02/03/2026
Truth.
Most people say they want change, but very few want the cost that comes with it.
Change is not scary by itself. Loss is.
Loss of comfort, loss of identity, loss of familiar habits, even loss of familiar suffering.
We cling to routines that drain us because they are known.
We stay in cycles we complain about because they feel predictable.
We call it patience, timing, or self care, but most of the time it is just comfort wearing a smarter mask.
Real change always takes something away before it gives anything back.