04/24/2026
A friend recently asked how I came up with the name of my business, a free service that helps families find senior living communities. The answer reaches back more than twenty years to a plant.
A friend once gave me an orchid he'd stopped watering a month earlier. It was still green but shriveled and sad looking. If I wanted to try bringing it back to life, he said, it was mine. For the next few months, I diligently soaked it in a bucket of warm water once a week. Eventually a spindly new growth appeared, and I was soon rewarded with beautiful flowers. Since then, it has bloomed reliably, multiple times a year.
Many of the seniors I work with remind me of that orchid. Living alone in their homes, increasingly isolated, they begin to shrivel, their health and quality of life quietly diminishing. Isolation is linked to depression, cognitive decline, and heart disease. But when seniors move into a community, something remarkable often happens: those conditions begin to reverse. They blossom.