Joyful Balanced Mom

Joyful Balanced Mom I help with so much: relationships, finances, emotional/spiritual health, but in a nutshell I help overwhelmed moms find their happy.😁

I have reached 100 followers! Thank you for your continued support. I could not have done it without each of you. 🙏🤗🎉
10/07/2023

I have reached 100 followers! Thank you for your continued support. I could not have done it without each of you. 🙏🤗🎉

4 Simple Brain Hacks to Escape Stress hijacking your work:Our brains naturally respond to stress by sending messages to ...
07/26/2023

4 Simple Brain Hacks to Escape Stress hijacking your work:

Our brains naturally respond to stress by sending messages to narrow focus, increasing breathing and heart rate, and releasing cortisol, which increases blood sugar levels. These are great assets if you are being chased by a bear, but if you are sitting down in an office it can cause problems, especially if the stress becomes chronic.
Your amygdala is part of your brain’s limbic system which regulates emotional and behavioral responses. When you are stressed your amygdala literally hijacks your brain’s resources and diminishes access to higher executive functioning in the pre-frontal cortex, memory storage in the hippocampus, and temperature regulation and metabolic functions of the hypothalamus. It just takes over!

It’s important to notice when you are feeling an inappropriate level of stress and take action to escape this hijacker.
Have you ever…
• found it hard to concentrate?
• Lost motivation or confidence in your job?
• found it hard to make decisions?
• felt depressed or anxious?
• felt more emotional – you might be more irritable or moody?
• felt overwhelmed or unable to ‘switch off’?

If so, you are not alone.

Some stress is inevitable and can be a good thing, motivating and propelling us to great achievements.
However, we must manage stress in healthy ways to optimize our physical and mental health and our productivity at work.
We can increase our overall resilience and reduce unhealthy stress levels with good lifestyle habits, but there are also many simple quick techniques or ‘brain hacks’ that we can use today to make our work experience so much happier and more productive. Here are just four.
4 Simple Brain Hacks
1. Breathe
You can’t overemphasize the power of taking a deep breath. There are many breathing techniques to reduce stress and increase mental and physical health. One simple, but very effective one is pursed lip breathing.
You do it by taking a deep breath in through your nose and releasing it out through your mouth, pursing your lips like you are blowing through a straw. As you breathe focus on your body’s movements. Notice your abdomen expanding and falling. Notice as your heart rate slows down. Aim for an exhale that is twice as long as your inhale, it can be helpful to count as you breathe.
Lengthening our exhale will activate our parasympathetic nervous system and bring oxygen and blood flow back to our pre-frontal cortex, which helps us relax, feel calm, and think clearer. It also slows our heart, lowers blood pressure, and promotes healthy digestion.
2. Exercise
Take a walk. Plain and simple, walking will get your blood flowing to all the right places. It will lower your blood pressure and increase your energy levels. To supercharge your stress release while you walk, admire the lovely trees and plants around campus or look up and take in the clouds and colors of the sky. Try to notice any animals you see, like birds or squirrels. Your mind will go for a quick vacation from your workload and you’ll come back fresh and ready to reengage in your work.
If you can’t get away from your desk, just stand up and stretch for a few minutes. Look at a nice picture on the wall or visually scan your office for similar colors and shapes. This will give your eyes and brain a quick break from your computer or papers. It will encourage better blood flow to your extremities and the critical thinking part of your brain.

3. Visualization
“Go to your happy place.” Picture yourself in a peaceful, beautiful place that you love. It could be the ocean at sunset, a mountain stream, a beautiful lush forest, a secluded beach, a field of wildflowers, or any place you enjoy and feel relaxed. Use all your senses as you visualize the place in this imagery. Hear the sounds of the waves, feel the breeze on your face, and smell the scent of the flowers. Once you have built your mental happy place, you can easily retrieve those comforting images in just a few seconds or you can take extra time to build a brand-new scene and get lost for a while in your mental vacation retreat. You’ll feel relaxed in no time at all.
This process of using visualization to systematically create your “happy place” integrates and activates more of your brain’s creativity and intuition with the brain’s analytical and strategy-building functions. It is very helpful with developing cognitive flexibility and helping you self-regulate in moments of stress.

4. Gratitude

This is my absolute favorite brain health hack. It’s easy and takes only seconds to do, but can change the course of your day and your life. It’s the ultimate power boost to any technique.

A simple gratitude exercise is to take a moment to recognize and celebrate how much you’ve done, how far you’ve come, or what challenges you’ve overcome in the past. You can write these things down or give yourself a pat on the back. Feeling successful will motivate you to do more.
You can also notice things that you are grateful for at work, like having clean drinkable water, climate control, and the presence of so many good people on our campus. Gratitude is the antidote to negative emotions, a neutralizer of envy, hostility, worry, and irritation.

Space and time limit my ability to elaborate on more strategies to better handle stress and build resilience like getting adequate sleep, staying hydrated, eating leafy greens, and using humor. But just implementing any of these 4 simple brain hacks will empower you to feel better at work right away.

Do you think this is just another day in your life? It's not just another day. It's the one day that is given to you: to...
05/31/2023

Do you think this is just another day in your life? It's not just another day. It's the one day that is given to you: today.

It's given to you. It's a gift. It's the only gift that you have right now. And the only appropriate response is gratefulness.

If you do nothing else but to cultivate that response to the great gift that this unique day is, if you learn to respond as if it were the first day in your life and the very last day, then you will have spent this day very well.

Begin by opening your eyes and be surprised that you have eyes you can open, that incredible array of colors that is constantly offered to us for our pure enjoyment. Look at the sky. We so rarely look at the sky. We so rarely note how different it is from moment to moment, with clouds coming and going.

We just think of the weather, and even with the weather, we don't think of all the many nuances of weather. We just think of "good weather" and "bad weather." This day, right now, has unique weather, maybe a kind that will never exactly, in that form, come again. The formation of clouds in the sky will never be the same as it is right now. Open your eyes. Look at that.

Look at the faces of people whom you meet. Each one has an incredible story behind their face, a story that you could never fully fathom, not only their own story, but the story of their ancestors.

We all go back so far, and in this present moment, on this day, all the people you meet, all that life from generations and from so many places all over the world flows together and meets you here, like a life-giving water, if you only open your heart and drink.

Open your heart to the incredible gifts that civilization gives to us. You flip a switch, and there is electric light. You turn a faucet, and there is warm water and cold water, and drinkable water. It's a gift that millions and millions in the world will never experience.

So these are just a few of an enormous number of gifts to which we can open your heart. And so I wish you that you will open your heart to all these blessings, and let them flow through you, that everyone whom you will meet on this day will be blessed by you, just by your eyes, by your smile, by your touch, just by your presence. Let the gratefulness overflow into blessing all around you.

And then, it will really be a good day.

(Words by Brother David Steindl-Rast in the video Happiness Revealed)

Have a beautiful day, my friends. 🥰

What is a relationship red flag? I listed SIX below. Can you add to the list? 🤔Most of us know what a red flag is becaus...
10/26/2022

What is a relationship red flag?
I listed SIX below.
Can you add to the list? 🤔

Most of us know what a red flag is because it doesn't feel good. 🚩= 😮‍💨😔

Yet, why do we or someone we know stay in relationships where there are red flags? 🚩🚩🚩

It is usually due to a feeling of not being good enough, strong enough, or financially safe enough to move on.

It might also be because of a deep belief that it is your job to change the other person's bad behavior.

When my clients become more self loving and empowered it becomes easier for them to notice and act on red flags in their relationships.

The solution isn't always to end the relationship, but something has to change. You deserve better! 🥰

Red Flags include:

1. Contempt
2. Devaluing
3. Yelling
4. Lying
5. Shaming
6. Willful Neglect
There's more below.

You all probably know that I love positive thinking, but to be more precise I love accurate thinking with a positive bia...
07/28/2022

You all probably know that I love positive thinking, but to be more precise I love accurate thinking with a positive bias. 🧠😁

You probably know that I love mindfulness and enjoy being in the present moment. It's one of the reasons why I love meditation so much. 🧘🏼‍♀️🥰

But to be more precise it's not just about BEING in the present moment that I love, I want to BE in ALL the moments. 🤯😍

It's a more strategic way of thinking that will give you positive results now and in the future. 🤔🤓

It's a way to think through not just your present but the consequences of your actions and in actions as well.

Being in the present moment allows me to quiet the anxious, "monkey" mind and access my calm creative mind. And being in ALL moments allows me to brainstorm the best course of action to take from here. 😊👌

It's really learning to use all parts of your brain and invite in your resources of your body and spirit. 🧠💕👁️👂👃👅🏋️💪😄

If you want to explore this way of being, this way of unlocking the potential of your mind, reach out to me. I'd love to show you how and teach you the science that backs it up if you are curious. ❤️😁



I just finished a coaching session with a lovely lady who is so skilled in her career. But she was feeling drained. She ...
07/13/2022

I just finished a coaching session with a lovely lady who is so skilled in her career. But she was feeling drained. She wanted to feel more energy and passion again.

I helped her make some connections with what she does to her higher values, including love. ❤️
She was a bit shocked because she had never thought about the connection before. She filled up with this belief and was so elevated and inspired.

She felt an energectic expansion in her mind and body and is feeling so empowered and excited to work again with this new perspective. 🤗

The session also left me feeling so grateful and at peace 🥰✌️🕊️.

When you love what you do, life just feels easier.

Here's some pictures of a nice walk Derek and I took last week. I love landscaped pathways. This one has the benefit of walking next to a river. Having always been so drought conscious, I don't think seeing an abundance of water will ever get old. 💦
Here's wishing you a beautiful day! Find a connection to what lifts you up.


Your personality IS your reality!If you are not happy with it, you can change it. It's not set in stone.It is so importa...
07/07/2022

Your personality IS your reality!

If you are not happy with it, you can change it.

It's not set in stone.

It is so important to show up in the world how you really want to be.

You can let go of your past...

and truly create a life that YOU want to joyfully live in.

As a coach, I help people with this every day.

Reach out if you'd like help with this.

We can have a chat (for FREE) and we can get to know more about you and make a plan for creating what you want and how you want to be.


What are you going to do for YOU this weekend?Why not give yourself some much-deserved self-care. I am really going to e...
07/01/2022

What are you going to do for YOU this weekend?

Why not give yourself some much-deserved self-care.

I am really going to enjoy hosting my training workshop tonight at 7pm MDT and connecting with other moms.

Then tomorrow my family and I are planning on exploring and hiking in nature.

For me, being in the trees and mountains is super relaxing.




So excited to see you tomorrow as I share the 6 Keys Every Overwhelmed Mom MUST KNOW...
06/30/2022

So excited to see you tomorrow as I share the 6 Keys Every Overwhelmed Mom MUST KNOW...

You wouldn't intentionally make a wound on your body worse by constantly poking at it. Would you?Of course not! Then why...
06/29/2022

You wouldn't intentionally make a wound on your body worse by constantly poking at it. Would you?
Of course not!
Then why would you make a wound in your mind bigger by poking at it?
Do you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts?
Like:
No one likes you!
That was stupid!
I can't do this!
What was I thinking?
It's no use, I'm going to fail!
STOP!! Don't keep saying mean things to yourself!
We won't feel better and we can't heal until we stop saying negative things to ourselves over and over again.
Our minds and our bodies are negatively affected.
I'll post some easy things to do instead in the comments to keep your minds healthy.💪🥰🦸‍♀️

I'm aware of the scarcity of time. With the right mindset, we can experience and accomplish so much good with the limite...
06/28/2022

I'm aware of the scarcity of time.

With the right mindset,

we can experience

and accomplish so much good

with the limited time we have. 💪🥰

It is my intention to help you believe in yourself and your talents more. 🥰 Sometimes we need a friendly reminder.
06/27/2022

It is my intention to help you believe in yourself and your talents more. 🥰 Sometimes we need a friendly reminder.

I really enjoyed going over my old photo albums yesterday as I finalized my presentation.Sometimes we just need a remind...
06/26/2022

I really enjoyed going over my old photo albums yesterday as I finalized my presentation.

Sometimes we just need a reminder of how far we've come.

Make time to celebrate your growth, even in simple ways. It makes a difference. 🙌🥰

Happy "school's out" summer to all moms (and dads) who work from home. 😊  LOL  Or happy "normal day in the life" to all ...
06/24/2022

Happy "school's out" summer to all moms (and dads) who work from home. 😊 LOL Or happy "normal day in the life" to all homeschooling families with parents that work from home.

This is for those with young kids. My boys are older now and I get a little worried when I haven't seen them or heard from them in a while.
Now, I'm constantly stopping what I'm doing to go check on them. I might have to find a different cartoon image. 😆

Here is a quote from one of my family's favorite Christmas books, “The SpyGlass.”"Faith is the beginning of all journeys...
06/23/2022

Here is a quote from one of my family's favorite Christmas books, “The SpyGlass.”

"Faith is the beginning of all journeys.
It is by faith that the seed is planted.
It is by faith that the foundation is dug.
It is by faith that each book is penned and each song is written.

Only with faith can we see that which is not, but can be.

The eye of faith is greater than the natural eye, for the natural eye sees only a portion of truth.

The eye of faith sees without bounds or limits.

You have seen what might be.

Now go and MAKE it so.”

This is what I love about being a coach.
I help people envision what might be and then empower them to make it so. 🔭🔮👁️🌱💪🥰🎉
-
Coach Cynthia

Passionate is better than stressed. ❤️🙌👌
06/23/2022

Passionate is better than stressed. ❤️🙌👌

"Some give up their designs when they have almost reached the goal; while others, on the contrary, obtain a victory by e...
06/22/2022

"Some give up their designs when they have almost reached the goal; while others, on the contrary, obtain a victory by exerting, at the last moment, more vigorous efforts than ever before."
~Herodotus, the Father of History

It's a head trip. When I ran the mile in high school track, I thought the hardest lap was the third.

If I came in strong and focused on the finish line, adrenaline would carry me well through the fourth and last lap, but if I let fatigue and worry about my position in the race play with my mind, I might as well not have even started the fourth lap, because I'd already given up in my head.

If you have time to listen to the mumble in your head, you're probably not moving fast enough.

Speed and/or activity will clear the negative voices and help you focus on getting to the finish line where you want to be. I don't know if that makes sense to anyone else.

Just keep moving with a laser focus toward where you want to be! It's much easier than the alternative, staying stuck in place. 😁You WILL get there!

06/02/2022

I'm about to go live in the private Joyful Balanced Mom group. I felt it had to be shared. It is something extra special. I hope you can watch it. 🥰

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