That Girl Eboni

That Girl Eboni ✨ Intuitive Tarot • Healing • Divine Feminine Guidance
I help you connect with your intuition, transform through truth, and realign with your power.

Come as you are… leave aligned. 🐍💫

05/06/2026

Ugh… the internet feels extremely dark today. It’s crazy how the energy online can physically shift the atmosphere around you. Yesterday felt bright, beautiful, full of life… but today? Pure chaos and destruction. Every other post on my timeline is depression, su***de, murder, heartbreak, anger, and senseless violence. The people are hurting BADLY.

And the scariest part is… you can’t always see it on the outside. A person can look perfectly fine, smile in your face, post pretty pictures, crack jokes all day long and still be silently battling within themselves. That’s why I keep saying the HEART is everything. What lives inside of you eventually manifests into your reality.

Unhealed pain, bitterness, anger, jealousy, resentment, despair… those are weeds. And a garden left unattended will eventually turn into a whole forest.

Healing isn’t a one-time thing. It’s maintenance. Just like keeping up a yard, you have to continuously pull weeds, trim dead branches, and remove what no longer belongs there. Some of y’all are trying to grow in poisoned soil while refusing to let go of the very things killing you internally.

At some point, we have to stop romanticizing our suffering and start doing the work. Nobody can heal for you. Nobody can save you from yourself. Accountability, self-awareness, discipline, prayer, rest, therapy, isolation when needed, changing environments, changing habits… ALL of it matters.

Time out for feeling sorry for ourselves. It’s time to be proactive versus reactive. The world is already heavy enough as is. Heal so you don’t keep bleeding on people who never cut you.

Protect your heart. Water your spirit. Tend to your garden. 🌱

✨ Guided by Eboni ✨

04/29/2026

Self-criticism is a different kind of beast.

It doesn’t even start with you…
It starts with something somebody said about you—
once… twice… maybe a few too many times.

And before you know it, you’re sitting there
questioning parts of yourself that were never flaws to begin with…
just misunderstood pieces of who you are.

I caught myself doing that recently.

Silently correcting how I speak…
how I respond…
just to make other people more comfortable.

And for a moment, it felt right…
like, “okay, this is growth.”

But the more I sat with it,
the more it felt like I was becoming… edited.

And I don’t do fake.

See, being me means I’m going to say things
others might think twice about.
Not out of harm—
but from a place of truth.

And the Word says… the truth shall set you free.
Not comfortable… not convenient… free.

So I had to check myself—
am I growing… or am I shrinking to be accepted?

Because those are two very different things.

I’m not here to water myself down
just so I can be easier to digest.

If my message doesn’t resonate with someone,
that’s okay.

Everything ain’t for everybody.

But one thing about it—
I’m going to stand in what’s real for me.

Never dim your light trying to make someone else feel brighter.

The people meant for you?
They won’t need you to.

✨ Come as you are… leave aligned. ✨

04/02/2026

Can we be real for a second…

Everybody be waiting on January 1st to change their life…
Meanwhile, the REAL New Year is happening right now.

This is the season where everything starts over.

Trees growing new leaves.
Flowers blooming.
People making big moves—homes, marriages, new opportunities.

Life is literally showing you… it’s time.

And it’s crazy because it reminds me of cycles.
(And y’all know I’m in the medical field so stay with me real quick 😅)

Just like a revenue cycle… or even trading—
Everything has phases.

You start fresh.
You get comfortable.
You manage what you built…

And then outta nowhere—something hits.

Something shifts.
Something feels off.
Something forces you to pause.

And most people call that “things going wrong”…

But what if that’s actually God stepping in?

Reshaping you.
Refining you.
Removing what’s not aligned anymore.

Because let’s be honest…
Some of us don’t change until we’re uncomfortable.

👀

This cycle happens EVERY year.

The difference is…
Some people evolve with it—and some people stay stuck in the same patterns, just in a different year.

So I gotta ask you…

When you look back 3–5 years from now, what will you see?

Growth?
Or the same cycles, just dressed up differently?

Growth is a choice.
Elevation is a decision.

Don’t miss your season trying to stay comfortable.

— Guided by Eboni ✨

03/20/2026

It’s something real soothing about being a mother… like in a self-nurturing type of way.

Me in the kitchen cooking, while my kids and my fur babies all up under me, just waiting on the next meal like I’m the main event 😂. Or when my girls want me to do their hair and they keep sneaking looks in their phones, smiling before I’m even done… yeah, them moments hit different.

Nowadays everybody say “Big Mama” like it’s just a title or a look. But a REAL one? Nah… it’s deeper than that. It’s an energy. An empress type of energy.

Nurturing. Creating. Providing. Loving. Just naturally… no applause needed.

That soft, quiet power? Yeah… that’s the part I love.

02/19/2026

Are We Really Living in a Matrix?

I used to hear people talk about “the matrix” and honestly… it went over my head. I didn’t fully get it. I thought it was just one of those deep internet phrases people threw around to sound enlightened.

But now?

I see it.
I see exactly what they mean.

Think about it.

The average person thinks about 80% of the same thoughts every single day. Same worries. Same routines. Same responsibilities. Same mental loops. And it made me pause and ask myself — where are these thoughts even coming from?

Most of them aren’t original.

They’re shaped by what’s constantly in front of us. The environments we sit in. The people we engage with. The expectations placed on us. The bills. The deadlines. The trauma. The accomplishments. The joys. The disappointments.

The Bible would call it “worldly.”
I’m starting to see it as programmed.

Our daily experiences build a system inside our subconscious. A structure. A pattern. A rhythm. And once that rhythm is set, it quietly controls how we perceive, react, prioritize, and move.

That’s the matrix.

And here’s what made it click for me.

A friend recently asked why I’ve been distant. I couldn’t find some deep, dramatic explanation. The only words that came out were, “life be lifeing.”

And that was the truth.

My health.
Maintaining a structured, peaceful home.
Raising happy, healthy kids.
Showing up productive at work.

That alone has consumed every mental ounce I’ve had lately.

So when someone says, “You’ve been distant,” it’s not personal. It’s capacity.

My matrix has been full.

And when your internal system is overloaded, something gets pushed to the back burner. Not because it’s unimportant. Not because you don’t care. But because your subconscious is prioritizing survival, stability, responsibility.

That realization softened me.

Because now I see — everyone is operating inside their own matrix. Their own mental grid of responsibilities, stressors, healing, dreams, and obligations.

So yes, check on your friends.

But check on them with grace.

Take yourself out of their equation for a second. Their distance may not be about you. Their silence may not be rejection. Their delay may not be disregard.

We all have our own systems we’re trying to maintain. Our own problems to solve. Our own mental tabs open.

Grace costs nothing.
But it can save relationships.

And maybe the real way to “escape the matrix” isn’t disappearing from society — maybe it’s becoming conscious of it.

Becoming aware of what’s consuming you.

And choosing compassion anyway.

— Guided by Eboni ✨

02/19/2026

Growth will change your standards before it changes your surroundings.

You stop explaining.
You stop forcing.
You stop entertaining things that feel heavy.

Not because you’re cold.
Because you finally understand your peace has a price.

And anything that doesn’t evolve you…
doesn’t deserve access to you.

— Woman Know Thyself

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02/19/2026

As we step into the spring equinox, I can’t help but reflect on how nature shows us the beauty of renewal. Just like the old leaves fall away to make room for fresh blooms, we have to let go of what no longer serves us to welcome the new. The equinox marks a fresh start, a true new year vibe, and I’ve been thinking about all the relationships and situations I’ve released.

Letting go of what didn’t uplift me has opened the door to new opportunities and a life that’s more aligned with who I’m becoming. This process of shedding the old is what’s allowing me to step fully into my next chapter. Embracing the new means having the courage to let the old fade away, so we can flourish in all the ways we’re meant to.

02/18/2026

Fear Only Wins If You Stay Silent

I’m realizing something powerful…

I actually have more control over the outcomes in my life than I sometimes allow myself to believe.

But it only works if I have the courage to speak up.
To ask.
To move.
To act.
To choose.

Fear is such a strange thing. It looks small. It whispers. It hides in “what ifs.” But in reality, it can feel massive. Paralyzing. Crippling. It keeps you quiet when you should speak. It keeps you still when you should move. It keeps you settling when you know you want more.

And the scariest part?
Fear doesn’t have to lock you in a cage — it just convinces you to build one yourself.

This applies everywhere:
• Relationships where you want deeper intimacy but won’t ask for it.
• Career goals you desire but won’t apply for.
• Weight or health goals you want but won’t commit to.
• Dreams that sit in your notes app because you’re scared of failing.

The moment you release fear — even a little — everything shifts.

The thing you wanted so badly?
It was never unreachable.
It was just waiting on your courage.

You don’t control everything.
But you do control your voice.
You do control your effort.
You do control whether you try.

And sometimes that’s enough to change your entire life.

✨I release fear. I choose courage. I speak, I act, and I create the outcomes I desire.

02/15/2026

Have you ever just sat and thought about the journey of the chosen?

Like… really thought about it?

Because sometimes it feels like certain people come here with a light so strong, so undeniable, that the world can literally feel it when they show up.

And sometimes… that kind of light isn’t here for a long time.
Not because it wasn’t enough.
Not because it didn’t matter.
But because it was that powerful.

Think about Tupac.
Biggie.
Aaliyah.
Nipsey Hussle.

Different gifts.
Different stories.
But all left something behind that still moves people today.

It’s like they carried something bigger than just talent.
Something that made people feel seen.
Feel powerful.
Feel like they could be more.

And maybe being “chosen” isn’t about being here forever.
Maybe it’s about how deeply you touch people while you are here.

Some people change trends.
Some people change culture.
But some people change how we see ourselves.

And when they leave… their impact doesn’t.
It spreads.
It grows.
It lives in the people they inspired.

That’s real legacy.

Not just being remembered.
But living on through the confidence, courage, and purpose you woke up in other people.

Maybe this was never just about losing them.
Maybe it was about what they activated in us.

Because real impact doesn’t die.
It transfers.
It evolves.
It keeps going through us.

So maybe the real question isn’t
Why were they taken so soon?

Maybe it’s
What did they wake up inside of us that we’re now responsible for carrying forward?

And maybe the fact that we’re still here…
Still growing…
Still becoming…

Means there’s purpose in that too.

02/05/2026

The Moment I Realized I Abandoned My Softness — And How Gratitude Brought Me Back

Yesterday, while getting ready for the day, I found myself reminiscing about riding around with my boo — windows down, singing R&B at the top of our lungs. In that moment, I felt an overwhelming sense of gratitude wash over me.

And then it hit me…
It wasn’t always like this.

Not too long ago, I was in a relationship where my partner scolded me for listening to R&B. He made me feel like I was being “too sappy” — or whatever word he used. And while I brushed it off at the time, that moment did something to me. I’m just now realizing, years later, how deeply it affected me.

That was the moment I started changing.

I switched my music choices to match his preferences. I told myself it was small. Harmless. But in reality, it was the first time I denied something that made me feel safe… connected… soft.

And looking back now, I see how that one small shift slowly hardened parts of me. I started moving more from survival energy. More guarded. More in what many would call my “masculine energy.”

All because I felt like I had to shrink parts of myself to make someone else comfortable.

Which brings me back to that feeling of gratitude I had yesterday.

Because now, I understand what women mean when we say:
A real man naturally creates space for you to be soft.
Not forced.
Not negotiated.
Not earned.
Just… safe enough to exist as you are.

And maybe that’s what healing really looks like.

Healing is constant.
Healing is random.
Healing is necessary.

Sometimes it’s loud and life-changing.
Sometimes it’s subtle — like realizing you’re singing R&B again without fear.

Today, I encourage you to be still.
Be honest with yourself.
Listen to where your soul is trying to lead you.

With peace, love, and tranquility,
— Guided By Eboni ✨

01/02/2026

✨ Guided by Eboni — Collective Energy Pull ✨

Today’s collective energy is about release with intention.

We’re being guided to walk away from anything that keeps us bound or mentally imprisoned.
Not out of anger… but out of self-respect.

This includes:
✨ fear that keeps us playing small
✨ burdens we’ve normalized carrying
✨ habits that no longer align
✨ connections that drain instead of pour back

This energy reminds us that power is reclaimed the moment we choose ourselves.

Walking away doesn’t mean failure.
It means growth.
It means clarity.
It means trusting that what’s ahead requires a lighter, freer version of you.

As we move forward, we’re shedding what no longer serves so we can fully step into our purpose — intentionally preparing for everything we’re meant to manifest in 2026 and beyond.

Release with love.
Stand in your truth.
You are guided. ✨

— Guided by Eboni 🌙

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