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03/07/2026

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Because too many of us treat healing like something we'll get to "when things slow down."

Here's the truth: things don't slow down. YOU have to slow down. And choosing to heal — actively, intentionally — changes everything downstream.

Your relationships.
Your creativity.
Your bank account.
Your legacy.

It ALL starts with the healing.

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03/06/2026

If you've been 'about to start' for weeks — read this. Your creativity isn't broken. It's protecting you. 💜

What looks like a creative block is often your inner self running protection. Here are 5 signs — and what to do about each one, from Awakened Lounge.

03/04/2026

March feels like a reset.

Not because everything is magically easier…
but because some of us are finally tired of carrying what no longer fits.

This season, I’m leaving behind:

• overthinking
• shrinking
• emotional clutter
• waiting for perfect timing

Transformation requires release.

So let’s talk about it:
What are you leaving behind in this season?

Drop one thing in the comments. 👇🏾

03/02/2026

She is not just a moment.
She is the blueprint.

Before us, there were women who endured in silence.
Women who created without credit.
Women who prayed, built, nurtured, fought, and believed when the world told them not to.

This month, we honor the women who carried families, culture, creativity, and faith on their backs — and still found time to dream.

And we honor the women becoming.
The healers.
The cycle-breakers.
The entrepreneurs.
The artists.
The mothers.
The women rebuilding foundations in real time.

Women’s History Month isn’t just about looking back.
It’s about recognizing the power we’re walking in right now.

Tag a woman who inspires you. 💛
And if no one told you today — you are part of history too.

03/01/2026

https://www.awakenedlounge.org/resources/is-colorism-still-dividing-black-women-or-are-we-finally-ready-to-talk-about-it

Colorism didn’t disappear just because we learned a new language to talk about it. It still shows up in casting calls that say “open to all shades” but somehow always lean lighter. It shows up in the way darker-skinned women are labeled as “strong” while lighter-skinned women are allowed s...

02/28/2026

Healing doesn’t always look like isolation.
Sometimes it looks like rest.
Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself—without guilt.

This is your reminder that peace is part of the process.

✨ Breathe. Release. Receive. ✨

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02/27/2026

Healthy love doesn’t feel heavy.
It laughs easily. Travels freely. Feels safe enough to enjoy the moment.

When love brings more peace than pressure, you’re doing it right.
Choose joy. Choose ease. Choose connection. 🤍✈️

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02/26/2026

https://www.awakenedlounge.org/resources/desire-isnt-enough-the-difference-between-wanting-love-and-being-ready-for-it

There’s a quiet truth about relationships that many people don’t talk about: desire and readiness are not the same thing. Someone can genuinely want a partner — deeply and sincerely — yet still lack the internal structure required to sustain that relationship. Attraction can happen instantly...

02/25/2026

Nashville, Tennessee, 1930.
Vivien Thomas was born into the Jim Crow South. He was Black in a world that told him what he could and could not become.

He wanted to be a doctor.

He worked as a carpenter and saved every dollar to attend the Tennessee Agricultural and Industrial College. He planned to go to medical school.

Then the Great Depression hit.

The bank where he kept his savings collapsed. His money was gone. So were his plans.

At 19, Vivien took a job at Vanderbilt University Hospital. He earned 12 dollars a week as a laboratory assistant. He worked in the lab of Dr. Alfred Blalock.

He was expected to clean, care for animals, and stay quiet.

Instead, he watched.
He listened.
He asked smart questions.
He understood what the experiments were trying to do.

Dr. Blalock noticed. He began teaching Vivien surgical skills.

Vivien had never been to medical school. He had no degree. But he had sharp eyes, a strong memory, and steady hands. Soon, he was performing complex surgeries on lab animals. His stitching was careful and exact. His knowledge of anatomy was deep.

By 1933, he was no longer just an assistant in practice. He was Blalock’s research partner. But officially, he was still paid and treated far below his real role.

In 1941, Dr. Blalock moved to Johns Hopkins Hospital to become Chief of Surgery. He agreed to go only if Vivien came with him. The hospital allowed it. But they gave Vivien a lower-status technical title.

Then came their biggest challenge.

Babies were dying from a heart defect called ‘tetralogy of Fallot’. People called it ‘Blue Baby Syndrome’. The babies’ skin turned blue because their bodies were not getting enough oxygen. Most did not live long.

Dr. Helen Taussig asked if a surgery could increase blood flow to the lungs.

Blalock turned to Vivien.
“Can you figure this out?”

Vivien went to work.
For months, he practiced on dogs. He tried again and again. He had to create new methods. He had to design tools. No one had ever done this before.

Finally, he developed a way to connect the subclavian artery to the pulmonary artery. The new path lets more blood reach the lungs.

It was bold.
It was risky.
It had never been tried on a human.

On November 29, 1944, they operated on a baby girl named Eileen Saxon. She was 15 months old and weighed only nine pounds. She was dying.

Dr. Blalock performed the surgery. Vivien stood behind him on a step stool. He quietly guided every move.

“Deeper.”
“A little to the left.”
“Use smaller sutures there.”

Blalock held the tools. Vivien directed the operation.

After four and a half hours, it was over. Eileen’s blue lips turned pink. Her fingers turned pink. Oxygen was finally reaching her body.

The surgery worked.

The procedure became known as the Blalock-Taussig Shunt. It changed medicine. It saved thousands of children. It helped create the field of pediatric heart surgery.

Dr. Blalock became famous.
Vivien did not.

For 22 years, Vivien trained surgical residents at Johns Hopkins. Many of them became leaders in heart surgery. They learned their skills from him.

But he was not called Doctor. He was not listed as faculty. He ate with the maintenance staff.
His name appeared on no papers.

In 1971, after four decades of work, Johns Hopkins promoted him to Instructor of Surgery. Not Professor. Instructor.
By then, the surgeons he had trained knew the truth.

In 1976, the hospital honored him with a portrait. It was placed beside Blalock’s. At the ceremony, former students stood and applauded. Some cried.

They knew who had taught them. They knew who had built the foundation.

That same year, Johns Hopkins awarded him an honorary doctorate. At last, he was officially Dr. Vivien Thomas.
He was 66 years old.
He had been doing the work of a surgeon for 46 years.

Dr. Vivien Thomas died in 1985 at age 75.
In 2004, HBO released a film about his life called Something the Lord Made.

Today, students study his work. Scholarships carry his name. The surgery he created is still saving lives more than 80 years later.

For most of his career, he was paid and treated far below his true ability.
He stood on a step stool so others could stand in the spotlight.

He kept working.
He kept teaching.
He kept saving lives.

They called him a janitor.
History calls him a hero.

02/25/2026

If you're looking to travel with purpose, here are 5 powerful destinations where Black history comes alive — plus the best months to visit.

Travel isn’t just about escape — sometimes it’s about connection. Visiting places rooted in Black history allows us to walk the paths of our ancestors, honor their stories, and better understand our own journeys. If you're looking to travel with purpose, here are 5 powerful destinations where ...

02/25/2026

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