12/05/2025
I run a free service helping people find senior communities. Many of my client's families tell me they first realized it was time to look at a move to a senior community when everyone got together for the holidays. It's a great time to take stock of how aging parents are doing.
Really look at how they are maintaining their house, get a gauge on how frequently they are cooking, and figure out how often they spend time with good friends. They may not realize they are slipping in those areas, especially if it happened gradually. Or they may be trying to shield you from the fact that they are struggling.
If you notice problems in these areas, start making plans to address them now. Better yet, call and schedule a conversation with me. I can help you put together a game plan, even if you don't think your parents are going to be excited to face the issue. Things won't get better on their own, so don't put it off.