Shenita | Life + Relationship Coach
Feel too much? Give too much? I know that you always put the needs of others before your own. Welcome home my friend.
I help you release what’s heavy & reclaim your joy.
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https://calendly.com/myfuturefocused/breakthroughsession I enjoy working with highly sensitive people/empaths who desire to have authentic and loving relationships. My expertise is in helping you build loving relationships, compassionate communication skills, and stress/anxiety management skills. Sometimes, you secretly wish other people would give to you the same way you give to them. But there is a warrior inside of you that is aching to be loosed. I can feel you are ready to break free from crippling doubt and make yourself a priority. Your journey has led you to our Compassionate Community. Together, you will learn how to build sustainable self-care practices, so that you can boldly communicate your needs and experience loving and fulfilling relationships. Welcome to your Compassionate Community. Here, YOU belong!
16/12/2025
I’m gently stepping back from social media and leaning into a quieter rhythm.
If you’d like to stay connected, I’ll be sharing updates through my newsletter and on YouTube.
Let’s be honest...
Most empaths don’t want to fix people; we just don’t know who we are without someone to save. 🫢
That’s the quiet part we rarely say out loud.
In my new blog post, The Energetics of Attachment, I share why we mistake intensity for intimacy and why walking away can feel like betrayal when you’re wired for deep connection.
But it’s not about betrayal. It’s about boundaries, and boundaries are love in action. 🌿
Even when a partner shows love, past trauma can block full trust. Hypervigilance and insecurity trap individuals, disconnecting them from true intimacy and joy. It prevents true connection within oneself.
18/09/2025
Reconnect With Yourself: Stop Chasing, Start Being
What if the things you chase are now chasing you? Reconnecting with yourself increases self-awareness and compassion. Small changes can create huge results, inspiring others to seek their own transformations.
15/09/2025
Chasing after what drains you will never lead to peace. ✨
A dysfunctional relationship can feel like love, but it keeps you predictable, controllable, and compliant.
True healing begins when you stop running after what hurts and choose alignment instead. 🌿
💜 Remember: It’s always okay to choose you. Again and again!🔑
12/09/2025
Peace isn't the absence of struggle but the presence of safety.
When the nervous system is regulated, we gain emotional clarity, authentic connection, and wisdom. Challenges are met with understanding, not reactivity.
Choose yourself and your body will reciprocate.
08/09/2025
September is National Recovery Month, and I’m honored to share Closing the Gap in Recovery: How Sound & Energy Healing Support the Journey. 💜✨
For years, I’ve witnessed how traditional approaches to recovery focus on the body and mind, but often leave out the nervous system and the soul. In this talk, I share:
🌿 What sound therapy and energy healing really mean
✨ Ancient roots + modern science (NIH + peer-reviewed evidence)
💜 How these practices support individuals in active substance use, treatment, and recovery
👥 Why families, loved ones, and professionals need healing too
🌟 How The Sound of Resilience program bridges science + soul
Sound and energy practices aren’t “woo woo”; they’re evidence-informed tools that create safety in the body, calm the nervous system, and empower emotional strength.
If you’ve ever wondered how holistic healing can support recovery, this video is for you.
September is National Recovery Month, and I’m honored to share Closing the Gap in Recovery: How Sound & Energy Healing Support the Journey. 💜✨For years, I’v...
08/09/2025
I’m in that phase where I’m doing things I once thought were impossible. 💪🏽✨
Here’s the truth: the body, mind, and spirit are capable of more than we often believe. 🌿 When we create safety in the body 🧘🏽♀️, clarity in the mind 🧠, and peace in the spirit 💜, the “impossible” starts to feel like alignment.
That’s the power of holistic healing. Strength that carries you into every part of life. 🙌🏽
05/09/2025
Happy National Recovery Month 💜
Recovery is not invisible. It is resilience in action. It is courage, strength, and the daily choice to move forward.
To my friends, family, colleagues, and clients in recovery: you are seen, you are loved, and you are not alone.
And to those not walking the recovery path, remember that we all have our own recoveries. From stress. From burnout. From grief. The wisdom of recovery reminds us that wholeness is possible for every one of us.
At Future Focused Coaching and Wellness, I use sound and energy healing as tools for recovery from stress and overwhelm, offering a safe place for people to reconnect with themselves and restore balance.
💭 Journal Prompt for Reflection:
What is one part of your life that is quietly asking to recover?
27/08/2025
Sometimes the hardest healing is releasing the person you were when you survived. 🌿
Survival is sacred. It carried you through storms you didn’t think you’d make it out of. 🌊 But the self that survived isn’t always the self that can thrive. Healing asks us to loosen our grip, to let go of the armor, and to step into the softness of who we are now. 🦋
💭 What part of your “survivor self” are you ready to release?
26/08/2025
We’ve been trained to mistake pain for passion and chaos for love. But love does not drain you, silence you, or break you down. That’s not love, that’s survival, control, or bo***ge. 💔
Real love restores. It builds you up. It lets you breathe deeper and stand taller. If it isn’t bringing you back to yourself, it isn’t love. Period. 🌿
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25/08/2025
✨ Are you showing up as your true self… or as the version they need you to be?
Empaths and sensitive souls often shape-shift to keep the peace, but that’s not love; that’s self-abandonment. 💔
Authenticity is your medicine. When you show up rooted in who you are, your energy flows, your nervous system calms, and the right people are drawn to you. 🌱💜
So tell me… are you being YOU, or are you performing who they expect? Drop your truth below ⬇️
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Future Focused Coaching and wellness is a coaching firm specializing in personal development and wellness. I am a Certified Positive Psychology Coach using evidenced based and effective coaching interventions to guide you to compassionately move through many of life’s ups and downs. I believe in the power of radical self-care and teaching you why making yourself a priority is an act of love and personal power.
I am a successful personal development coach that helps individuals through phase of life events. My ideal clients are individuals that typically play the supportive role in the lives of others, but are now seeking to build sustainable self-care practices. This individual could be a caregiver, a helper, or someone who takes on the responsibilities of others.
As the founder of Future Focused Coaching and Wellness, my mission is to create a safe, supportive, and encouraging coaching experience for those seeking to build a life of purpose and power.
Clients have often called me the “Compassionate Coach” because I have a unique ability to authentically connect with clients and help them to re-discover their inner power.
As a former psychotherapist, I have valuable lived experience with challenges that comes with always taking care of others and not making myself a priority. I understand what it's like to have a big generous heart that only works for the service of others, and struggle to make self a priority. This was the motivating factor for me to begin my healing self-care journey and later become a personal development coach.
Now, because of my courage to reach out for a life filled with self-love and purpose, I am wanting to share my lived experiences, training, and encouraging results with you.
It is my personal mission to be of service to you by providing affordable coaching, ease of entry into coaching services, and the opportunity to construct your coaching experience as you choose. I believe in keeping things simple, honest, and effective.
I’m very excited to work with you. Let’s get started.