This may be hard to swallow, but reading books, watching YouTube videos, or listening to podcasts about marriage or relationships or couples is unlikely to create lasting improvement in your relationship.
Because your communication problems, feelings of disconnect, lack of security , etc. are rooted deeply in your unconscious mind and nervous system.
You aren't consciously aware of the internal forces at work for both of you in creating the repeating patterns in your relationship.
I know -- UGH!
I also know it's really hard to take that step of reaching out to a relationship expert for help.
But if you want lasting change, you need a third person in your relationship for awhile, someone trained and experienced in helping couples go deep with each other to understand the roots of behavior, attitudes, and communication patterns.
I am here when you are ready.
And I have many years of successfully helping couples navigate their distress and learn how to communicate better and create relationships that thrive -- especially couples who are entrepreneurs.
Link to schedule a free consultation is in the first comment.