12/11/2021
Verna Grams
September 19, 1929 - December 5, 2021
Verna Dickinson Grams was born to Virgil & Halley Dickinson on September 19, 1929, in Buffalo, Oklahoma. She was the 4th of 5 children and was preceded in death by her parents and all 4 siblings. She died at home in Austin, Texas on December 5, 2021, surrounded by some of those who loved her best in this world, her loving husband and daughter, a son-in-law, two
granddaughters and a great-granddaughter.
She is survived by her husband of 70 years, Mel Grams, her daughter Kay and her husband Ed, grandchildren Erin Ruka, Elise Morales, Christopher Klaus, Jessica Eason, and Nick Klaus and 17 great-grandchildren, Nate, Grace, Ezra, Indie, Alex, Emma, Noelani, Rya, Kaelyn, James, Abby, Xander, Jadzia, Hayley, Harper, Ivy & Dax.
Verna traveled with her parents from Oklahoma to Washington state during the dustbowl and settled in Yelm, Washington where she completed most of her schooling.
In 1948 she began college at Central Bible Institute in Springfield, Missouri where she met the love of her life, Mel Grams, her “babe”. They married in August 1951 in Springfield and settled in Wisconsin to pastor a church. Their first daughter, Carleen Kay was born in Beaver Dam, Wisconsin in 1952.
In 1954 they moved to Liberia to work at a missions station in a remote jungle area with the Jedapo tribe, whom Verna fell in love with and for the rest of her life called “my people”. Although many of her memories faded she never forgot Jedapo and her wonderful friends there.
In 1956 a 2nd little daughter, Karen Joy was born in Fond Du Lac, Wisconsin.
She and Mel served two more terms as missionaries in Liberia, Nigeria and South Africa. Then after their daughters left home, they worked in Belgium, Germany, Switzerland, Hawaii & California. In 1995 they lost their precious daughter Karen to cancer. In 2012 they moved from Kona, Hawaii with their daughter Kay and her Ed, to Austin to join a granddaughter who lived there.
Verna had a feisty sense of humor, was a fabulous cook, loved children, and made up the best stories of mice and squirrels and bunny rabbits. Her chocolate pecan cookies were divine. She adored her husband and was a kind, loving, dedicated mother who created a warm and hospitable home, not only for her family but for the many guests she welcomed. She had many who looked to her as an example of how to live life well. As one friend put it, "Jesus showed all over her” and she loved Him more than anything in life.