11/08/2025
This one goes out to a fighter...
For those of you who knew Roxie Orr's story, you could always admire her quirks, because you knew you were in the presence of a miracle.
27 years ago, a group of girls driving to Clark for a high school Valentine's Day dance rocked the little town of Bristol. I remember waitressing at the HOT Spot that night when Harold and Marcia Orr got the call about the girls' horrific car crash. Those girls brought that small town together to pray and to hope. And against all odds, they survived.
They call brain injuries the "invisible injury". It was easy to forget as time went on that Roxie had a chunk of her brain removed to survive that crash. She had to fight to learn how to walk, how to talk, how to think and how to drive. She easily could have given up. She could have complained. But she didn't. She fought through to get her nursing degree. She raised a beautiful daughter. She brought a smile to everyone she met....and maybe sometimes a little frustration 🙂
Roxie allowed me a front-row seat to her grit and determination back then when she let me as her former babysitter and then college student shadow her when she went through therapy. And I have her and Susan Sigdestad Damm to thank for showing me why we should HOPE. They are a huge part of not only what I do for a living, but HOW I do it. They taught me to never give up on anyone. Against all odds, they were NEVER just survivors. They THRIVED!!!!
Roxie was still a practicing nurse...quick-witted and no-nonsense. When she could have easily gone on disability, she fought on because she had compassion for her patients - learned from the knowledge of what excellent medical care had done for her. She fought through her challenges and made a difference to anyone in her care.
After February 14, 1998, Roxie's life was never easy. But for anyone surviving a brain injury, I wish you even a FRACTION of the grit, determination and overwhelming hope that Roxie showed us.
We all lost that little ray of sunshine on November 3rd, 2025. Roxie - You are gone too soon. And we will all miss that mile-a-minute, filter-free giggling voice of yours. Thank you Roxie for the smiles, for the occasional loving shakes of our heads, but most of all for showing us HOPE.
To read more about Roxie's story, check out this 2019 American News article:
https://bit.ly/49HKgfw
Susan Sigdestad Damm Tiffany Hoeft Brain Injury Association of America Lake Area Tech