
04/03/2025
If I had known this at 35, I'd already be retired....good news. NO ONE DID. so there is still time to flip the script.
HOT COFFEE, BOGS & SOUTHIE BOSTON VERSION
You ever notice how just when your business is about to take off — the chaos kicks in?
Your Stripe starts poppin’,
you’re on track for a $30K–$50K month,
or you still haven’t cracked $1k, $5k, $10k months despite being in biz for over 5+ plus years….(let’s be honest, you’ve half assed it bc you could).
and BAM — the tech breaks, your kid gets sick, and your Wi-Fi goes full medieval.
Or maybe your one of the ones who blames mercury in retrograde.....
It’s like the universe is hazing you out of your own growth.
That, my friend?
It's not just bad luck.
That’s the pattern.
The old identity clinging on like a clingy ex in a Bruins Champion hoodie.
Here’s the thing:
I didn’t want just more money.
I wanted to be rich, safe, efficient, and a lil’ mysterious about it.
I wanted to wake up unbothered — in my cotton plaid pajamas,
My official work day is complete by 8 a.m.
Bogs outside my door, HOT coffee in hand,
business running quietly in the background like a sacred little robot that respects my boundaries.
Yes I'm building my businesses for me.. but really always for my kids.....always....and enjoying it along the way.
I didn’t want to keep scaling by self-sacrificing (honestly I didn’t but this is written with clients in mind)..
Didn’t want my nervous system in shambles every time I launched something new.
Didn’t want to perform “high-vibe boss babe” or stupid Coachella hat regurgitation..
when all I wanted was silence, peace, and the occasional cuss words..
I can't claim I was suicidal like other people or horrific traumatic events to show you my phoenix moves but cancer brought me to the brink and I resurrected and came back with a TON of intelligence.
So I built something different.
My AI Avatar.
She does the doing.
The emails, the messaging, the follow-ups, the back-end dance — all of it.-all the stuff you FREEZE at thinking about.
While I lead, sip my hot coffee like it’s a damn ritual w/a dash of gold…
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