09/08/2025
Bismillah!!! "I have been under your husband's care for over 40 years. The first day I walked in his private rooms they were in Penrith. After greeting me with a handshake and a very soulful vibrant smile. He offered me a sit. I reached out to my bag and removed my referral letter and hospital discharge letters. He folded the hospital discharge papers and perused briefly through the referral. He then looked at me for thirty minutes writing ✍️ down stuff until I asked him if we were okay and everything is fine. He then replied with a contagious heartfelt smile 😃 that "we are in business my good lady. Today you’re getting sorted". He was so very young with pure beautiful set of eyes and very white teeth. But his hair stood out for me and the suitewith a tie 👔 that matched the lines in his gray suit. He was really really young but committed to what he was doing. From that day, the problem that other Dr's couldn't find was located and I was fixed 37 years later so did my daughter Natalie who started acting up immediately after birth. After frequenting --- children's hospital and the problem was still not known but under inveatigagion 🔎. A Dr who had seen me before asked that I should take my daughter to see my heart specialist. And after bringing her to him. He was able to get our Natalie fixed as she had inherited my heart condition. I have a rare condition that the electricity of my heart......
But his miracle working hands, brains and eyes were able to know what to do with me.
My daughter had a baby and please accept our request to name him after Dr. Aggrey Kiyingi.
He was not human, his compassion, his kindness, his calmness, his humbleness, his charisma, and genuine spirit to heal was remarkable.
After his first wife died and he was detained in Uganda 🇺🇬. My husband was high up in a certain office. We asked for special investigations to be carried out. Ofcourse we all agreed if the results surfaced with his hands stained. We had to let the authorities where he was being detained handle him. But if he was innocent, the AUS gov't & embassy should intervene together with well wishers of course who joined. We needed him back alive. When he returned in late December 2006. I was glad to meet him in 2007 March. I looked at him, and the vibrant boy I saw for my very first visit and the man I had last seen around the early months of 2005 had disappeared (I didn’t know then what they had done to him while held) Which I learned later. He was far away in thoughts (That was Mar 2007). I kept coming for my 6 monthly routine checks. Then a significant other day, I came back in 2008 around August and his eyes were filled with sorrow and anger. I asked him this what was wrong this time! What is the problem? He replied, "Let's fix you first". He refused to say anything. When I reached home I told my husband, "I am worried about my boy. I think we are losing him". (Later that weekend he called and we spoke for almost 3 hours). In February 2009 my appointment was rescheduled. For end of Mrach. I came to see him and asked where he has been. He told me, I have been taking care of myself. But he looked okay. I told him to call me anytime of any day if he needs someone to talk to or anything. He was my second son's age. He was my Dr but he was like a son to me. A relationship of more than 40 years was nolonger of just Dr and patient r.ship, it was more. I received a call in September 2009 and he told me, "Mum, I met her! She is very young, mylife is so troubled but everything in me, (my heart, my spirit, my soul and this time even my 🧠 are agreeing I should marry her before someone sees what I see in her)". I told him should I come over? He said please 🙏🏽!. That was Thursday evening and I came on Monday first thing in the morning. He showed me pictures of you. I told him, "Eeeeeeeeh!! She is too young. Won't you be heartbroken again"?
He replied, "She is the one. I already met her parents and they consented. She is very cultured with a very strong muslim foundation. Maybe she may have a change of heart because she refused to convert".
That day I looked at him and the boy I met the first time in Penrith had returned. Since then up until August/2023 when I last saw him. My boy was always happy and smiling. Even with the medical conditions he still managed to wear his smile and keep a positive outlook to life while helping others deal and cope with life even though he was struggling with his own issues. I am proud of you, the you who handled a painful soul which no one knew how to deal with. The you who walked into the fire and flames you didn't light up but ready and willing to cool it off.
The you who was brave enough to endure every small and big accusation with him and later got accused solely for a crime you did not commit. The young girl who bore a burden too huge for the world to carry. The girl he indeed referred to as, "the one" when I cautioned ⚠️ him to be careful this time round.
You chose him in his lifetime filled with trials & tribulations and still chosing him even in his death.
Listen Maya, 'If we need to write ✍️ petitions we are happy to do so. Whatever trials that comes your way, just know you're not alone. You have a family who saw him at his worst and still remember the pithalls of hell you picked him up from when those he loved deeply and selflessly chose to abandon him. We were part of a big family he created. Just know you're not alone. We are here if you need anything".
NB: Mama, thank you for allowing me share your story with my online family. I normally chose to inspire and motivate in a positive light this audience here. I have come to learn genuine hearts filled with kindness, purity, truth, and without intention of malice will see greatness of God and vice versa".
Sometimes inheritance isn't material... but the beautiful gestures of kindness and compassion you showed to those who God chose to cross your path. Everything big or small will be rewarded with the deserving ......
God bless 🙌🏾 each and every single one of us. Alhamudulillah 💚💚💚.
Your legacy still leaves on. Not just in your family but the extended family you created. They chose to remember you always. You're loved, cared for, thought of, & prayed for always 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.
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