12/07/2025
Are You STILL Confused???????
If so, we had our final full moon of 2025 to help clear that up…
I wish I could’ve recorded SOMETHING for you, but I'm glad not, because you’re here now! There were two themes that manifested at the Ta**us Full Moon passing through December 3rd & 4th :
1. Celebrating Breaking the Mold
2. Clearly Seeing Manipulation Tactics & People/ Who ONLY Want to Use You (to THEIR benefit)
Which topic will you dive into first?
🍾🎁🥂Celebration . . .
Ok, for those of us who are celebrating and looking for a reason “why” the feeling of achievement has surrounded you starting off December—it's because you’ve grown! But in a different way—- this type of growth is about non-conformance! BIG WORD, KEY WORD!
You didn't do what was "expected" of you, you didn't break because people misunderstood you, projected their fears and wounds onto you, you didn't fumble when people didn't see your vision. You just adjusted the sails on your ship and kept sailing! You're learning not to play or be victim to schemes, plots and circumstances set up to bring you down. YOU are RISING! And that's why you should take a moment to RELAX & REFLECT! You've earned it! It's so easy to always push for more, for perfection, but ending 2025--for those of us who are in alignment-- is a time to see the difference between God's plan and everyone else's plan for us. God wants to USE your talents and uniqueness, other's want to hide & sabotage them. God wants to bless you with more, other's wish to see you beg for the bare minimum! If you invested in yourself, your journey, your growth this year and became BETTER because you chose YOURSELF at any moment in 2025--even if that moment is inspired action after reading this article--- that is worth celebrating every time! Choosing the unpopular opinion, the road less traveled means preparing for war, more is at stake, but more will be gained too! Because you are following your heart now--something I've spoken about all Fall 2025 in my longford videos on YouTube & Facebook! Check them out! Know that your rebellion to societal norms, family structures and roles that are projected onto you in other relationships or communities is valid if you are moving heart centered--with love, not just for others but for yourself too!Don't let anyone take that freedom from you, don't let anyone deter your path, but it's not man-made. Congratulations, you're on your way...
😔👎🏼🙅🏻♀️Manipulation . . .
There are some people who are only concerned about what you can do for them! They will breadcrumb you to oblivion--until you forget what a full loaf of bread even looks like!--or they will love bomb you, bait & switch. Unfamiliar with these terms? Let's review...
Breadcrumb : giving you a little bit of what you need at intervals to keep you tagging along & hoping that someway/somehow you will eventually get "more". . . but it probably will never happen because they actually aren't "leading" you to anything. They just don't have much to offer in the first place.
Love Bombing : showering you with an abundance of affection, attention, affirmation, time, gifts and acts of service quickly and shortly to manipulate you into a fairytale mindset. As soon as you're in the "fairytale" the abundance of those things become a luxury, they run dry... leaving you high strung, confused & willing to do anything for "more".
Bait & Switch : this is one of my favorite manipulation tactics to identify because it's the slickest. In a way it intertwines the first two. Said party does something that's actually helpful, beneficial or inspiring to you laying down the bait and then out of no where they switch into the complete opposite! Suddenly they're no longer helpful, kind, caring, they may become your biggest hater, critic and source of negativity. They talk to or about you like a dog. They may even outright ghost you. The point is they did a complete 180 switch up on you. This is a set up for a toxic cycle that tricks one to believing there's "a good person" deep down, but really the only good person is you. They need someone to take out their self hate, abandonment issues and be an emotional punching bag. So they will do some "good things"--just enough to keep you hopeful---so they can actually be their true horrible, manipulative, abusive, unhealed, traumatic selves 80% of the time...
✨🔮There's a key word here : MORE
MORE is the trap! You need to look for ENOUGH, not MORE. Something/Someone who keeps you wanting or looking for MORE is not equipped for you. At least start with ENOUGH and potentially that could grow into MORE than ENOUGH : Abundance. But we have to stop accepting less (while simultaneously hoping for more) at the threshold ! Before the breadcrumbs even fall too many times, right when the love bomb ends--because in my unpopular opinion : the love bomb is not the issue, its the fact that it cannot be maintained [LOL 😝], everyone wants to be showered and anyone who doesn't is lying---and right before the bait & switch cycle begins, it must addressed!
If you feel like you are a victim of manipulation here's my journal prompt for you, inspired by this full moon :
1. Make a list of all areas, environments and people in your life that make you feel like you desire or need MORE!
2. Make another list of all these components that make you feel like you have ENOUGH.
3. Every aspect of the list that contains people, environments & situations that make you desire MORE needs to be changed ASAP--like beginning 2026 type s**t!
4. The contents of the second list : The Enough List, should be centered, focused and poured into more moving forward into the New Year. These are areas that, yes, may require a little work and maintenance--but it's WORTH it!!!!
ENOUGH MONEY, ENOUGH LOVE, ENOUGH SUPPORT, ENOUGH SPACE, ENOUGH VALIDATION, ENOUGH COMMUNICATION, ENOUGH TIME, ENOUGH CARE...... ENOUGH for the present moment that you are living in!
✨💖Understand : things that are meant for you will naturally progress, improve and grow into something better while sustaining you! Progressively better, not progressively worse! Even if something isn't "the best" or perfect, it's not always because it's "not enough". It may be because there's something you need to do to improve it...
Stop demonizing "enough". Enough can save you from the trap of more every time, but you have to learn what enough feels like and looks like. You have to experience enough in some aspect of your life so you can stop chasing things that are out of alignment with your worth. Enough will not leave you debilitated, drained or "thirsty" for more. Enough won't overfill or bloat you either. It will sustain , replenish where needed, and inspire you to keep going forward. Enough will not constantly switch up. Enough will always do its best in each moment to give you the best it can. Enough flows with you, not against you. Acknowledging what's enough doesn't mean there isn't room for growth, but it is a practice of gratitude that ruthlessly demolishes greed and all of its constituents.
I need you to remember : There's some area, some timeline of your life where you have experienced "enough" and this should be your guiding light, your standard to judge what's aligned with you from all aspects : career, love, family, friendship, creativity, pleasure, finance and more! You will only "attract" and magnetize as quickly as you can repel, but equally as quickly as you recognize and express thanks for the things that are enough.
Some of you may be reading this and thinking : "well, what if I'm celebrating and facing manipulation at the same time??"
Yes, both can exist simultaneously, Love. The key here is heart centering. You will not be able to access an open road with a blocked heart or a heart that you keep giving things it does not want to accept. It's like having a bad transfusion. If you have manipulative people showing up in your life, while you're also celebrating growth and alignment, that should make it even easier to identify and remove. Stop overcomplicating your journey to be more confusing than it is. Stop oversimplifying it too! The signs that you know are signs, ARE SIGNS! You can trust yourself to know the difference; When in doubt, you have resources like this (me) to help you as well as your own spiritual court waiting to assist! For those who are completely out of alignment, not feeling celebratory or feel like they're "losing" --- you are going through a necessary purge before 2026. For manipulators, you are safe and don't have to play silly games to be loved, accepted or avoid pain anymore. You can be yourself AND get your needs met. It's time to examine why you need "games" to get ahead in different aspects of life . . .
🪞✨Does this resonate with you? Get More in a personal 1-1 session with me ending 2025/ beginning 2026 here : https://themagikmirror.as.me/schedule/8292c912
