Disentangling Religious Trauma

Disentangling Religious Trauma We are a Community of People who have been wounded by Religion. We educate people of the dangers of specific toxic Religions.

We inspire others to speak their Truth, gain autonomy and become joyful adults making a difference.

No child gets traumatized by stories like God, hell or sin. But if Religions:1. Deplete the adult's ability to love them...
05/13/2026

No child gets traumatized by stories like God, hell or sin.

But if Religions:
1. Deplete the adult's ability to love themselves,
2. Make them feel they are rotten and sinful,
3. they can ONLY feel loved by God when they give money,
4. Struggle loving "someone" who cannot physically love them back, (Jesus, God) while they are empty.

That creates pressure on children to develop mental health issues.

Those mental health issues aggravate, the more agitated and committed the Religious parents are. ✝️

It's not your fault life is Difficult.

That's why pastors and religious have the most "broken" kids.

May we Heal. ❤️

05/12/2026

Fighting Demons is Easy.
Fighting an abusive "God" is hard.


I think real healing from Religion looks different than people expect.It's not silence and it's not pretending nothing h...
05/11/2026

I think real healing from Religion looks different than people expect.

It's not silence and it's not pretending nothing happened.

I think healing is when your nervous system stops reacting like it’s under attack every time Religion appears.

here's what it looks like:
- When Christians quote verses…
I don’t spiral.
- When pastors preach…
I don’t feel trapped anymore.
- When someone says “God loves you”… my body no longer feels danger.

That’s freedom to me.

Not winning arguments.
Not humiliating believers.
Not becoming the best critic of religion online.

Because who cares if you can destroy Christians in debate…
if religion still controls your emotional state?

Once you heal, you fully recognize the pain.
But God, Jesus, the Bible…
become thoughts other people carry.

I own my person now.
I’m not threatened anymore.

I don't believe in Convincing People NOT TO BUY a Jesus product.We can all see that Selling Jesus as a product and peopl...
05/08/2026

I don't believe in Convincing People NOT TO BUY a Jesus product.

We can all see that Selling Jesus as a product and people only buy stuff that work for them.

Like many products in the Market let's explore the life cycle of the Jesus Product.

1. Introduction (market entry and awareness building) The Brand started around 150 AD. People started innovating on the Jesus Brand. Poor sales and initial adoption.

People hated it. Until the reign of Roman Emperor Constantine.

During the Middle Ages, the Brand "survived" despite it's mediocre format because it helps European slaves and Kingdoms together.

2. Growth (increasing demand and market pe*******on) Initial product complaints lead to Protestant Reformation, where the Jesus product was given an improved formula.

3. Maturity (peak sales and market saturation) Revival movements introduced mass hysteria to boost sales at its peak.

4. Decline (falling revenue leading to the product's phase-out and eventual discontinuation). We are in this stage right now.

The mental dissonance of doubling down because a previously popular product is not selling.

One thing is constant in life: Change.

Some products are meant to be retired, when it is no longer as useful in your life. And find products that help you navigate meaning.

It's sad. But welcome to life.

I saw a Christian post talk about the distractions that usually happen during prayer or Bible reading. They claimed it w...
05/06/2026

I saw a Christian post talk about the distractions that usually happen during prayer or Bible reading. They claimed it was demons or the enemy. So they attacked you as a child for so called demons.

It's not. But because you grew up Christian, normal thoughts NEEDED to be demons.

Let me share something else. It might be a sign of Child abuse.

Adults who were criticized and physically punished by strict angry Christian parents will grow up broken and USE Church to feel others are also broken. Aka Jesus saves broken people.

As a child you weren't allowed to get distracted, or say things that didn't feel perfect to broken adults.

Children are allowed to be Children. ❤️

That's why modern nations uphold Human Rights to protect innocent Children from Christian adults whose hildhood might be ruined by strict angry Christian parents.

You should have been loved and feel safe in family as a child. ❤️

But as an adult, there's hope. 😊 You could begin the repair process, so that you can love yourself despite how Christian family broke you.

When a church community betrays a person again and again, it handicaps the person. It trains him to see that this cruel ...
05/05/2026

When a church community betrays a person again and again, it handicaps the person. It trains him to see that this cruel community is how the World really is.

It's not.
It's just toxic Church.
You have the power to leave Church.

If this is you. It may take time for your nervous system to trust people again.

You might feel like they are your only friends.

But persevere. The world is loving and beautiful. It is a tragedy, you met the abusive ones to represent Community.

Take your time.
A beautiful world awaits you. ❤️

Cities are filled with loving people.

Humans.
People where it is safe again to love and be loved. ❤️

Why Self Care is Important for People who were harmed by Religion.I grew up Fundamental Baptist. Aside from being Baptis...
05/04/2026

Why Self Care is Important for People who were harmed by Religion.

I grew up Fundamental Baptist.
Aside from being Baptists, my parents had grief and childhood abandonment wounds.

You could already see how my folks will distort the Bible based on their pain and distorted sense of self.

Eventually I was forced to receive Jesus as Lord. And forced into Bible reading and tithing.

My awakening started 2020 in a financial loss. Money was just money but the Bible shame and Bible Grief was so heavy I got serious about my healing.

I've done the Shadow work that allow me to give up my Bible addiction. Today I'm free.

Shadow work is retraining my emotions from the wounds I got from toxic church. It's like running. Teaching my feet to trust myself instead of manipulative people, so called "God".

I'm proud to say I haven't attended church for 4 years. I haven't read my Bible for 6 years now.

The Bible is a tool. But at the hands of broken people, the Bible can be a painful addiction to constrict childhood development.

I'm sure Bible addicts are less abusive than Drug addicts. But I'm sure Bible addicts hurt people.

Because hurt people hurt people.

But we all deserve to be loved as ourselves. ❤️ Without Jesus.
Own all my emotions, and not carry Bible story "false emotions".

I've learned to forgive myself for what God, Jesus and Religion, took from me.

May we all heal. ❤️

For all those harmed by Religion, only you know how far you've endured. And you are surviving. The one who falls and get...
05/02/2026

For all those harmed by Religion, only you know how far you've endured. And you are surviving.

The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell at all.

05/02/2026

Message to Christians, we always attract emotions we already hold inside.

Christians who have happy emotions attract safe community and no drama.

Toxic Christians attract angry people because these Christians don't respect themselves and have unexpressed anger. God is an excuse to share their hate.

If you listen closely to angry people. You will get the answer.

1. Don't suppress my freedom.
2. Don't abuse me.
3. Don't use Jesus to gaslight me.
4. Your shame and your guilt result in my anger.
5. I have the right to choose how I want to be respected and loved. No to Jesus.

Is this wrong?

If someone (God or Jesus) is embezzling money from you or using your time for free. Run away. Disengage. Set good bounda...
05/01/2026

If someone (God or Jesus) is embezzling money from you or using your time for free.

Run away.
Disengage.
Set good boundaries.

Narcissists Gods don't hurt people they DONT KNOW.

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