06/03/2025
ππΆ New Baby, Older Kids: Navigating the Beautiful Chaos! πΆπ
Huge congratulations to all the parents out there who just welcomed a new little one AND have older kids at home! We know it's a mix of immense joy and a whole lot of "how are we going to do this?!" exhaustion. You're not alone!
Bringing a newborn into a household with existing kids is an adventure. Here are a few tips to help your whole family adjust to this exciting new chapter:
Involve them early: Before and after baby arrives, talk about what to expect. Give your older kids special "Big Sibling" jobs!
Prioritize 1-on-1 time: Even 10-15 minutes of undivided attention with your older child makes a HUGE difference. Reassure them they're still your favorite!
Embrace "helpers": Let them assist with safe, age-appropriate tasks. Praise their efforts!
Acknowledge their feelings: It's normal for older siblings to feel a mix of emotions, including jealousy. Validate those feelings without judgment.
Lean on your village: Don't be afraid to ask for help! Grandparents, friends, neighbors β let them lend a hand with the older kids or bring a meal.
Be kind to yourself: This is a marathon, not a sprint. Lower your expectations, focus on what matters, and celebrate the small wins!
You're doing an amazing job adjusting to this beautiful new dynamic. It's a journey of love, learning, and a little less sleep! β€οΈ
What are YOUR best tips for helping older siblings adjust to a new baby? Share your wisdom below! π