06/05/2025
Who would have thought that a trip down memory lane could be harmful? Sure, we all have painful parts to our pasts. But, when it comes to nostalgia, most would categorize it as a positive experience, with the painful parts being just a fleeting ache for yesteryear. But, what happens when that pain doesn't go away? What does it mean if it doesn't? Over the past two years I have been recovering from recent trauma as a result of a very dangerous relationship dynamic. And, it came compounding on top of all of the decades of varying degrees of painful experiences. This one by far took the cake. I lost everything. As a woman in my late 40's, I found myself starting from scratch. I was devastated, but not destroyed. On my healing and personal growth journey, I noticed that I became more emotionally drawn to happier moments from my past. I would cry, or play music from back in the day to keep my mental photo and home movie projector going. In doing so, I lost hope for the future. If Doc and the Delorean showed up, I would have been riding shotgun! Mindfulness and gratitude for the present were reduced to if or when an outside experience made me happy in that moment. You see, the human brain is very complex and protective of itself, and of the soul that houses its avatar. It is wired to seek all things that feel good, and guard against all things that are perceived as harmful, physically, mentally, and emotionally. When my bleak and painful reality was front and center, my mind fled the scene. The irony with this is that my brain also knew that being trapped in the good ole days was harmful as well. That's what prompted me to look into nostalgia as it relates to depression. I discovered that while nostalgic depression isn't in the psych books as an official subcategory of depression, mental health professionals do recognize its distinction.
On this page, we will learn about nostalgic depression, talk about the triggers, share management techniques, and create a safe space where we can help each other heal and embrace the endless possibilities of happiness and pure joy for the future. Welcome to The Sora Chronicles, Sorayans!