11/24/2025
i’m featured in the latest issue of Essence magazine (Fall/Winter 2025), on stands now or subscribe for only $18 for 2 years (let’s support black owned publications y’all), where i share wellness tips to help your nervous system prepare for your best year yet. 💛
for print publications, interviews are done months in advance, so when this published it caught me at a personal inflection point where i’m trying to decide how to show up for my own best year yet. the irony, eh?
i spent most of this year managing my mental health. visibility as a black woman often means being subject to harm (more on that later). i thought i’d be running around talking about the resources in my book, but i was already tapped out by the beginning of the year 😅.
nonetheless, a few tips to get your nervous system to a place where it feels safe enough to rest (it’s a practice sis!) are in the article. more resources in my book, “black girls breathing: heal from trauma, combat chronic stress, and find your freedom,” available where all books are sold ❤️ thank you to everyone who has shared how the book has supported them this year.
and here’s a peek at how i’m recalibrating and finding deeper rest and stability right now:
-reading to retrain my brain to focus more (just finished “happy land” by and it was so, so good).
- homemaking for myself. cooking, nesting, baking. the things that bring me joy and deep contentment as a single, 35-year-old woman with no kids.
- writing consistently. aside from our bgb newsletter, i’m launching my personal substack to move past the fear of being perceived and go deep…er. first topic on the last slide. is my Substack if you want to follow along!
after so much disappointment, loss and grief in the past 2.5 years, i am daring to believe 2026 can be my best year yet and i hope you’ll join me in that belief ❤️
thank you for adding my pov to this poignant piece.