
09/06/2025
Breaking the Cycle: Macaulay Culkin Chooses Love Over Legacy of Pain
“When I was a child, my father was abusive—physically and emotionally. By the time I was ten, I had already achieved everything he had ever wanted for himself.
I haven’t spoken to him in nearly 30 years. He went on to have seven children and now has four grandchildren—and not one of them wants anything to do with him.
As I grew up, I made myself a promise: I will never treat my children the way he treated me.
Now that I’m a father, I look at my kids and feel nothing but love and wonder. And I ask myself—how could he have acted that way? He had so many beautiful children. It breaks my heart.
So today, I make a conscious choice:
I choose presence.
I choose patience.
I choose love.
Because breaking the cycle isn’t just about healing—
It’s about refusing to carry someone else’s pain forward.
And that, in itself, is an act of love.”
— Macaulay Culkin