Liliana Coventina

Liliana Coventina This is your Primal Genius speaking. I’m ready to awaken. Are you ready to unleash me?

I'm gonna tell you a secret. Are you ready? A Mommy/Daddy k!nk really isn't all that K!nky.It's just Reparenting.When yo...
11/13/2025

I'm gonna tell you a secret. Are you ready? A Mommy/Daddy k!nk really isn't all that K!nky.

It's just Reparenting.

When you're exploring power dynamics with someone you trust, you're not being "k!nky." You're actually just being a very typical human. You're rewiring your nervous system. You're learning what it feels like to be truly seen and held by a leader who won't betray you.

Here's what nobody talks about: it's only considered k!nky because some old white dude started pathologizing the desire to be cared for. The desire to be nurtured, to feel Eros in connection with worthy leadership and genuine care? That's one of the most normal things that can exist. It's actually fairly vanilla.

What's weird is that our culture is so anti-intimacy that this has now been labeled a fet!sh.

So let's define it: a k!nk is a sexual desire or practice regarded as unusual or unconventional.

But here's the real question: what's actually unusual about wanting to be cared for and loved by worthy leadership?

Conscious k!nk is the fastest path to embodied leadership I've ever seen.

Because the people who can surrender safely? They can also command a room.

The people who can dominate with integrity? They know what it means to be vulnerable.

This is what the Darketypes teaches. This is what the Unmask Method™ builds on.

Your sexuality isn't separate from your leadership. It's the same medicine.

Ready to reclaim both?

DM to explore.

your first leaders were your parents.here's the thing nobody tells you: the way your mom or dad showed up (or didn't) is...
11/12/2025

your first leaders were your parents.

here's the thing nobody tells you: the way your mom or dad showed up (or didn't) is still running your relationships. your career. your ability to trust.

it's not their fault. it's not your fault.

it's just the wound.

the rejection. the abandonment. the humiliation. the betrayal. the injustice.

these 5 soul wounds shape how you lead, love, and show up in the world.

the good news? you can unmask them.

the Unmask Method™ walks you through conscious reparenting, somatic healing, and power dynamics work to rewire what your first leaders taught you.

ready to stop making your partners your parents?

DM for details.
next cohort launches Jan 1st.

Here's what they don't tell you about healing.Sometimes the most radical act of healing is revoking your consent.Not to ...
11/07/2025

Here's what they don't tell you about healing.

Sometimes the most radical act of healing is revoking your consent.

Not to the healing process itself. But to being led by someone who isn't worthy of your trust. Not to growth. But to the specific person who's using growth language to keep you small. Not to spirituality. But to the spiritual framework that's been weaponized against you.

Sometimes healing means looking at a leader who's been shaping your reality and saying: I don't consent to this anymore.

I don't consent to your gaslighting disguised as teaching.
I don't consent to your shame disguised as spiritual guidance.
I don't consent to your abandonment disguised as boundaries.
I don't consent to your exploitation disguised as enlightenment.
I don't consent to your privilege disguised as holiness.

I revoke my consent to be led by you.

This is not failure. This is not your ego getting in the way of your evolution. This is not you being too wounded to handle the process. This is not you abandoning your spiritual path.

This is you reclaiming your authority. This is you trusting your nervous system more than their narrative. This is you choosing your own wholeness over their comfort.

This is you saying: I will heal. But I will not heal under your leadership. I will not heal in your framework. I will not heal while you're gaslighting me into believing that my pain is my problem.

Revoking consent is a boundary. And boundaries aren't selfish. They're not ego. They're not fear.

They're clarity. They're the moment you stop participating in someone else's trauma drama and start protecting your own nervous system. They're the moment you recognize that you've been giving your power away and you decide to take it back. They're the moment you realize that the person you've been trusting isn't trustworthy, and you act on that knowing.

This is sacred work. This is the work of reclamation.

You were taught to override your own knowing.Your parents did it. Your religion did it. Your culture did it. Your trauma...
11/06/2025

You were taught to override your own knowing.

Your parents did it. Your religion did it. Your culture did it. Your trauma did it.

They taught you that your perception is wrong. Your needs are selfish. Your boundaries are ego. Your instinct to protect yourself is fear.

They taught you to surrender your authority to someone else. To trust their version of reality more than your own. To believe that your discomfort is a sign that you need to go deeper, not that you need to get out.

Most of all, they taught you that saying no to authority figures was disobedience. That it was disrespect. That it was betrayal.

You learned early that your job was to make other people comfortable. That your role was to absorb their pain, their confusion, their need for control. You learned that your own knowing was suspect. That your instincts were selfish. That your boundaries were just ego trying to protect you from the very growth that would save you.

So by the time you were old enough to meet a spiritual leader who asked you to surrender, you were already primed. You were already practiced at abandoning yourself. You were already skilled at overriding your own knowing in service of someone else's vision.

And they count on that.

They count on the fact that you've spent your whole life learning to distrust yourself. They count on your willingness to believe that your discomfort is a sign you're on the right path. They count on your deep conditioning to obey authority figures, even when your body is screaming no.

They count on the part of you that still, after all these years, believes that your needs are less important than their comfort.

The real question is this: whose authority are you still surrendering to? And more importantly, what would change if you didn't?

Sometimes your healing isn't about surrender.Sometimes it's not about going deeper into the process. Sometimes it's not ...
11/05/2025

Sometimes your healing isn't about surrender.

Sometimes it's not about going deeper into the process. Sometimes it's not about trusting the journey or finding the lesson or integrating the wound.

Sometimes your healing is about saying enough is enough.

We've been sold a story about spiritual healing. The story goes like this: healing requires surrender. Healing requires patience. Healing requires you to stay in the discomfort long enough to transform it. Healing requires you to trust the process, trust your teacher, trust that everything is happening for a reason.

And sometimes that's true.

But sometimes that story is a trap.

Sometimes the "process" you're being asked to surrender to is actually abuse. Sometimes the "discomfort" you're being asked to sit with is actually exploitation. Sometimes the "lesson" you're being asked to learn is actually gaslighting. Sometimes the "teacher" you're being asked to trust is actually a predator.

And your nervous system knows the difference.

Your body keeps score. It knows when you're being challenged and when you're being harmed. It knows when a boundary is healthy and when it's a cage. It knows when a teacher is pushing you toward growth and when they're pushing you toward compliance.

Your nervous system isn't broken. It's not your ego getting in the way. It's not your shadow work.

It's your intelligence. It's the part of you that learned, long ago, to recognize danger. The part that survived by paying attention. The part that knows the difference between a real threat and a remembered one.

And when your nervous system is screaming at you to leave, sometimes the healing isn't about staying.

Sometimes the healing is about listening.

What does your body know that your mind hasn't admitted yet?

The body remembers what the mind tries to forget.Every week I sit with veterans and survivors who thought intimacy was l...
11/04/2025

The body remembers what the mind tries to forget.

Every week I sit with veterans and survivors who thought intimacy was lost to them. Who believed their trauma made them unlovable, untouchable, unreachable. And every week I watch them prove themselves wrong.

One Marine told me, "I didn't know I could feel safe in my own skin again. You didn't fix me. You reminded me I was never broken."

That's the truth they don't tell you about healing. You are not a problem to solve. You are a temple to reclaim.

If you're ready for trauma-informed, veteran-led intimacy work that honors your story and your sovereignty, reach out. Your first session is free if you served.

This is the path. Will you walk it? lilianacoventina.com

☠️ Most male embodiment coaches can’t tell you the truth about embodying the warrior because they’ve never had their emb...
10/29/2025

☠️ Most male embodiment coaches can’t tell you the truth about embodying the warrior because they’ve never had their embodiment tested on the battlefield. But they sure will try.

Honestly, they’re not necessarily trying to lie…they just don’t understand how ignorant they really are.

((And in this, they forget what a blessing that their ancestors DID fight to create a legacy where their sons never had to.))

Honestly, most only know how to pick up their sword to protect their own ego… but when you ask them to pick up their sword and sacrifice their comfort for those with the smallest voices and the least privilege in our culture, they will balk.

Theyll tell you how they ALMOST joined the military but they couldnt do the whatever their excuse is (discipline).
Men loooovvveee to tell me that one 🤮

No, they don’t want to even hear about how men hurt women and children…and theyre definitely not going to talk about it. And if they DO talk about it, it’s always these other men.

Because they’re “Good Men”, not like these “Bad Men” out there. The “Bad Men”, the boogey men, the other men that totally arent them, right? And definitely not any of their friends. No never that.

They speak of divine masculine and embodied power, but they’ve only ever practiced it in workshops, not in the places where hesitation costs lives or silence means surrender.

They make big shows of grunting and growling and flexing their muscles. They think learning how to unlock their voice and Rawr is the lesson.

They’ve read the poetry but never felt the pulse of adrenaline in their throat while deciding whether to fight, flee, or forgive.

They know only trauma response, NEVER how to wield power while in that response.

A true warrior knows rules of engagement.
He knows escalation of force, not as theory but as instinct.

Presence first.
Voice second.
Stance third.
Weapon last.

The warrior knows the true cost of drawing the sword. The cost of a human life. On the world and on the soul.

And here’s the truth no one wants to say out loud.

The most dangerous men are not the ones who’ve gone to war.
Not the ones who know their capacity for violence.
They’re the ones who call in power without the discipline to hold it.

The ones who flirt with rage and dominance without ever meeting the part of themselves capable of real violence.

Because if you don’t know your own capacity for destruction, you can’t be trusted to wield power safely.

You know who usually does know that capacity? Their ex-girlfriends.
You know the ones, the ones they don’t talk about.
The ones who brought up their deepest & darkest. The ones who led them to change.

The ones who held the burden of their lack of integration.

The priestesses who showed up to love them back into their bodies, and instead they blazed her temple to the ground.

But they aren’t going to tell you about that.
In fact, they’ll do everything in their power to silence her. Make her wrong, call HER evil.

Because in these embodiment coaches’ closets are all the skeletons of women who carried their unclaimed rage, their lack of discipline, their unintegrated power while they were trying to figure it out.

How do I know this?
Because those women have found reclamation in sharing their stories with me.
Again and again.

What they don’t understand is that there’s a certain kind of training required to truly know your violence in a safe way.
It’s not done through breathwork and mirrors.

It’s done through meeting other warriors.

Facing someone who has been as well trained as you.
Feeling your body’s instinct to dominate, to destroy, and choosing honor instead.

That’s where the real embodiment happens.

When you’ve been hit, blood in your mouth, vision tunneling, and you can still breathe, still choose your code.

That’s when you earn the right to speak about the warrior.

Until then, it’s just theater.
And I’m not clapping.

So here I am, challenging you.
Prove it on the battlefield, boys.

(Get ya 🍿 for the comment section.)

Hosting the All Access Dungeon at E###otica 🖤What a weekend.From the lights to the laughter to the deep, honest conversa...
10/28/2025

Hosting the All Access Dungeon at E###otica 🖤

What a weekend.
From the lights to the laughter to the deep, honest conversations about pleasure and power — I’m still feeling the pulse of it all.

This year I had the honor of hosting the All Access Dungeon, creating a space where curiosity met consent, where fantasy met safety, and where exploration met education. Watching people drop into their truth, release shame, and witness each other in their erotic authenticity… that’s the magic that keeps me coming back.

To everyone who showed up with open hearts, to the crew that made it all flow seamlessly, and to my team who held the energy with such care — thank you. You are the reason these spaces exist.

And yes…
I’ll be back next year.
Even bigger. Even bolder. Even more devoted to normalizing erotic safety, kink education, and embodied consent.

See you in the Dungeon. 🔥

Ta**ra was never meant to be a tool to uphold the patriarchy. In fact, Ta***ic teachings have historically been deemed e...
10/27/2025

Ta**ra was never meant to be a tool to uphold the patriarchy. In fact, Ta***ic teachings have historically been deemed evil for the fact that they honor the Goddess as equal to God.

Patriarchy, as I am using it, is defined as a social system in which the primary positions of authority are held by men, in the areas of political leadership, moral authority and control of property.

If you open the actual Ta***ic texts or drop into actual embodiment practice, you will never find teachings telling men to “lead” and women to “surrender.”

What you will find is the dance of Śiva and Śakti (consciousness and energy). These are principles that live within every being, not gender roles meant to control relationships.

“Ś𝙞𝙫𝙖 𝙞𝙨 𝙪𝙣𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙧 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 Ś𝙖𝙠𝙩𝙞, 𝙖𝙨 𝙖 𝙘𝙤𝙧𝙥𝙨𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙗𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙝.” (Saundaryalaharī, v.1)

Yet polarity coaches distort this into: “𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴.”

“𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 Ś𝙖𝙠𝙩𝙞, Ś𝙞𝙫𝙖 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙥𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧. 𝙄𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙨, 𝙨𝙪𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙨𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙡𝙙.” (Kularnava Ta**ra, Ch. 2)

Distorted into: “𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.”

“Ś𝙞𝙫𝙖 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙙𝙚, Ś𝙖𝙠𝙩𝙞 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩. 𝙒𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙚𝙧, 𝙝𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙖 𝙘𝙤𝙧𝙥𝙨𝙚 (ś𝙖𝙫𝙖)” (Śiva Saṁhitā, 1.35)

Distorted into: “𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦.”

“𝙄𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙗𝙮 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 Ś𝙞𝙫𝙖 𝙖𝙣𝙙 Ś𝙖𝙠𝙩𝙞 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤𝙡𝙚 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙗𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙨𝙚𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙩 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙨.” (Ta**rasadbhāva, 1.87)

Distorted into: “𝘗𝘰𝘭𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘪𝘯 𝘢𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘦𝘹𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘱 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦.”

“𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙂𝙤𝙙𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤𝙡𝙚 𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙚. 𝙊𝙛 𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢, 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤 𝙚𝙣𝙙.” (Devī Māhātmya, Ch. 1)

Distorted into: “𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦’𝘴 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦.”

“𝙎𝙝𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙧𝙨𝙩 𝙘𝙖𝙪𝙨𝙚, 𝙚𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙣𝙖𝙡, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙢𝙗 𝙤𝙛 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙡𝙙𝙨.” (Tripurārahasya, Ch. 10)

Distorted into: “𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘲𝘶𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.”

In the source texts, Śakti is the initiatrix.
She moves first.
She leads the dance of creation.
Śiva without her is inert,
pure potential with no expression.

𝐓𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐜 𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫: 𝐟𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫𝐲 - 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐲.

This is a world apart from how much of modern “polarity coaching” frames things.

What we often see today is a fusion of Jungian archetypes (animus/anima), patriarchal social coding, and heteronormative relationship coaching, dressed up in Ta***ic language.

Out of that mix comes the distortion and control under the mask of spirituality.
Who are the ones defending this distortion with the most vigor?
The men and women who profit the most from perpetuating patriarchal conditioning.

But this is not Ta**ra.
In fact, it is everything that Śakti will burn down, again and again.
This is a distortion that will never stand in the flames of truth.

True Ta**ra teaches union, not hierarchy.
The polarity of Śiva and Śakti is not about human gender dynamics and never was.

It is about the union of stillness and movement, consciousness and energy, silence and sound (cosmic principles that dissolve into oneness when realized within).

Ta**ra, as the texts actually say,
begins with Śakti leading.

Always.

-Sarah Gorman

𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐧:𝘞𝘦 𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘨𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘊𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘮 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘗𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘜𝘴𝘦 𝘐𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘎𝘰𝘰𝘥We are past the days of polite requests. We...
03/04/2025

𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐖𝐡𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐧:
𝘞𝘦 𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘉𝘦𝘨𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘊𝘭𝘢𝘪𝘮 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘗𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘭𝘦𝘨𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘜𝘴𝘦 𝘐𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘎𝘰𝘰𝘥

We are past the days of polite requests. We are past the days of soft invitations to “reflect” on your privilege while the world burns. We are begging you—demanding you—to acknowledge the power you hold and use it for something other than silence.

𝙄𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪.

Not just the overt abusers.
Not just the loud bigots.

𝗬𝗼𝘂—the one who stays complacent as you watch basic human rights be stripped from the people around you. And pretend like this is some far past thing. Or that you don’t see it.

𝗬𝗼𝘂—the one who turns your head when the women around you, the people of color, the vulnerable, are gasping for air under systems built to serve you at their expense. Or worse, put out marketing so you profit off your continued lies.

And when we cry out? When we say, this is unjust, this is violent, this is oppression—you have the audacity to deflect. You tell us it’s “other men.” You imply we are overreacting. You twist the narrative to suggest that we are the ones consumed by victimhood, as if your comfort matters more than our survival.

But let’s be clear. What you’re doing is numbing yourself. You’re turning a blind eye—not to protect us, not even to protect yourself—but because feeling the truth would shatter the illusion that your neutrality makes you innocent.

𝙄𝙩 𝙙𝙤𝙚𝙨𝙣’𝙩.

This is affecting you. The erosion of rights, the slow decay of humanity, the emboldening of hate—it touches your mother, your daughters, your nieces, your friends. The women around you. The people of color around you. The future generations that will remember your name.

𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙖 𝙘𝙝𝙤𝙞𝙘𝙚.

Right now, you are actively crafting your legacy. Not by silencing those who dare to speak against you, but by deciding what kind of man you will be.

Be the kind of man that artists will write about. That painters will immortalize on canvas. That future generations will carve into marble—not as a warning, but as a tribute to courage.

And since I know how this works, since I know how the male gaze moves through this world, I’ve added a photo of me sc****ly clad against a backdrop of clouds—because that will draw more of your eyes here. Because it takes the erotic to get you to pay attention.

But I beg you—do not just feed off of the feminine that you find erotic, that pleases you. Do not mistake her power for her ability to turn you on or submit to you. The true power of the feminine is what is unleashed when she is safe to do so—when she is free to rise, to create, to move without fear. And that safety? That safety is what you must provide, not as an act of control, but as an act of devotion.

And yet, we live in a world where it is easier for a man to push block on a woman he claims to love rather than respect and trust that the words she is reflecting to him could be in his highest good to hear. Instead of receiving her truth, he will villainize and silence her—not because she is wrong, but because his own unmet inner feminine is too afraid to face an emotion she is not yet ready to embody.

The rage, the grief, the vulnerability—he cannot hold it, so he casts her out.

𝗕𝘂𝘁 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗱𝗶𝗱𝗻’𝘁?

What if, instead of running, you stood in the fire?
What if you met the mirror she holds up with curiosity instead of fear? 
What if you stopped numbing yourself long enough to feel?

𝐁𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬.

Because when history asks, Where were the good men?—you don’t want to be the one who only spoke when it was already too late.

Bro, I’m like the Adam Sandler of social media influencers right now. -Me, to myself after I built a social media follow...
03/03/2025

Bro, I’m like the Adam Sandler of social media influencers right now.

-Me, to myself after I built a social media following around giving absolutely zero f&cks & my vids/photos/posts started getting 50-100k views monthly and organically built my audience based on authenticity & presence rather than a performance I’m putting on for yall.

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