01/07/2022
Phrases that every girl would like to hear from her parents.
✅ I wanted to hear: “Are you sick? Come to me, my dear! Let's figure it out together now!"
❌ Instead of: “We told you that it would be so! It's my own fault for not listening."
✅ I wanted to hear: “What is bothering you? Let me free myself now, and you will tell me everything?”
❌ Instead of: “I have no time! And in general, what are you looking for out of the blue problems?
✅ I wanted to hear: “I will think of something and I will definitely find a way to please you!”
❌ Instead of: “There is no money anyway, and you are here with your doll! You'll get by"
✅ I wanted to hear: “I see that you are in pain! How can I help?"
❌ Instead of: “Oh, come on! Nothing bad happened!”
✅ I wanted to hear: “We are upset because of what you did. Let's discuss this?"
❌ Instead of: “You are acting like a complete fool! We don't want to see you!"
✅ I wanted to hear: “Why are you crying? What upset you? Tell!"
❌ Instead of: “Stop hysteria, don’t whine. I'm already sick of your whining!"
✅ I wanted to hear: “Let me help you?”
❌ Instead of: “You are doing everything wrong! You won't succeed"
✅ I wanted to hear: “You are my best! Love you!"
❌ Instead of: “But Nastya is studying for a “5”, and she cleans her room and plays the piano. Learn from her"
What phrases resonated with you the most? Share in the comments. What phrases do you notice when communicating with your children?
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