11/14/2025
Update on our babes š
Trace is home and resting. Iām not ready to talk about his results yet because, to be honest, the answers we did get only led to more questions. Oncology was very puzzled, and until they finish digging deeper and we have the full picture, Iām not ready to speak on it publicly.
For now, the plan stays the same: daily chemo as always, back mid-December for chemotherapy, an oncology appointment, and monthly IVIG treatments. One bright spot, he is so happy to have his pup back home with him! Thank you to everyone for your help!
Today was a long, emotional day for Jordan, but we finally got some answers and a clearer plan for how to help her moving forward.
For the last couple of months, Jordan has had pain in her neck, back, and knees, along with joint swelling from her arthritis. After imaging and evaluations, she was diagnosed with mild scoliosis, with a sideways curve beginning in her thoracic spine. She also has lumbar lordosis, which is an exaggerated inward curve in her lower back that puts pressure on her hips, stomach, and pelvis explaining a lot of her daily back, hip, and knee pain. On top of that, she has sway-back posture, which makes the lordosis even more pronounced.
The good news: with physical therapy twice a month at Childrenās, we can avoid surgery and bracing for now. Weāll reassess everything in six months. Because of her arthritis, avoiding surgery is always the goal unless absolutely necessary and her PT was incredibly hopeful.
I do want to be honest and say that our experience with the surgeon after her PT session was not a positive one. His bedside manner was nonexistent, and he ended up putting Jordan in tears. We will not be returning, and her rheumatologist will absolutely be hearing from us tomorrow. Our kids deserve compassion, especially when theyāve already been through more than most adults ever will.
Jordanās PT told her she is one of the strongest 11-year-olds sheās seen in years. She even handed Jordan the tightest leg band their office had, which says a lot about her strength. Then we went to the surgeon, and he told her she needed to āget in shape,ā get off screens, and āget on a team,ā because dance and gymnastics (which she doesnāt even do gymnastics) āarenāt real sportsā for spine strength. Then he followed it with, āBut youāre cute though,ā like she was five. She told him sheās been in pain her whole life, so she doesnāt even know how to describe it anymore and this new diagnosis is just āone more thingā sheāll get through.
Needless to say⦠we wonāt be going back.
And in true Jordan fashion, she looked at me as soon as the car doors locked us back inside and said, āhe was two seconds away from a throat punch, just to show him what I thought about his little āteamā comment.ā š That girlās fire keeps me alive.
Both of our kids amaze us every single day. Thank you for the calls, texts, and prayers over this last week. Our family feels every bit of the love, and we are so grateful. š
š©·Rachael
Tomorrow morning, Trace and his dad will head to Atlanta for Traceās oncology appointment and chemotherapy. We already received some bloodwork results that have us feeling nervous and anxious to hear more about. Then on Thursday, Jordan and I will head down for two appointments weāve been waiting on for over a month.
To be honest, the anxiety has been heavy lately. It has driven Dave and me crazy just thinking about whatās ahead for both of our kids this week. Weāre praying for good news and for calm hearts. š
Please keep Trace and Jordan in your thoughts and prayers these next few days. Our family truly appreciates every bit of love and support.
š©·Rachael