10/29/2025
☠️ Most male embodiment coaches can’t tell you the truth about embodying the warrior because they’ve never had their embodiment tested on the battlefield. But they sure will try.
Honestly, they’re not necessarily trying to lie…they just don’t understand how ignorant they really are.
((And in this, they forget what a blessing that their ancestors DID fight to create a legacy where their sons never had to.))
Honestly, most only know how to pick up their sword to protect their own ego… but when you ask them to pick up their sword and sacrifice their comfort for those with the smallest voices and the least privilege in our culture, they will balk.
Theyll tell you how they ALMOST joined the military but they couldnt do the whatever their excuse is (discipline).
Men loooovvveee to tell me that one 🤮
No, they don’t want to even hear about how men hurt women and children…and theyre definitely not going to talk about it. And if they DO talk about it, it’s always these other men.
Because they’re “Good Men”, not like these “Bad Men” out there. The “Bad Men”, the boogey men, the other men that totally arent them, right? And definitely not any of their friends. No never that.
They speak of divine masculine and embodied power, but they’ve only ever practiced it in workshops, not in the places where hesitation costs lives or silence means surrender.
They make big shows of grunting and growling and flexing their muscles. They think learning how to unlock their voice and Rawr is the lesson.
They’ve read the poetry but never felt the pulse of adrenaline in their throat while deciding whether to fight, flee, or forgive.
They know only trauma response, NEVER how to wield power while in that response.
A true warrior knows rules of engagement.
He knows escalation of force, not as theory but as instinct.
Presence first.
Voice second.
Stance third.
Weapon last.
The warrior knows the true cost of drawing the sword. The cost of a human life. On the world and on the soul.
And here’s the truth no one wants to say out loud.
The most dangerous men are not the ones who’ve gone to war.
Not the ones who know their capacity for violence.
They’re the ones who call in power without the discipline to hold it.
The ones who flirt with rage and dominance without ever meeting the part of themselves capable of real violence.
Because if you don’t know your own capacity for destruction, you can’t be trusted to wield power safely.
You know who usually does know that capacity? Their ex-girlfriends.
You know the ones, the ones they don’t talk about.
The ones who brought up their deepest & darkest. The ones who led them to change.
The ones who held the burden of their lack of integration.
The priestesses who showed up to love them back into their bodies, and instead they blazed her temple to the ground.
But they aren’t going to tell you about that.
In fact, they’ll do everything in their power to silence her. Make her wrong, call HER evil.
Because in these embodiment coaches’ closets are all the skeletons of women who carried their unclaimed rage, their lack of discipline, their unintegrated power while they were trying to figure it out.
How do I know this?
Because those women have found reclamation in sharing their stories with me.
Again and again.
What they don’t understand is that there’s a certain kind of training required to truly know your violence in a safe way.
It’s not done through breathwork and mirrors.
It’s done through meeting other warriors.
Facing someone who has been as well trained as you.
Feeling your body’s instinct to dominate, to destroy, and choosing honor instead.
That’s where the real embodiment happens.
When you’ve been hit, blood in your mouth, vision tunneling, and you can still breathe, still choose your code.
That’s when you earn the right to speak about the warrior.
Until then, it’s just theater.
And I’m not clapping.
So here I am, challenging you.
Prove it on the battlefield, boys.
(Get ya 🍿 for the comment section.)
