10/03/2021
#2 Get to Their Eye Level:
Do you remember how it feels when somebody talks while standing over you? Even when the feeling was positive, it could still feel “off.”
Babies and young children are almost always smaller than us adults. So sitting or kneeling down, or picking them up - eye contact says “You are important, I see you” without any words. My brother-in-law and his 1st baby daughter can sit and stare into one’s another eyes for a long time, it is such a unique communication that foster relationship between them!
Get to their level when both of you are relaxed and playing, Talk and laugh with them. Get to their level when they are tired, upset, frustrated, or unwell. Tell them you feel what they are feeling are difficult and you are here with them (more on this tip later)
Caution: If you get angry, upset, or tired, which happen because we are human. Take time to calm down before reconnecting. Look them in the eyes when you apologize you scared them.
Relationship = Attachment
Attachment = Self-Regultaion
Self-Regulation = Resiliency!
Happy Family Solutions by KrooNhuNa
#2 Get to Their Eye Level:
Do you remember how it feels when somebody talks while standing over you? Even when the feeling was positive, it could still feel “off.”
Babies and young children are almost always smaller than us adults. So sitting or kneeling down, or picking them up - eye contact says “You are important, I see you” without any words. My brother-in-law and his 1st baby daughter can sit and stare into one’s another eyes for a long time, it is such a unique communication that foster relationship between them!
Get to their level when both of you are relaxed and playing, Talk and laugh with them. Get to their level when they are tired, upset, frustrated, or unwell. Tell them you feel what they are feeling are difficult and you are here with them (more on this tip later)
Caution: If you get angry, upset, or tired, which happen because we are human. Take time to calm down before reconnecting. Look them in the eyes when you apologize you scared them.
Relationship = Attachment
Attachment = Self-Regultaion
Self-Regulation = Resiliency!
Happy Family Solutions by KrooNhuNa 🙂