The Calming Ark Psychological Services

The Calming Ark Psychological Services The Calming Ark strives to create - through psychological therapy - a safe and calming haven as we journey with you through the storms of life.

We're a litle late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn't not sharel Behind the fantasy and music in Netfli...
25/09/2025

We're a litle late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn't not sharel Behind the fantasy and music in Netflix's "KPop Demon Hunters", the story mirrors certain aspects our inner worlds. Rumi's journey is more than fighting demons-it's about facing the parts of ourselves we often hide.

Shame grows in silence, shame wants to keep parts of ourselves hidden. When we suppress parts of who we are, we carry a heavy burden of "masking" these parts of us. Over time, this drains our energy and distances us from authenticity.

But healing begins when we practice radical acceptance which is the practice of accepting reality as it is, even when it's painful or difficult, without judgement, resistance, or wishing it were different. This doesn't mean we have to like every part of ourselves. Rather, it means choosing to see all our "light and shadow" as worthy of compassion.

The show reminds us that we don't heal alone. Social support is one of the strongest protective factors against anxiety, depression, and burnout. Just like Rumi's friends, we need safe spaces where we're seen and accepted.

Therapy can serve as a safe and supportive space to process the parts of yourself you were taught to hide.

You are not broken.
You are a work in progress, becoming more whole each day.

From, The Calming Ark

We’re a little late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn’t not share! Behind the fantasy and music in Netfl...
25/09/2025

We’re a little late in the game but we had some reflections we couldn’t not share! Behind the fantasy and music in Netflix’s “KPop Demon Hunters”, the story mirrors certain aspects our inner worlds. Rumi’s journey is more than fighting demons - it’s about facing the parts of ourselves we often hide.

Shame grows in silence, shame wants to keep parts of ourselves hidden. When we suppress parts of who we are, we carry a heavy burden of “masking” these parts of us. Over time, this drains our energy and distances us from authenticity.

But healing begins when we practice radical acceptance which is the practice of accepting reality as it is, even when it’s painful or difficult, without judgement, resistance, or wishing it were different. This doesn’t mean we have to like every part of ourselves. Rather, it means choosing to see all our “light and shadow” as worthy of compassion.

The show reminds us that we don’t heal alone. Social support is one of the strongest protective factors against anxiety, depression, and burnout. Just like Rumi’s friends, we need safe spaces where we’re seen and accepted.

Therapy can serve as a safe and supportive space to process the parts of yourself you were taught to hide.

You are not broken.
You are a work in progress, becoming more whole each day.

From,
The Calming Ark

Emotional safety is not something we stumble into, rather, it’s something we intentionally build. One step at a time.If ...
25/07/2025

Emotional safety is not something we stumble into, rather, it’s something we intentionally build. One step at a time.

If you’ve grown up in an environment where emotions were invalidated or dismissed, your nervous system learns to stay alert, guarded, or disconnected to protect you from feeling hurt. It’s probably “safer” to not feel or be who you are.

But emotional safety is a practice that you can engage in.

It teaches your body that it’s safe now, you’re allowed to feel, to exist, to speak.

Emotional safety grows when we feel seen, soothed, and supported. And the good news is, you can build emotional safety for yourself!

Start by:
1. Noticing your internal world with curiosity, not shame.
2. Speak to yourself kindly, especially when you’re hurting.
3. Set gentle boundaries that honour our nervous system.
4. Surround yourself with people who want the best for you, and can do so in a non-judgemental way.
5. Choose intentional responding over reacting.
6. Practice rituals and build habits that anchor safety in the body.

Curiosity, kindness, acceptance and non-judgemental approaches make space for all our emotions, not just the comfortable ones.

Healing is about feeling safe enough to be fully present within you.

Embark on your journey towards building emotional safety for yourself, and others today.

From,
The Calming Ark

We have exciting news!!!In May 2024, The Calming Ark will be moving to our new home! *YAY*In this new space, we will con...
13/04/2024

We have exciting news!!!

In May 2024, The Calming Ark will be moving to our new home! *YAY*

In this new space, we will continue to create a safe, therapeutic space for our clients as we have always strived to do.

Our new space is located at Havelock 2, #05-01. It is within walking distance from both Clarke Quay and Chinatown MRT stations, and in the vicinity of lots of good local food.

We look forward to welcoming you to our new space.

Whatsapp us at +6588338745 to schedule an appointment.

The Calming Ark wishes you and your loved ones a Happy Lunar New Year! May this year be filled with more love, compassio...
08/02/2024

The Calming Ark wishes you and your loved ones a Happy Lunar New Year! May this year be filled with more love, compassion, joy and hope in all you do!

We will be closed for CNY Eve (Friday, 9th Feb, full day) and will reopen on Tuesday, 13th Feb 2024. We will also be on ...
23/01/2024

We will be closed for CNY Eve (Friday, 9th Feb, full day) and will reopen on Tuesday, 13th Feb 2024.

We will also be on a 3-week break from 25th Feb to 15th Mar 2024, as we recharge and prepare for exciting things to come!

We will respond to your texts and emails when we reopen on 16th March.

The Calming Ark wishes everyone a Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year! How has 2023 been for you? For some 2023 might h...
23/12/2023

The Calming Ark wishes everyone a Merry Christmas and A Happy New Year!

How has 2023 been for you?

For some 2023 might have been a year filled with new things, adventures, changes and growth; and for some, 2023 might have been filled with more disappointments than expected…
As we approach yet another year, may our hearts be filled with hope for a better year, more compassion for self and others, sunshine to fill our days, but also courage and strength when the rain comes.

No matter what 2024 has in store for you, you don’t have to do this alone!
Reach out to us at The Calming Ark, we’d love to hear from you.

We are soon approaching the halfway mark of 2023, and before we embark on the second part of the year, let's spend some ...
26/06/2023

We are soon approaching the halfway mark of 2023, and before we embark on the second part of the year, let's spend some time to check in with ourselves:

For the first 6 months of 2023,
-> What went well?
-> What did not go so well?
-> Did we have time to connect with ourselves and our loved ones?
-> If you could do something so as to have a better second half of the year, what would you like to try? And would you give yourself the change to try?

The first 6 months could have gone better than expected, or for some more arduous and painful... yet no matter how it has been, WELL DONE for making it through!

If you would like to get support, do get in touch with us. No one needs to do this alone!

Let us journey with you through the storms of life.
Get in touch: https://thecalmingark.com/

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