01/12/2025
Joy ≠ Happiness — Let’s Talk About It
We hear 'joy' and 'happy' used like they’re the same thing. But they’re not.
Happiness is like a spark ✨— it lights up when something cool happens.
Joy is more like a glow 🌟— it stays, even when things get tough.
🧠 Happiness = a good mood
🍕 Pizza, memes, winning a game = happy vibes.
💛 Joy = deep meaning
👥 Feeling seen, doing what matters, connecting with people you love = joy.
Therapist Katherine Atherton says:
“Joy is bigger than me… it requires meaningful and deep connections with those I love.”
So, if you’re finding joy, don’t just ask:
“What makes me smile?”
Ask:
“What makes me feel alive?”
“What makes me feel like I belong?”
Let’s stop mixing up joy and happiness.
Let’s start defining joy for ourselves. 🌈