05/23/2026
Real talk?
I think one of the weirdest parts about legacy is realizing someone can still influence the atmosphere of your life long after they’re gone.
This weekend we’re in Upstate NY at Aunt Mona’s — one of Joshua’s absolute favorite places.
And honestly?
Memories linger here.
In the quiet.
In the laughter.
In the routines.
In all the little things that still feel like him.
There are still moments where I catch myself thinking:
“Joshua would LOVE this.”
or
“He would’ve made this so much more fun.”
or honestly…
“He would’ve been the loudest person in this room right now” 😂
And somehow those thoughts don’t always feel sad anymore.
Sometimes they just feel like proof that love doesn’t disappear.
I think legacy is less about someone being remembered perfectly…
and more about the way they continue changing the people who loved them.