03/12/2025
I'm going to do a series of posts about abuse and neurodivergent people.
Know that it's okay to ask for help to get out out of an abusive situation. Since there are many moments that the abusive person is great, it might not feel like abuse. Get familiar with the Wheel of abuse. Learn about love bombing. If you suspect that you are in an abusive relationship, research about it.
In my experience it is difficult to realize that you are a victim of abuse, specially emotional and financial abuse.
Anyone can be a victim of abuse, but research shows that those who are neurodivergent may be at increased risk of violence, bullying, or controlling behavior. In my experience my clients know when they’ve realized it was a toxic relationship or when things did not feel right. However, since Neurodivergency and masking makes you accommodate to other people’s needs and they are so used to doing that, that they continue with a relationship that feels very difficult, and not healthy.
Let's talk more about this and if you need help, you can contact me!