01/05/2026
10 Steps to a Truly Empowering Birth
Many women today approach birth feeling disconnected, fearful, or piecing information together from social media. And while none of that is wrong, it rarely leads to a deeply empowering birth experience.
Birth stays with youâfor life.
You will carry it in your heart and mind forever. So prepare for it the way you would for something sacred⌠like your wedding day.
After over a decade of supporting birthsâand birthing my own fourâhereâs what truly matters:
1. Connect to your body & mind in pregnancy
Nourishment (non-negotiable), hydration, movement, bodywork (massage, chiro, pelvic floor therapy, acupuncture), mental health support, and quality supplements.
2. Your birth team matters
Talk to people who know birth. Learn about providers and settings. Choose wisely. And yesâhire a doula (look into insurance coverage!)
3. Consider midwifery care
Seriously. Look into it. I mean it.
4. Take quality childbirth education
Independent. In-depth. Partner included. Skip generic hospital classes.
5. Fill your mind with positive birth stories
Books, podcasts, videos. Stop consuming fearâscary stories wonât serve you.
6. Have a birth plan & know your options
Ask questions. Advocate. Know all the options available to you. Never settle.
7. Do pre-labor prep
Movement, bodywork, dates, tinctures, rest. De-stress. Trust your body. Avoid unnecessary inductions.
8. Honor early labor
Rest, nourish, then MOVE. Donât rush to the hospital. Let hormones find their rhythm.
9. Balance in labor
Hydration + electrolytes, protein, movement and rest. Upright positions helpâbut rest matters too.
10. Surrender
Birth is surrender. Sometimes plans change. Trust will carry youâno matter where birth takes you.
⨠I teach all of this (and so much more) in my private childbirth education sessions.
DM me to book your consultation and letâs prepare for your birth the right way.