25/03/2025
So as I celebrate 10 years in business, I am reflecting on my business model and purpose. My purpose hasn't changed. I started with the name The Connected Balance because working with a horse with pain, we have no brain, with no brain we have no relaxation, with no relaxation, we have no learning. Everything is off balance and disconnected. It is a conundrum.
Often a horse in too much pain, I can not work with. They just can't gain benefit and need more care than I can provide. However, most horses live in subclinical pain and discomfort. They are masters at hiding pain! In order to survive, they can not look weak. It's just who they are.
So, connecting all of that, if I can get relaxation, I get their brain, if I get their brain, I get learning and listening. That is the sweet spot that horses tune in and listen to their body. My calling attention to the areas of their discomfort is uncomfortable for awhile and then there is the release. They let go of their pain. As they release, there is less pain, as there is less pain, there is more relaxation. As they get more relaxation and less pain, they trust me more and look for more releasing.
It takes a bit to gain horses trust. Especially where pain and vulnerability is involved. It is why I love what I do. It's like a dance. They trust me and they feel better and ask for more. The energy work sets in at the soul level and we fly together.
I say it's like unpeeling an onion, one layer at a time. Give it time, they are sensitive and guarded. Let them learn their body and how they can help themselves.
It's not a sprint, it's a marathon!
I tell my clients that watching me work is sometimes like watching paint dry! It looks like I am not doing anything. Trust that there is alot going on in the conversation between me and your horse.
Thank you to all the horses and owners who trust me with their pain and vulnerability. I cherish and protect every moment.🥰