mental Health First Aid Training โ€“ 25 & 26 September๐ŸŒฟ
Would you know what to do if someone around you was experiencing a mental health crisis? Just like physical first aid, Mental Health First Aid (MHFA) gives you the tools to offer initial support and guide a person towards the help they need.

Over two impactful days, youโ€™ll:
โœ… Learn how to recognise common mental health challenges
โœ… Understand how to approach and support someone in distress
โœ… Gain confidence in having conversations around mental health
โœ… Be equipped with practical tools to respond effectively in a crisis

This training is ideal for anyone โ€“ whether youโ€™re a manager, educator, caregiver, or simply someone who wants to make a difference in your community.

Mental health affects us all. By becoming a certified Mental Health First Aider, youโ€™re taking a powerful step toward breaking the stigma and creating safer, more compassionate spaces for everyone.

๐Ÿ—“ 25 & 26 September 2025
๐Ÿ“ฉ DM us or Link in Bio for booking

Plugged In but Breaking Down.Our youth are more connected than everโ€”yet feeling more alone, anxious, and overwhelmed. Be...
01/08/2025

Plugged In but Breaking Down.
Our youth are more connected than everโ€”yet feeling more alone, anxious, and overwhelmed. Behind the screens and scrolls, many are quietly struggling. ๐Ÿง ๐Ÿ’”

As parents, itโ€™s easy to feel lost or powerless. But your support, presence, and understanding can make all the difference. It starts with real connectionโ€”off-screen.

โœจ Letโ€™s open up conversations.
โœจ Letโ€™s listen without judgment.
โœจ Letโ€™s be the safe space they need.

28/07/2025

Ever feel like unseen patterns from your familyโ€™s past are affecting your present? ๐Ÿ’”

Family and systemic constellation gently reveal these hidden tiesโ€”so you can heal, reclaim your story, and move forward with freedom. ๐Ÿ’™
You deserve peace. Letโ€™s uncover whatโ€™s holding you back.

๐Ÿ—“๏ธ 2 & 3 August (Sat & Sun)
โฐ 1โ€“6 PM
๐ŸŽŸ๏ธ $130 per session per person
๐Ÿ“ Counseling Perspective, 87 Science Park Drive, #03-01, The Oasis, Singapore 118260
Limited space available - Book now!
๐Ÿ“ฒ www.counselingperspective.com/events/family-constellation-workshop

26/07/2025

Ever feel like unseen patterns from your familyโ€™s past are affecting your present? ๐Ÿ’”

Family & systemic constellation gently reveal these hidden tiesโ€”so you can heal, reclaim your story, and move forward with freedom. ๐Ÿ’™
You deserve peace. Letโ€™s uncover whatโ€™s holding you back.

๐Ÿ—“๏ธ 2 & 3 August (Sat & Sun)
โฐ 1โ€“6 PM
๐ŸŽŸ๏ธ $130 per session per person
๐Ÿ“ Counseling Perspective, 87 Science Park Drive, #03-01, The Oasis, Singapore 118260
Limited space available - Book now!

๐Ÿ“ฒ www.counselingperspective.com/events/family-constellation-workshop

Some words stay with us long after theyโ€™re spoken.A client once shared, โ€œMy friend told me, โ€˜You donโ€™t have to carry it ...
21/07/2025

Some words stay with us long after theyโ€™re spoken.
A client once shared, โ€œMy friend told me, โ€˜You donโ€™t have to carry it all alone.โ€™

Simple wordsโ€”but they became a turning point.

At Counseling Perspective, we often witness how small moments of connection can plant the seeds of healing.
Sometimes itโ€™s something a friend says, a realization in session, or the quiet recognition that youโ€™re allowed to feel, rest, and ask for help.

Mental health isnโ€™t just about managing symptomsโ€”itโ€™s about unlearning the belief that you have to do it all alone.
Itโ€™s about remembering your worth, your strength, and your right to support.

If something someone once said stayed with you, it might be pointing you back to what matters most.

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