04/30/2026
๐โ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ก ๐๐ โ๐โ๐๐ ๐ถโ๐๐๐๐๐ก๐๐ ๐ถ๐๐ข๐๐ก๐๐โ ๐๐๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐น๐๐๐ ๐ก ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฆ ๐๐๐๐กโ๐ ๐๐๐ โ๐๐๐๐ก๐๐, ๐คโ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ โ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ก๐ โ๐๐๐ ๐ โ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ค ๐๐๐ก๐๐๐.
In 1789, the very first first lady of the United States, Martha Washington (1731โ1802), wrote to Mercy Otis Warrenโa writer and strong supporter of American libertyโdescribing her longing for home, Mount Vernon. Near the end of the letter, she added a remark that neatly summed up the quiet grit behind the sacrifices she had made for her country:
โI am still determined to be cheerful and to be happy in whatever situation I may be, for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions and not upon our circumstances; we carry the seeds of one or the other about with us, in our minds, wherever we go.โ
It was a philosophy that served her well in peace and in war.
๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐ฌ. ๐๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ๐ง
The daughter of John and Frances Dandridge, Martha grew up about 35 miles from Williamsburg, Virginiaโs colonial capital. As a girl, she rode horses, practiced social skills, and learned to read and write. She grew into a strong-willed, bright, charming, and attractive young woman, with a penchant for reading the Bible daily.
At 18, Martha met Daniel Custis, who was 20 years older and the son of a wealthy landowner. At first, the elder Custis opposed the marriage, considering the Dandridges a cut below in the social strata, but he eventually gave way, and the couple married in 1750. Daniel Custis died just seven years later, leaving Martha the mother of four young children, all of whom she would outlive. With her husbandโs death, she also became the owner of more than 17,500 acres of land and several hundred slaves, making her one of the wealthiest women in the colonies.
In 1759, Martha married Gen. George Washington, and they made Mount Vernon their permanent home. Evidence shows the two were attracted to each other and that this attraction deepened with the passing years. When war with Britain erupted and Washington became the general of the American forces, Martha, an ardent patriot, played a key role in his command.
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