By Grace Through Faith

By Grace Through Faith Certified Doula and Certified Childbirth Educator, providing compassionate support through pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum.

By Grace Through Faith Birth Services. Serving Western North Carolina during pregnancy, labor and delivery and postpartum. Faith-filled birth support for every mother’s journey.

💜 Visiting a newborn? This list is gold. Too often, people focus on “seeing the baby,” when in reality what new mothers ...
08/27/2025

💜 Visiting a newborn? This list is gold. Too often, people focus on “seeing the baby,” when in reality what new mothers need most is support, care, and relief.

✔️ Ask mom what she needs first—whether that’s a shower, a nap, or simply someone to listen.
✔️ Don’t assume she wants you to hold the baby. Sometimes the best place for that baby is right in mama’s arms.
✔️ Instead of asking what can I do?—just do something! Fold the laundry, wash the dishes, wipe the counters. Invisible chores are life-giving.
✔️ Check in on siblings. Read with them, play with them, so mom doesn’t feel split in two.
✔️ Encourage her to rest. Hold the baby for 20 minutes so she can close her eyes.
✔️ Bring snacks or coffee for dad/partner too—they’re adjusting right alongside her.
✔️ Listen more than you talk. Hold space for her exhaustion, tears, and joy without judgment.

💡 Visitors should come with love and leave with grace. The baby doesn’t need visitors—the mother needs a village.



👉 Learn more about my doula services here: By Grace Through Faith Birth Services

08/27/2025

Routine Cervical Checks in Labor: What They Don’t Tell You

Most people assume that routine cervical checks during labor are harmless and necessary. But the truth is, frequent vaginal exams carry risks—physical, emotional, and even spiritual—that you deserve to know before consenting.

The Risks of Routine Checks

Infection Risk: Every vaginal exam introduces bacteria, increasing the risk of infection for both mother and baby—especially after waters have broken.

Discomfort & Trauma: Many women find cervical checks extremely painful, invasive, and triggering. They can increase tension in the body, which may actually stall labor.

False Progress Reports: Cervical dilation does not accurately predict how close you are to giving birth. A woman can be “stuck” at 4cm for hours—or go from 4cm to 10cm in minutes. Relying on numbers often discourages mothers and leads to unnecessary interventions.

Why Hospitals Really Do Them
The truth is, cervical checks are less about your well-being and more about hospital protocol and staff convenience. Medical staff have multiple patients to manage and use cervical checks to “measure progress” on their timeline—not yours. This can lead to unnecessary interventions like Pitocin, breaking your waters, or pressuring you into a C-section if you don’t dilate “fast enough.”

But God designed birth to unfold in His perfect timing. Progress is not linear, and your body knows exactly what to do when it’s safe and supported.

Your Rights
You have the right to decline routine cervical checks. Evidence-based care supports minimal or no vaginal exams, especially when there are no complications. A doula or birth advocate can help you understand your options, protect your space, and remind staff that “routine” does not mean “mandatory.”

> “For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.” – Galatians 5:1

Birth is not meant to be micromanaged. Trust your body, trust God’s design, and know that you can say no to unnecessary procedures.

References (clickable):

1. Evidence Based Birth – Vaginal Exams During Labor

2. Cochrane Review – Routine Vaginal Exams in Labor

3. Midwives Alliance – Cervical Dilation Myths

4. World Health Organization – Intrapartum Care Recommendations

5. National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI) – Frequency of Vaginal Exams

08/27/2025

What a Doula Truly Is—and Why Their Advocacy Matters

A doula is a non‑medical professional who provides unwavering emotional, physical, and informational support before, during, and after childbirth. Unlike medical staff, doulas don’t administer treatments—but they ensure you understand what’s happening, give you tools to make choices, and help you feel seen, heard, and respected.

Benefits backed by solid research:

Shorter labor and fewer cesarean sections

Less reliance on pain medication

Better scores for newborns, minimized NICU stays

Improved emotional outcomes—lower anxiety, depression, and trauma

Greater satisfaction with the birth experience

Why Many “Routine” Hospital Interventions Aren’t as Safe or Beneficial as They Seem

Let’s bust a myth: just because something is common doesn’t make it normal—or inherently safe.

Interventions like induction, epidurals, and cesareans can disrupt the natural hormonal cascade that supports optimal birthing, bonding, breastfeeding, and maternal health

Many are performed primarily for staff convenience, scheduling, or risk management, rather than tailored to your individual well‑being

The biomedical/technocratic model of birth often sidelines the birthing person—prioritizing efficiency over human-centered care

A Doula’s Core Superpower: Strategic Advocacy

Doulas occupy a unique, liminal space—operating between the clinical world and your personal experience. This position allows them to weave together both worlds in service of your rights and dignity.

Here’s how that plays out:

Educating you: Explaining what each procedure is, what it risks, and what alternatives exist—especially those that preserve your body’s natural power

Amplifying your voice: Whether it’s asking for a time-out, clarity, or for your birth plan to be honored, doulas are right there supporting you to speak up. They don’t speak for you—they help you speak for yourself

Calmly translating: Medical staff can feel rushed or officious; doulas help translate clinical language into language you understand—and ensure your wishes don’t get lost in translation

Providing comfort and presence: Their continual emotional and physical support—through massage, positioning, breathing techniques—means you're less likely to agree to unnecessary interventions out of fear or fatigue

The Stakes Are Even Higher for Marginalized Communities

For birthing people of color, those with less education or income, or those navigating bias—doulas do more than support: they bridge systemic inequities.

Doulas reduce disparities by improving outcomes—lower rates of preterm birth, cesareans, low birthweight—and boosting breastfeeding and emotional well-being

Medicaid coverage for doulas in several states has yielded striking gains: 8% fewer hospital admissions, 8% fewer cesareans, a drop in low birthweight by 4%, and over $1,600 saved per birth

Putting It All Together—in Your Voice

Here’s how this might sound from you:

> "In a hospital setting where interventions like induction or epidurals can be treated as routine—but actually disrupt our natural hormones, our agency, and our bond with our baby—a doula becomes our guardian and our guide. They’re in our corner when we’re too tired or overwhelmed to advocate for ourselves. They don’t put words in our mouths—but they help us find our own strength to ask questions, refuse what doesn’t feel right, and insist on understanding risks and alternatives. Research shows doulas aren’t just “nice to have”—they improve outcomes and protect our humanity. And for communities facing systemic bias, they’re downright life‑saving."

Sources at a Glance

Role & benefits of doulas: continuous non‑medical support, better outcomes

Harm of routine interventions: disruption of hormonal & biological birth physiology

Strategic advocacy & liminal role: doulas educate, amplify voices, uphold autonomy

Impact on marginalized groups & Medicaid stats: improved equity, reduced interventions, cost savings

🌹 The Real Dangers of Induction of Labor 🌹Induction of labor may sound routine, but it is a serious intervention that ch...
08/27/2025

🌹 The Real Dangers of Induction of Labor 🌹

Induction of labor may sound routine, but it is a serious intervention that changes the natural rhythm God designed for birth. Unless it is truly medically necessary, families should be fully informed of the risks. Here are some of the most significant dangers:

1️⃣ Uterine Hyperstimulation (Tachysystole)

Medications like Pitocin (synthetic oxytocin) or prostaglandins can cause excessively strong or frequent contractions. This “hyperstimulation” reduces oxygen supply to the baby and can result in:

Fetal distress and abnormal heart rate patterns

Higher likelihood of emergency C-section

Greater use of interventions such as epidurals, forceps, or vacuum delivery

👉 Research shows up to 10–20% of inductions result in uterine hyperstimulation (ACOG, 2019).

2️⃣ Increased Cesarean Section Risk

Induction—especially in first-time mothers—significantly raises the risk of cesarean birth. Why? Because the body may not be ready, leading to slow, difficult labors. Documented outcomes include:

Nearly double the risk of cesarean compared with spontaneous labor (CDC, Cochrane Review)

More interventions and longer recovery times

Greater likelihood of postpartum complications

👉 Kjerulff et al. (2017) found a 35.9% C-section rate after induction vs. 18.9% after spontaneous labor.
🔗 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6366839/

3️⃣ Postpartum Hemorrhage (PPH)

One of the most serious maternal risks of induction is excessive bleeding after birth. Strong, frequent contractions fatigue the uterus, making it less able to contract after delivery. This increases the likelihood of hemorrhage.

WHO reports induction nearly doubles the risk of PPH in some populations

Braund et al. (2023) found induction linked to a 56% increase in PPH ≥500mL and a 51% increase in severe PPH ≥1000mL

Severe blood loss may require transfusion, extended hospitalization, or emergency surgery

🔗 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37568268/
🔗 https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3555986/

4️⃣ Other Risks Families Should Know

Infection: When waters are broken early to start labor, infection risks rise with every hour until delivery.

NICU Admissions: Babies born after elective induction are more likely to need breathing or feeding support, especially if induced before 39–40 weeks.

Emotional Impact: Induced labors are often more painful, longer, and more medicalized, leaving some mothers feeling less empowered by their birth experience.

✨ God created birth to begin in His perfect timing. When both mother and baby are healthy, waiting for labor to start naturally is often the safest, most protective path. As your doula, my mission is to make sure you know your options, your risks, and your God-given rights in birth.

💬 Did you know induction could increase the risks of cesarean and postpartum hemorrhage?

📚 References for Families Who Want to Learn More:

Braund et al. 2023 — Induction increases risk of postpartum hemorrhage: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37568268/

Khireddine et al. 2013 — Induction and higher PPH rates: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3555986/

Kjerulff et al. 2017 — Cesarean rates nearly double with induction: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6366839/

AIMS UK — C-sections are twice as common after induction: https://www.aims.org.uk/information/item/induction-and-caesarean

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Why Jesus’ Covenant Means Physical Circumcision Is No Longer Required

Fellow believers, under the covenant of Jesus Christ, we’re called away from relying on outward rituals like physical circumcision. That was the sign of Abraham’s covenant with God—and it served its purpose in pointing forward to Jesus. But now, through Christ’s work, we’ve been brought into a new family by faith—circumcised not in flesh, but in the heart.

Paul couldn’t be clearer: circumcision or uncircumcision now amounts to nothing; what matters is faith expressing itself through love (Colossians 2; 1 Corinthians 7). By Acts 15, the apostles had declared Gentile believers weren’t required to be circumcised—because the New Covenant doesn’t demand it.

Yet, for many families today, neonatal circumcision remains widespread. Roughly 58–64 percent of newborn boys in the U.S. are circumcised, and 80 percent of adult men have undergone the procedure.

Let’s also acknowledge the risks: while most procedures go smoothly, minor complications like bleeding, infection, or meatal stenosis occur in 2–5 percent of cases (and up to 7–14 percent in some reports). Meatal stenosis, which narrows the urethral opening, affects 5–20 percent of circumcised boys and can require surgical correction. Overall, acute serious complications are rare (~0.1 %), but risks increase with age—adolescents face a 6 percent complication rate.

On sexual function, the majority of studies find no clear negative effects on desire, erections, or***ms, or ej*******on. That said, the fo****in is a unique, sensitive structure: its “ridged band” is loaded with nerve endings and may enhance pleasure. Its removal may result in keratinization of the g***s, potentially reducing sensitivity and increasing friction for both partners. Some studies even claim intact men report significantly higher sensitivity. Though the evidence is debated, the fo****in does play protective and sensory roles biologically.

In sum: if Christ has circumcised our hearts, then outward circumcision holds no spiritual weight—not for identity, fellowship, or salvation. And medically, it’s not without cost—risks and the loss of a natural, anatomically and physiologically important part call us to consider carefully. Let us stand firm in this liberating truth, pursuing faith—not ritual—as the measure of our faithfulness.

08/26/2025
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