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The year was 2017. I woman on the internet said "If you don't ever eat foods just because you love them, then you have d...
09/01/2025

The year was 2017.

I woman on the internet said "If you don't ever eat foods just because you love them, then you have disordered eating habits."

My initial thought was "Screw this lady. She OBVIOUSLY doesn't understand that food is fuel. I would NEVER eat that junk." (She was munching on Skittles)

But here's the thing... I WAS eating those foods...

But it was always at night.
And in hiding.
And I never tracked them.
Because they were BAD.
I was being BAD.
And then I would try to make up for it the next day with excessive exercise.
And that in turn made me hungry.
So I ate more.
And that made me restrict more.

And this my friends, was the hamster wheel I was on for years.

Restrict.
Binge.
Excessive exercise.
Restrict.
Binge.
Excessive exercise.
Restrict.

And then I just could not understand why I wasn't seeing the results I wanted.

My relationships with food, exercise and my body was complete s**t.

And that kept me in a place where I could not move forward.

I couldn't build muscle.
I couldn't get stronger.
I couldn't enjoy life.

So when you see me out here getting passionate about these things, I need you to know that it's because I have lived them.

Food is fuel... that is true.

But it is also fun, and tradition, and family, and joy, and friendship.

And once we accept that it can be both and learn how to properly balance both sides, that is when we will finally be free.

"You don't really post progress pictures of members anymore."It's true. I don't. But it's not because it's not happening...
08/27/2025

"You don't really post progress pictures of members anymore."

It's true. I don't.

But it's not because it's not happening.

It's because I decided I wanted to go a different direction with this program, focusing inward on confidence, healthy relationships with food, getting strong for life, enjoying life without guilt, etc.

From there, letting that inner shift reflect outward.

That is the criteria for progress pictures, now:

1) Have they done and are continuing to do the inner work?
2) Is that inner work reflected in their life? (Physical changes, confidence, strength)

Once those are met and the member CHOOSES to give me their story, that's when I will share it.

And that is exactly what happened here for Beth! 🫶

Help me congratulate her on all her success on her journey! šŸŽ‰

She truly shines from the inside out ✨

Read Beth's badass full story here:

"July of this year marked my fourth anniversary with Strong by Ash B. When I started, I believe it was still called Ash B Fit—this program has truly come a long way since then!

When I joined, I was in the thick of what I now call the perimenopause from hell, quickly transitioning into the menopause from hell. I was overweight, constantly dealing with joint and muscle pain, brain fog, and balance issues (I even broke my ankle in 2022 just tripping over my own feet). My back ā€œwent outā€ regularly, and my life was largely sedentary thanks to a high-stress job as a school district administrator in the post-COVID era.

Back then, I told myself that if I managed just one or two resistance workouts a week, it was still more than nothing. I dipped in and out of the program over those first three years, always intending to do more—not just for my weight, but for my overall health.

In June 2023, I retired after 29 years in education. The photo here was taken at my retirement party, and truthfully, I was miserable in my body. I was dealing with knee pain from an injury I couldn’t even pinpoint. An MRI later showed my meniscus was shredded. The orthopedic doctor told me surgery wouldn’t help, and that I’d likely need a knee replacement within 18 months. I was only 54 years old and devastated.

I spent weeks icing, stretching, and babying my knee, adding supplements and researching ways to minimize arthritis pain. I eventually returned to workouts that fall but still lacked consistency. Around the same time, I was working with a functional medicine doctor who recommended supplements, hormone replacement therapy, and a GLP-1 medication (semaglutide). While I lost about 18 pounds on the medication, I stalled out, especially after having a full hysterectomy in April 2024.

At some point, the lightbulb went off: I had to do the work. Supplements, meds, and inconsistent workouts weren’t enough. In September 2024, I committed to nutrition and consistency. I converted a basement room into a home gym, bought a walking pad (eventually upgraded to a treadmill), and modified exercises to accommodate my knee. Slowly but surely, I began to notice progress.

I started tracking my workouts and holding myself accountable week by week. By August 25, 2025, I had completed a full year of tracking—260 scheduled resistance workouts. I only missed 18 (and not because I skipped—several of those were for medical procedures like varicose vein treatments). That means I hit 94% consistency in one year, something I’ve never achieved in my entire life!

The results speak for themselves: I’m down 60 pounds, I feel stronger, and I move through daily life with less pain. I walk 8,000–10,000 steps a day, sometimes adding in a quick Ash 15-minute cardio session for extra movement. I track my food on MyFitnessPal, focusing on protein and balance (yes, even with the occasional giant margarita - see photo).

Most importantly, I feel better than I have in 15 years. My cholesterol and inflammation markers are in the green, I’ve stopped taking blood pressure meds, and while my knee still reminds me to be careful, I’m nowhere near needing that replacement.

I call Strong by Ash B part of my ā€œnursing home prevention programā€ (thank you, Dr. Mary Claire Haver, for that phrase). And it’s true. This program has given me strength, confidence, and the tools to take charge of my health in midlife and beyond.

I’m also deeply grateful for the community. I love doing this program with friends and family who keep me motivated—thank you, Cara, Cynthia, and Jennifer. And Ashlee—you are the most real fitness expert I’ve ever known. Your honesty, humor, and ā€œ3, 2, 1 with Ash!ā€ approach keep me showing up.

This program has changed my life."

For as long as I have been a woman, I've had an issue with my hips. They're why I typically wait until fall and winter t...
08/25/2025

For as long as I have been a woman, I've had an issue with my hips.

They're why I typically wait until fall and winter to do a building phase... You know, so I can cover them up.

They're part of the reason why I have kept my weight lower... Because I felt like they were so out of balance with my upper body.

They're the reason why I had to search for 15 minutes for an older picture that's straight on... I only took pictures at an angle or from the side back then... and yes, I only allowed the second picture to exist because it's one of the few where I thought my hips looked small. They were small. I was small. My brain saw something different, though.

So imagine my surprise when I was looking through pictures I took today... My body weighing more than it has in a while, hips filling out, and thought, "I like my body like this."

And then immediately, "but you can't. This is only temporary."

I'm going to level with you here...

I feel an immense pressure to look a certain way doing what I do.

I'm on social media. I have eyeballs. I'm not immune to comparing my body to the other women doing what I do.

And even though it have done A LOT of inner work when it comes to my perception of my body and who I am, I can still struggle at times with allowing myself to show up, well, as myself.

So maybe it's age...

Or maybe it's my husband constantly telling me that I look good...

Or maybe it's the work I've been putting in in the weight room...

Or maybe it's the fact that I've been feeling really fu***ng good...

But maybe it doesn't have to be temporary?

Maybe I don't have to look like the other ladies doing what I do?

Maybe I can have hips, and be strong, and feel good about myself even if my body isn't as lean as it's been in the past?

Because I'm constantly telling our members that they can love themselves as they are, while pushing themselves to be more....

And that advice is true for my (hip)pie dippie self, too. šŸ«¶šŸ˜‰

I don't know who needs to hear this, but...Don't let the world convince you that more is always better. True success is ...
08/25/2025

I don't know who needs to hear this, but...

Don't let the world convince you that more is always better.

True success is freedom, not exhaustion.

Love ya 🫶🤟

She's watching and she's listening. She's watching how you look at yourself in the mirror. She's watching how you carry ...
08/23/2025

She's watching and she's listening.

She's watching how you look at yourself in the mirror.

She's watching how you carry yourself.

She's watching what you are doing to take care of your body.

She's listening to how you talk about yourself.

She's listening to how you talk about other women.

She's listening to your podcasts, audiobooks, and music.

And no, it's not just daughters...

It's nieces, cousins, grand daughters, and your friend's daughters...

Be someone worth emulating, friend.

You wanna know what the cool thing is about understanding nutrition for YOUR body?? You can eat anything you want. Now, ...
08/19/2025

You wanna know what the cool thing is about understanding nutrition for YOUR body??

You can eat anything you want.

Now, don't confuse "anything" with "everything"...

We all know that if we could get our ideal, healthy body by walking around and eating every single food that tickled our fancy, and doing that any time we wanted, then we'd all be walking around with shredded abs and a killer ass.... and that's just not how it works.

But when you understand what you are eating, why you are eating it, and how it will affect (or won't affect) your progress...

That's when you gain the freedom to eat the foods you love and still make the progress you want.

To be clear, you still need to eat the veggies, and lean meats, and drink the water...

But if you don't "allow" yourself pizza, ice cream, burger, hot wings, or a chocolate chip cookie in an attempt to be as skinny as possible, then you're still not healthy.

I would know.

Been there, done it.

I even remember using the quote "NoThInG TAsTeS aS gOoD aS sKiNnY fEeLs"

But let me tell you, this cookie tastes like skinny can eat s**t...

We do STRONG around here, anyway šŸ’Ŗ

šŸŽ‰Shouting HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our always knowledgeable and helpful PT, Jessica! šŸŽ‰Hope your day is as amazing as you are, f...
08/16/2025

šŸŽ‰Shouting HAPPY BIRTHDAY to our always knowledgeable and helpful PT, Jessica! šŸŽ‰

Hope your day is as amazing as you are, friend! 🫶

"But what will they think of me?" This thought...This mindset has been one of the biggest struggles of my life. From chi...
08/13/2025

"But what will they think of me?"

This thought...

This mindset has been one of the biggest struggles of my life.

From childhood to adulthood...

So many decisions based on outside perception.

So many times, I held myself back in fear of being judged.

Because I just wanted to be liked and accepted so badly.

And there's a certain way, a right way to do things (or so I tell myself).

It started to weigh so heavy on me that I just stopped doing... anything, really.

No movement.

Just kinda stuck...

Because what if I do something wrong?

What if everyone hates me for doing what truly feels meant for me?

What if everyone sees me fail?

But then slowly I came to a conclusion...

I can't care anymore.

I can't show up in a way that will please every single person.

I can't be everything to everyone.

I can't change the way people think of me.

But what I can do is let go of the idea that if I make myself as small as possible, maybe no one will have an opinion of me at all.

I can let go of the mindset that no one can ever be mad at me or upset with me.

I can let go of the idea that there's only one right way to do things.

I can let go.

Period.

And you can too, friend.

And we can decide that really matters is...

"But what do I think if me?"

I hope you live a life you're proud of. And if you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over ...
08/12/2025

I hope you live a life you're proud of. And if you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.

-F.S. Fitzgerald

You may not be happy with where you are right now. You may not always like the way you look, or the way you think, or th...
08/11/2025

You may not be happy with where you are right now.

You may not always like the way you look, or the way you think, or the way you show up.

But if you are moving forward.

If you are trying to make changes.

If you are trying to better your situation.

Then you damn well better love this version of you.

Because, friend...

This version is doing the work.

And that is worth loving 🫶

I've said it once and I'll say it again... Nobody does life better than me. I like the way I move. I like the way I eat....
08/08/2025

I've said it once and I'll say it again...

Nobody does life better than me.

I like the way I move.

I like the way I eat.

I like how I rest.

I like where I live

I like how I think about my body, food and exercise.

Nobody does life better than me.

And if you're thinking...

"Ash, I follow (insert influencer here) and she runs, lives in NYC, does Pilates and is vegan, and she says that she has the best life."

My answer to that would be, "She does!"

Why?

Because her life is aligned with who she is at her core, and so is mine.

And when that happens, that's how you feel.

You can watch other people live really cool fulfilling lives and think, "That's amazing for them!" without wanting it for yourself... without comparing.

So, I hope you try all the things.

I hope you leave behind the stuff you know isn't for you.

And I hope you cling tight to the things that light your soul on fire.

I hope nobody does life better than you, friend 🫶

Last year I became version of me that I really liked. I felt so aligned from the inside out. I went out in nature every ...
08/06/2025

Last year I became version of me that I really liked.

I felt so aligned from the inside out.

I went out in nature every week and something about that made me feel alive.

I worked on my nervous system.

I meditated.

I read books that challenged me.

I was at a level of honesty with you all that was real, open, and a little raw.

And then, it felt a little too raw.

And then I got hurt by the words and actions of people around me.

And I shut down, again.

I went back to what I knew wouldn't make me feel that way.

"Nutrition and Exercise... Leave it at that, Ash."

"It's safer this way", I thought.

But you know what it also feels like?

Empty. Disingenuous. Unaligned.

So hope you don't mind if I come back to my hippie dippe s**t.

It truly feels like a home I've been away from for too long. šŸ«¶ā˜®ļøšŸ„¾

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