10/13/2025
I had to move away from ol girl in class because she was letting her self doubt and negative thoughts win outloud...expressing that she cant do it or get the steps despite a few others attempting to motivate her...instead she chose to sit in that and allow that to be her truth...I chose to interact with the dancers who had heart and laughed at their mistakes and was eager to try again and again...and that motivated me to NOT enter a space of self doubt or allow that to grow and intensify when there's literally someone next to me sharing how much they cant do it. Could I have told her she could? Sure. Did I have the capacity for her? No. How come? Because i was building the capacity and emotional safety in myself to fight any self doubt. And decided to go where the energy was more positive and a push, then allow anything negative to be my reality. Because it's not. I Am a Great Dancer. I enjoy dancing and I Am enough. Can careless who thinks otherwise, because you cant dance like me because I am simply Me. No one can teach you to be you, so stop searching for validation in other people!! #
