Lori Abosch, Child Behavior Specialist

01/23/2025

I’m deeply disappointed to see that my wife’s heartfelt and compassionate Instagram post was rejected by Meta for being “political” when she tried to boost it. For context, my wife, Mary Ann, is a licensed therapist with specialized training to support the LGBTQIA+ community. Her posts are always rooted in love, kindness, and connection, especially for those in marginalized communities who often feel unseen and unheard.

This particular post, which Meta flagged, simply offers a message of hope and affirmation: “You are seen and loved.” It includes no mention of legislation, political parties, or specific policies—there is absolutely nothing political about it. It’s a message that should resonate with all of us, regardless of our backgrounds, beliefs, or affiliations.

Mary Ann’s goal with her weekly boosted posts is to reach more people who might need encouragement, especially those who are struggling. To call this kind of outreach “political” is not only misguided but also a troubling commentary on the state of freedom of speech and expression. When compassion and support for marginalized individuals are categorized as political, it’s a sign we need to do better as a society.

I stand with my wife and her commitment to creating a world where everyone feels valued and supported. Her work is not about politics; it’s about humanity. And I’ll continue to share her message far and wide, because everyone deserves to hear that they are seen, they are loved, and they matter.

12/31/2024

🎉🚽 Potty Training Help is Coming Your Way!
I’m so excited to announce my upcoming 4-part podcast series designed to make potty training easier and more effective for parents and kids alike.

✨ Here’s what we’ll cover:
👶 Setting up routines and encouraging independence (with less resistance!)
👕 Transitioning from diapers to underwear with confidence
💪 Tackling common behavioral challenges
🌙 Conquering nighttime potty training

Let’s take the stress out of this milestone and help your child succeed. Stay tuned for release dates—this is one series you won’t want to miss!

12/27/2024

12/04/2024

https://open.spotify.com/episode/3TtuHQwLaTunbp3XSODxWz?si=xH7XhbdPS1mmWt5bzgsBwA&t=2

11/26/2024

11/21/2024

📢 NEW Episode Alert: Are Big Emotions Really a Thing?

As a society, we’ve grown used to labeling some children as having “big emotions”—characterizing them as deeply sensitive and reactive. But what if this term is actually masking an essential developmental challenge?

In Episode 4 of Parenting Unplugged, I’m taking a closer look at how the concept of “big emotions” may sometimes justify a child’s underdeveloped skills such as in problem-solving and self-regulation. Many kids today are struggling to handle everyday situations without intense reactions. While empathy and comfort are essential, these behaviors often signal a need for guidance—not for letting things slide.

🔍 Could our well-intentioned support be unintentionally holding back our children’s growth?

Tune in to learn:
* Why some children may struggle with problem-solving and self-regulation.
* How we can set boundaries that foster emotional resilience.
* When to step in with comfort—and when to let them grow through their own challenges.
* Emotional growth, like physical development, takes time and patience. It’s not about preventing every meltdown but about equipping our kids to handle life’s ups and downs independently. 🌱

🎙️ Listen to Episode 4 of Parenting Unplugged for insights on building real resilience in our children.














https://open.spotify.com/episode/6neckvaTRuGeufe1tJjdpd?si=7YfobyVoS52JLshFHrN5uw

11/20/2024

💡 💡 There was an error with last week’s Zoom Link that I just caught, but for those interested parents, I have secured next Wednesday, November 27th @10 AM...See you there 💡 💡

🚀 Complimentary Parenting Seminar Alert for Busy, Working Parents! 🚀

Are persistent behavior challenges testing your patience? Do you wonder why certain approaches seem ineffective? Join me, a seasoned child behavior specialist and parent coach, for a live, free seminar Wednesday November 27th at 10 AM PST! This is a must-attend if you’re ready to dive into the why behind common behavior issues—and discover proven, actionable solutions to make your parenting journey smoother.

🎙In this seminar, I’ll cover:

* Understanding Persistent Behavior Problems: Why they happen and how to address them effectively.
* Parenting Styles and Their Impact: Learn how different approaches affect your child’s behavior and development.
* Real Solutions for Common Challenges:
* Strategies for kids who don’t listen
* Handling meltdowns when children don’t get their way
* Managing disrespectful behavior toward family and peers

This is your chance to gain practical tools you can use right away. If you or someone you know could benefit, don’t wait—register now!👇
https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZwrcOCgqjMtGdAbX8nCb0KidBuQsEw-EOUM

11/15/2024

🚀 FREE Parenting Seminar Alert for Busy, Parents! 🚀

Are persistent behavior challenges testing your patience? Do you wonder why certain approaches seem ineffective? Join me, a seasoned child behavior specialist and parent coach, for a live, free seminar Wednesday November 20th at 10 AM PST! This is a must-attend if you’re ready to dive into the why behind common behavior issues—and discover proven, actionable solutions to make your parenting journey smoother.

🎙In this seminar, I’ll cover:

* Understanding Persistent Behavior Problems: Why they happen and how to address them effectively.
* Parenting Styles and Their Impact: Learn how different approaches affect your child’s behavior and development.
* Real Solutions for Common Challenges:
* Strategies for kids who don’t listen
* Handling meltdowns when children don’t get their way
* Managing disrespectful behavior toward family and peers

This is your chance to gain practical tools you can use right away. If you or someone you know could benefit, don’t wait—register now!👇

https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZYqd—rqz0rHN0f5Fz5UjcGMmPaduCMUoU8

Hope to see you there and help you take the next steps in fostering a happier, more cooperative family

10/30/2024

✨ Are “Big Emotions” Really a Thing? ✨

Today’s parenting culture often encourages us to validate and cushion “big emotions” in children. But are we holding them back? When kids face challenges like losing a game or dealing with disappointment, intense reactions may signal a need for skill-building, not just comfort.

By balancing empathy with structure, we can teach kids essential skills like self-regulation and problem-solving. Setting limits isn’t neglect—it’s empowerment. Guiding emotional growth means teaching resilience, not sheltering from every discomfort. Let’s help our children build confidence to face life’s inevitable obstacles!

10/08/2024

10/04/2024

IndependentPlay

10/02/2024

Merriam-Webster defines "shaming" as the act of subjecting someone to shame, disgrace, or humiliation, often through public exposure or criticism. As parents, if we’re actively trying to humiliate or disgrace our children, we should stop. That’s not discipline—it’s harmful.

But here's where things get complicated: When a child has a strong emotional reaction to being corrected after mistreating another child at the park or becomes upset after being told they can’t enter their sibling’s room without permission, people often label these necessary boundaries as "shaming." This misuse of the term is causing confusion for many parents.

Consistent, intentional shaming is indeed harmful and abusive. But guiding a child to understand how their words hurt someone else's feelings, or setting household boundaries, is not only appropriate—it’s essential. These moments teach kids empathy, respect, and personal responsibility.

The word “shame” has been misused to discourage proper discipline, leaving many parents feeling paralyzed and unsure of their approach. Let’s remember that most moms and dads are coming from a place of love, striving to teach their children critical life lessons like respecting others and their belongings.

Let’s support one another in this journey of parenting, focusing on building healthy relationships and fostering respect, rather than tearing down efforts to guide our children.