01/21/2026
My post from last night:
Rinken was admitted to the hospital again today. I get many questions about our stay / journey so I'm going to try and do a much better job of event telling while we are here this time around.
Yesterday Rinken started to show some signs she may be getting sick. She starts to get super tired, crabby, says her head and tummy hurt and her eyes get big black circles around them. These are the first "watch" signs I look for.
This morning Rinken woke up and she was a tad bit warm. I took her temperature and she was normal so we proceeded to school with business as normal. I let her teacher know a head of time what was going on so she knew. We have to be a bit tricky with her because if she hears us talking about it then she's automatically sick, and smart! I dropped her off and headed back to work. At 9:00 I got a message from her teacher that she had a slight fever. We talked about it and made a plan. at about 9:45 I got another message that her fever was now over 100. I finished up my work meeting, packed up my work things and headed to get her from school.
We left school and stopped at home to get our things. I always have a blow up air mattress in the car and ready. I grabbed some clothes, our shower kit, some blankets and pillows, chargers and electronics and headed south.
We checked into the New Pediatric Emergency Room at Sanford in Sioux Falls around 12:45. Let me take a second to say WOW. This new place is top notch and just what South Dakota needed! Within a few minutes we were taken back to the new ER for Kids.
Child Life and her nurses got started right away. Then we saw our amazing doc. They have some of the best here too! We made our plan, typical standard things for her: labs, blood cultures, UA, urine culture, strep test and viral panel. Also throw in an x-ray for good measures.
Round one starts for trying to get an IV. They give her some meds to help her relax and then It's a wrestling match with 3 nurses, myself and then the person drawing the blood. Rinken wins, well sorta. Three pokes and no success.
Break time and while resting lets try x-ray. 5 of them because now she's so tired, and "drunk" from meds that we can't get her positioned right. Done.
Now time for a different relax med and round two for getting an IV. This time they called in the big guns. Our favorite PA came right in and boom we have an IV. Well, about 30 mins later this time.
Now it's time for Rinke to rest while we wait on lab work to start coming in. Once about half of them come back, our doc comes back in and surprise surprise we get a room. Plan of action is to get her up stairs and start some IV antibiotics.
We arrive in our new room in the castle about 4ish. Then we start the admission process. Questions and questions and more questions. Then the nurse leaves and the Resident comes in. New resident so we tell our story, however this time she already knew most of it which was AMAZING. We finish up with her and our Doctor comes in.
Doctor and I help talk over things with the Resident and we make our plan:
-- Rinken has pneumonia in her lower right lung.
-- Rinken has a few different viral things going on.
--IV antibiotics, IV antiviral medication, IV fluids all ordered.
Next up is the nurse. She comes in and starts to get her IV things going. RINKEN HATES THIS. We are learning she says, "it hurts" and cry's when in reality, she's scared of the unknown. We are now working on this with her.
In between things, I work as much as I can...
Now it's rest time. Food is ordered, I run down and get my vehicle from ER to Castle and settle in. By 7:10ish she's finally passed out and I go to the family lounge to start working.
It's exhausting. But I will continue to do it over and over and over.
Most questions / comments / message we get are: How can I help? What do you need? Is she going to be ok? Why is this always happening? I will address all of these in the morning as I'm so tired I need some sleep.
Thank you for reading this far.....I know it's long but it just is a small glimpse of what we do on our stays.
I'll post more tomorrow......
Em