08/16/2022
Being an and a therapist has been a match made in heaven. 🌟💫
It is a place where the giftedness of ME gets to meet the art and science of psychotherapy, but as I sat in reflection after our latest talk on I remembered that for many of us empaths this sensing didn’t always or hasn’t shared itself as a gift, but as a coping mechanism to be loved and safe in this world.
For the empaths out there, our childhood ego wounds most likely resulted in the internalizing narrative of seeking love and acceptance…
“If I change this about me…I will be loved.”
“When they see how I do this…I will be loved.”
“I can show them how to fix this…then I will be loved.”
All of these narratives came from a place of SENSING the pain, distraction, self-involvement, preoccupation or avoidance in others, by that sweet dear little empath and wanting so hard to use their gift to get back what they wanted the others to feel. What a beautiful gift they wanted to present, but from the motivation of needing the safety in return.
So today, sweet loves, whether this is a REMINDER of your giftedness or a REVELATION of such, know that you are good, worthy and lovable because you are, and that this AMAZING purpose of reading and sensing energy and emotions is to be used as a guide, a teacher, a healer, but must first be turned inward for yourself. 🥰🥰
Go be magnificent, loves. Xoxo 😘