05/23/2025
What 28 Years of Chronic Illness Taught Me
: Lessons from Lyme and Beyond
Having had Lyme disease and chronic illness for nearly three decades has shaped every part of who I am, body, mind, and spirit. The journey has been brutal at times, but it’s also been full of unexpected blessings. Here are a few of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned:
I am only in control of my attitude, not my symptoms.
I had daily symptoms while I was sick and on my healing journey. I chose to focus on the fact that I knew I was healing.
I don’t get to choose how our body feels, but I get to choose how we respond.
My relationship with God through Jesus has been my anchor, knowing that God is with me, He loves me and that He has a plan and purpose for my struggles.
Romans 8:28-” And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[a] have been called according to his purpose.”
Now, decades later, I can see better God’s purpose for my struggles with undiagnosed Lyme. Because of my journey, I can help and guide others as they travel on this same path from sickness to health.
I am not in control of the process of healing.
Healing has never followed a straight line. It's been more of a roller coaster ride of symptoms, setbacks, unexpected breakthroughs, and long pauses. I had to release the idea that I can control the pace. Instead, I learned to trust the process and lean into God’s timing. And ask and pray about what God wanted me to learn from this journey and what He wants to teach me.
I am not in control of others’ understanding of my illness.
One of the hardest parts of chronic illness is how invisible it can be. I’ve faced misunderstanding, judgment, and distance from people I thought would stand by me. But I’ve also discovered peace in letting go of needing to be understood and clarity about who is truly meant to be in my circle of relationships.
I want you to know you are seen and heard. This journey is not for the faint of heart. You can enjoy the journey and get to the otherside.