12/09/2025
Healing isn’t rushed or performative. It unfolds slowly through emotional safety, curiosity, compassion, and honest community. This past weekend, I attended a workshop where Imago reminded me that our patterns in love aren’t random — they come from early emotional lessons about being seen, protected, comforted, or defended. Most of us learned to relate from survival, not safety.
Soft work is still work: noticing when we protect, withdraw, long, or reach takes clarity, forgiveness, and courage. And before any of this becomes a relationship with another person, it starts as a relationship with self — with our history, emotional needs, patterns, and the parts of us that learned how to stay safe. When we soften with ourselves, connection with others becomes safer and more grounded. 🙏🏽🌱
I’m learning to hold grace for who I’ve been and intention for who I’m becoming. Healing doesn’t demand perfection — it invites presence, tenderness, and patience. 💭💕
Candle Talk is always about that softness: healing through scent, conversation, and emotional grounding. 🕯️🫶🏽