04/30/2026
Strong-willed kids aren’t the problem.
As a family therapist of 20+ years, I can tell you—these kids are often the most emotionally aware… but also the most overwhelmed.
What looks like:
• Defiance
• Disrespect
• Pushing back
Is usually a child who is flooded and doesn’t know what to do with it.
And this is where most parenting approaches fall short. Because these kids don’t respond well to control. They respond to connection and regulation.
You’ll see:
• Less resistance
• Fewer meltdowns
• More cooperation
Not because you forced it— but because they feel safe enough to follow your lead.
If this sounds like your child, comment ME 🤍
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