
06/25/2025
đ§ HUMILITY HEALS. RESPONSIBILITY RESTORES. đ
âI may have caused my pain. But that means I can also cause my healing.â
I had a powerful conversation today about humility â
Not as weakness.
Not as shame.
But as the first real step toward change.
See â I used to feel ashamed when I didnât know something.
I didnât want to ask for help.
I didnât want to admit I was struggling.
Because that felt like failure.
Like weakness.
Like I was less of a man.
But Iâve come to realizeâŚ
đ Humility is not weakness.
đ Itâs self-respect.
đ Itâs strength that knows how to ask for help.
Most of us â especially men â donât know how we got into this pain.
Back pain. Mental fog. Emotional burnout.
It builds slowly, quietly⌠until one day we canât ignore it.
And the truth?
đĽ I caused it.
Not intentionally.
But through my habits, my thinking, my resistance, my pride.
I stopped moving how my body was designed.
I ignored how my thoughts shaped my emotions.
I thought if I just âtoughed it out,â it would fix itself.
It didnât.
But hereâs the shift that changed my life:
If I caused this pain â I can be the one who heals it.
Thatâs not shame.
Thatâs power.
đ It means Iâm not a victim.
đ It means I can take responsibility.
đ It means I can get curious, not defensive.
đ It means I can get humble enough to ask for help.
When I stopped pretending to have it all figured out, I finally started learning.
And learning gave me technique.
And technique gave me results.
And results gave me hope.
Men â your healing begins the moment you say:
âI donât know how I got here. But Iâm ready to learn how to get out.â
Thatâs humility.
Thatâs mental strength.
Thatâs the kind of man Iâm becoming.
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Ready to trade shame for strength?
Comment âHUMBLEâ and Iâll send you 3 practices that helped me shift from pain to power â physically, mentally, emotionally.