Robert: Your Favorite Black Gay Uncle

09/11/2025

My sister !
I love you more than words can say.
Happy Birthday to my biggest fan, cheerleader, and I of you.
Watching you add being an amazing wife and mother to your repertoire of being a great person has been a delight.
To many more!

28/09/2025

Cuz being a means you gotta put in the work!

It’s always about the 💕!

***rboyjoy

02/08/2025

This week, my partner & I had the pleasure of meeting .politicized.practitioner in Ann Arbor . Was so wonderful to see a familiar face, but more important to his & words & wisdom from their new books from .

Having tools we need to take care of ourselves mentally & socially are revolutionary!

***rboyjoy ***rliterature🏳️‍🌈

26/07/2025

How are you making space for many things to be true at once?

My partner & I have been able to accomplish in five months living Detroit what we were NEVER going to obtain in Canada after almost 30 years of our combined time living there.

It sickens me to my stomach knowing that my tax dollars from both countries are funding a genocide and starving people to death.

How do you live surviving systems that were not designed for black and/or q***r people thrive?

That’s the resistance.

Stay woke y’all! Keep fighting, maintaining, loving.

XO,
Black Gay Uncle

***rboyjoy

29/06/2025

Whose Uncle is this? & what about this basket? 🧺 He got something for you: SPF, gum, and a lot of love.❤️

Sorry I’ve been MIA. The last 9 years living in 🇨🇦 has me f*cked up. But I’m remembering in life good things happen in addition to the good things that don’t & the bad things that do. Making space for it all.

Out of sight…but know I’m rooting for you!

👑🌈✨ ***rboyjoy

25/12/2024

I made EP2 just for the holidays. Check it out and see how Boundaries, Rules, and Grace can help with peace of mind during the holidays!

Stand on Business! Don't forget, Your fave BGU is rootin' for you!

***rboyjoy

Standing on Business: Navigating Boundaries, Rules, and Grace with Confidence. Advice from your Favorite Black Gay Uncle.The holidays can be tricky for Black...

21/12/2024

Do I have the resume to be YOUR Favorite Black Gay Uncle? Just dropped my 1st episode of Tea With Robert: Your Favorite Black Gay Uncle on Youtube. Catch the full episode & let me know what you think. https://youtu.be/yAZJKCNegQk 👑🌈✨ ***rboyjoy

16/12/2024

🌈✨What and/or Who has held you down like my wig Lucille!? 😂Took a moment from editing my 1st YouTube Vid to celebrate a real one in my life. What REAL life advice can I share with you all soon? ***rboyjoy

13/12/2024

🌈✨ Why is Robert the absolute ideal Black Gay Uncle. 👑Unmatched Sass – You need someone who knows how to read the room, and everyone in it. 😂Life Advice – Need advice about your career? Relationships? Which brunch spot has the best mimosas? Robert’s got you covered with wisdom, wit, and probably a glass of something fancy. 🥂The Love – No one knows how to show love like Robert. Whether it’s giving you a hug that lasts five minutes (because feelings) or helping you plan your next fabulous vacation, Robert is 100% heart. 💖So yeah, having Robert as your Black Gay Uncle? Ideal. 🏆💅 ***rboyjoy

26/11/2024

Taking care of myself is the first step toward achieving my new VLOG goals. Remember, taking time for yourself fuels creativity and inspiration. Let’s prioritize our well-being and chase those dreams together!

24/11/2024

Tea With Robert is a weekly VLOG that offers life lessons and advice based on his life. Robert T. Alsberry III (he/him) was a gender non-confirming, adventurous child who grew up to realize his destiny: Be a Black, Gay Uncle!