The Life You Seek

07/10/2025

You can’t fix loneliness with a relationship. Especially not one built on mixed signals and bare-minimum effort.

When attention is inconsistent but just enough to keep you hoping, you start bonding to crumbs—and calling it connection.

If you’ve ever stayed too long in something that never really held you—this blog is for you.

✨ It breaks down:
– Why attention feels addictive
– How to tell if you’re settling for proximity, not partnership
– What real connection actually looks like
– Tools to help you stop chasing clarity and start choosing peace

Comment the word “PEACE” below and I’ll DM you the link. Or head to the link in my bio to read now.

07/05/2025

Because for many Black women, today doesn’t feel like freedom.
Not when strength has been survival.
Not when silence has been required.
Not when rest still feels like a luxury.

This week’s blog is for those of us who are unlearning the need to hold it all together — and choosing to come home to ourselves instead.

🖤 “I’m Not Strong, I’m Surviving” is live.
Tap the link in bio to read.
And take your rest today — not because it’s a holiday, but because you deserve to.

02/07/2025

Fresh Start February: Your Chance to Reset

January was… a lot. Between political shifts, economic worries, and the stress of trying to keep up with resolutions, many of us are feeling exhausted. But here’s a reminder: You can start fresh anytime.

✨ Need a reset? Try this:
✅ Step away from the constant news cycle—it’s okay to take a break.
✅ Break big goals into small, consistent habits that actually stick.
✅ Focus on what you can control—your habits, energy, and well-being.
✅ Lean into community, whether that’s friends, therapy, or activism.

📖 Want the full list of tips? Click the link in my bio to read the full blog! Or comment “Fresh Start” below and I’ll send it via DM.

POLL: Are you claiming Fresh Start February? Lets me know it the poll or comment below!

11/20/2024

Thanksgiving is supposed to be a time for gratitude, but let’s be honest—it can come with its fair share of stress. From tense family dynamics to political debates at the dinner table, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.

Here’s the truth: you don’t owe anyone your presence, especially if it comes at the expense of your peace. 🛑

This year, Thanksgiving can look like whatever YOU need it to be—whether that’s skipping the family gathering, setting boundaries, or creating new traditions. Ready to explore how to make the holiday yours?

👉🏾 Check out our latest blog: "Thanksgiving Without the Stress: Choosing Peace" for tips on protecting your peace, navigating family dynamics, and reimagining the holiday. 💛

📲 Read the blog here: https://wix.to/0WMtZrk

How are you choosing peace this Thanksgiving? Let us know in the comments! 👇🏾

Make this Thanksgiving yours. Explore ways to set boundaries, avoid tension, and celebrate in peace, gratitude, and your own way.

11/12/2024

Feeling drained after the election? You’re not alone.

After big events, it’s common to feel a mix of emotions—hope, disappointment, and sometimes, complete exhaustion. Many are questioning if they should keep showing up for causes or communities, especially when it feels like others aren’t doing the same. Compassion fatigue is real, and now is the perfect time for some intentional self-care. 💙

Here are a few ways to protect your peace and stay true to yourself:

🌱 Radical Acceptance: Accepting what’s beyond our control doesn’t mean we have to like it—it just helps us find peace with it.

🌱 Mindfulness: Pause and notice your emotions. When we name our feelings, we allow ourselves to process them without judgment.

🌱 Values-Based Living: Stay connected to what matters most. Small acts, like connecting with loved ones or supporting a local cause, honor your values.

🌱 Rest and Renewal: Taking a break isn’t quitting; it’s recharging. Make time for rest to prevent burnout and refresh your spirit.

💬 How are you practicing self-care this season? Share in the comments—let’s support each other through this!

Check out my blog for more tips! https://wix.to/Rgut0l5

Discover post-election self-care practices like radical acceptance and mindfulness to stay grounded, honor your values, and find peace.

10/28/2024

Election Day is right around the corner, and with it can come a lot of stress and anxiety, especially for historically disadvantaged communities. The constant news cycle and pressure to stay informed can be overwhelming, but it’s possible to protect your peace.

In my latest blog post, I’m sharing 5 strategies to help you navigate political stress this election season. From creating intentional news boundaries to simple self-care practices, these steps can help you stay centered and prioritize your well-being.

If you’re feeling the weight of election season, this post is for you. Take a moment to read, reflect, and protect your peace. Read the full blog here 👉🏾https://wix.to/3qnViGM

Election season stress is real. Here’s how to protect your peace, set boundaries, and stay grounded in the days leading up to Election Day.

10/21/2024

🌿 New Blog Post Alert! 🌿
Life can feel overwhelming with everything happening lately—from natural disasters to personal challenges. But staying grounded and positive is key to building resilience.

In my latest blog post, I’m sharing powerful affirmations for tough times that can help you rewire your mind for peace and strength, no matter what’s going on around you. 💪🏾✨

Check it out and start speaking positivity into your life today. You deserve peace and empowerment, especially in the hardest moments. https://wix.to/PH1ax5N

👉🏾 Read the full post now!

Affirmations help rewire your mindset in tough times. Speak positivity, build resilience, and protect your peace through life's storms.

10/15/2024

Stress is a normal part of life, but when it becomes chronic, it can impact more than just your mood. Constant fatigue, emotional changes, difficulty concentrating, and even physical symptoms like headaches are signs that your stress may be masking something deeper, like anxiety or depression. If these signs feel familiar, it’s important to take action for your mental health.

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Sign up for our Empowerment Circle newsletter to learn more about managing chronic stress and prioritizing your well-being. Together, we rise by lifting each other. 💛

10/12/2024

We often say, “I’m just stressed,” but when stress starts to take over your life, it could be a sign of something more serious. Chronic stress can impact your mental and physical health, leading to conditions like anxiety or depression. 🧠💚

As we close out Mental Illness Awareness Week, take a moment to check in with yourself. If stress has been taking your peace, your joy, or your energy, it’s okay to seek help.

👉🏾 Read our latest blog post to learn how to recognize the signs that your stress might be more than just a rough patch: https://wix.to/FYkRIw6

Together, we rise by lifting each other. 💫

Constant stress could be more than just a bad day. Learn how to spot the signs that stress may be masking a mental health issue.

10/01/2024

🧡 Just because September—Su***de Prevention Month—has ended, doesn’t mean the conversation should. 🧡

Every September, we dedicate extra time to raising awareness about su***de prevention and mental health. But the truth is, these are issues we need to keep talking about and addressing every single day. Su***de prevention is an ongoing effort.

If you know someone struggling or in crisis, or if you need support yourself, don’t wait to reach out. Call or text 988—the free, confidential Su***de & Crisis Lifeline available 24/7. 🤝🏾 Your call could make all the difference.

In my latest blog post, I talk about the importance of recognizing when someone might be in need and how to respond with compassion and urgency. 💡 Read more here: https://wix.to/9BNGY79

Let’s keep this conversation going, because showing up for each other doesn’t stop with September. It’s something we must do every day.

Together, we rise by lifting each other. ✊🏾💚

It’s a situation none of us want to imagine: someone you care about opens up and says they don’t want to be here anymore. For most of us, that’s a moment that can shake us to our core. And what we do in that moment is everything. Recently, I experienced this firsthand—not once, but twice in ...

06/21/2024

Reflecting on Juneteenth, it’s time to take charge of our healing journey. Swipe through to discover the 5 R’s of Healing and Empowerment to break free from generational trauma and build a brighter future.💪🏽



🔗Link to full blog in bio!

06/21/2024

✨ Reflecting on Juneteenth and Healing Generational Trauma ✨

I'm excited to share my latest blog post on the 5 R's of Healing and Empowerment. Dive into how we can recognize trauma, reclaim cultural pride, and rejuvenate through self-care. Let's honor our past and build a brighter future together. 💪🏾

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Reflecting on Juneteenth: The 5 R's of Healing and Empowerment for Generational Trauma