Bliss Mama Doula

Bliss Mama Doula I am Claire, a birth and post-partum doula. I support, educate and nurture women and their families in Phnom Penh, Cambodia

Once the baby is born, we often forget there’s another birth happening.The placenta must be born too, and it’s an import...
28/10/2025

Once the baby is born, we often forget there’s another birth happening.
The placenta must be born too, and it’s an important part of the birth journey.

This incredible organ nourished and protected your baby throughout pregnancy. It deserves a moment of attention.

You can include this stage in your birth plan : how you’d like it to be birthed, how you wish to honour or say goodbye to it afterward.

You just found out you’re pregnant: congratulations! It’s such a special moment… and it can also feel a little overwhelm...
21/10/2025

You just found out you’re pregnant: congratulations!
It’s such a special moment… and it can also feel a little overwhelming.

If you’re wondering “What should I do next?”, here are a few steps to guide you:

🫶 Take it in and celebrate!
Give yourself a moment to absorb the news. You don’t have to plan everything today.

📅 Date your pregnancy
Pregnancy is counted from the first day of your last period, even though conception usually happens about one to two weeks later.
That means by the time you miss a period, you might already be around 4 weeks pregnant (depending on your cycle). Every woman is different, so this can vary.

👩‍⚕️ Book your first medical appointment
If your home pregnancy test is positive, it’s time to schedule your first prenatal visit.
If you already have a doctor or midwife in mind, give them a call. If not, take your time finding someone who feels like the right fit. And it’s okay to change if your first experience doesn’t feel right.

In Cambodia, prenatal care is provided by obstetricians (there’s no midwife-led care during pregnancy).
Your first appointment is usually around 6–8 weeks, to confirm your pregnancy and estimate your due date.

🌿 Nourish yourself and listen to your body
Eat well, rest when you can, and slow down. The first trimester can be surprisingly tiring.
If you’re not already taking prenatal vitamins, now’s the time to start. Look for ones that include folic acid, choline, and calcium — essential nutrients for your baby’s early development.

💬 Decide when to share the news
There’s no right or wrong time to share your pregnancy, this is your personal choice.
If keeping it private feels right, honour that.
But if you’re finding it difficult to hide your symptoms or you’d feel more supported by sharing, it’s okay to open up sooner.

🤱 Find emotional and practical support
A doula can walk alongside you throughout your pregnancy, offering information, comfort, and reassurance.
You don’t have to do this alone, a doula’s role is to guide you through it all, from your first trimester to your first moments with your baby.

Imagine someone who quietly adjusts the lights, helps you find a position that feels right, and reminds you to breathe w...
10/10/2025

Imagine someone who quietly adjusts the lights, helps you find a position that feels right, and reminds you to breathe when waves of intensity come.

Someone who whispers encouragement, rubs your back, offers sips of water, and helps your partner feel confident and involved.

That’s what doula support looks like: calm, grounding, and fully focused on you.

In my latest blog post, I share what having a doula during childbirth truly feels like

Read it here :
https://www.blissmama-doula.com/post/what-does-is-look-like-to-have-a-doula-during-birth

Or click in the link in my bio

➡️ In fact, you don’t have to love being pregnant either.It’s okay if you feel uncomfortable, exhausted, or even disconn...
07/10/2025

➡️ In fact, you don’t have to love being pregnant either.

It’s okay if you feel uncomfortable, exhausted, or even disconnected at times. Pregnancy is not always glowing skin and shiny hair, it’s also insomnia, changing bodies, and big emotions.

You can be grateful for your baby AND still find pregnancy hard

It doesn’t make you less of a mother. It makes you human 🫀

Labor is powerful, but it doesn’t have to feel out of control. There are natural ways to cope that truly work: technique...
29/09/2025

Labor is powerful, but it doesn’t have to feel out of control.

There are natural ways to cope that truly work: techniques that calm the mind, ease intensity, and help you feel supported every step of the way. With the right tools and guidance, your body and your baby know how to work together.

What tool or techniques worked when you were in labour? I am curious to know !

You carried a baby and gave birth through cesarean. Your body has done incredible things!Now is the time to celebrate an...
19/09/2025

You carried a baby and gave birth through cesarean. Your body has done incredible things!

Now is the time to celebrate and honor this strength while giving yourself the care you need to recover and heal.

Move slowly, listen to your body, and offer it the same love and patience it gave you throughout pregnancy and birth 🧡✨

✨ I never heard about matrescence until I became a mum. ✨I felt this huge shift of identity, like I wasn’t the same pers...
15/09/2025

✨ I never heard about matrescence until I became a mum. ✨

I felt this huge shift of identity, like I wasn’t the same person anymore. But I didn’t know it had a name.

Matrescence is the process of becoming a mother. Just as adolescence is the transition from childhood to adulthood, matrescence describes the transformation a woman goes through when she enters motherhood.

Coined by anthropologist Dana Raphael in the 1970s, the term reminds us that motherhood is a profound transition in a woman’s life. It begins in pregnancy and continues through postpartum and beyond, as our children grow. It reshapes our brains and our hormones, while also shifting our emotions, identity, priorities, and relationships.

This transformation can bring joy and fulfillment, but it can also stir feelings of confusion, ambivalence, or even grief for the woman you were before.

Many mothers wonder:
“Will I ever feel like myself again?” or
“Why do I love my baby so deeply, yet miss my old life?”

Some feel torn between wanting to care for their child and craving independence.

Matrescence is a normal and universal process. Yet for too long, it has been left unnamed in our culture.

💬 When we name it, we normalize it.

And in naming it, we remind mothers that these changes are part of the beautiful and complex journey into motherhood.

Thinking about having a doula at your birth? 💛If you want that support, ask your doctor or hospital. If they don’t know ...
11/09/2025

Thinking about having a doula at your birth? 💛

If you want that support, ask your doctor or hospital. If they don’t know what a doula is ( or even say no) don’t let that be the end of the conversation. Share your wishes, explain what a doula does, and open the door for dialogue 🗣️

Also, I am always happy to come to a prenatal appointment with you to meet your doctor, and tell them what I do in a birthing room!

If you are curious or have questions, I’d be happy to talk!

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